Hoots of Wisdom

my boyfriend's divorced mom likes my dad and always points it out to me since she met him earlier this year. My mom and her do not get along and both do not like each other but my dad likes to be polite even if he is not so in my boyfriend's mom's eyes she thinks my dad actually wants to be friends and do things with her. It's very odd to me that over the past few weeks she keeps trying to get my dad to come over to her house and keeps extending invitations to events in hopes my dad tags along. I am not sure what's going on but I have 4 other family members, none of which my boyfriend's mom ever invites anywhere, so it feels like she is singling out my dad because she has a crush on him. I had to lie to her to turn down an invitation extended to my dad because she called me when I was sitting next to my mom and I am pretty sure if I actually asked my dad if he wanted to go to her house or to these events and he chose to go, that my mom would feel pretty upset. My boyfriend's mom always talks badly about my mom as well and tries to mother me how she feels my mom is lacking. obviously this could just be how she is and she wants to be friends with someone from my family because she likes me, or if it's because she's trying to manipulate a rather sinister scenario.

I know it's too soon to tell, but what signs do I look for to see if she is actually interested in my dad and wants to drive a wedge between my parents?!

I have had 3 dreams about being pregnant.

The first one I was pregnant and just curious how it was possible because it's not possible due to the fact I never slept with anyone but I was so happy

The second dream I find out I'm pregnant, still don't know who the father is, and am anxious about being pregnant. then 3 months into it I am told I was never actually pregnant by the doctor and was devastated

The third dream I am at home giving birth. It was a very fast labor. My family suggest I bring the baby to the hospital to have the vitals checked. At that point I was curious who the father was and finally somehow realized who the father was and then the nurse comes in with my new baby girl whose face is content. I was so happy to have her.

What is going on!!! None of the dream interpretations I've read have explained each of these scenarios. I'm happy that I finally had the baby in this dream and it wasn't a false pregnancy and discovered the father. My dream found resolution. So idk what's going on!

My venus is in 29 degrees gemini which is in the 12th house... What does this mean?

-cancer rising/cancer mercury[house 1], Leo sun [house 2], Virgo Mars[house 3], Libra Jupiter[house 4], Scorpio Pluto[house 5], Capricorn Moon/Uranus/Neptune[house 7], Aquarius Saturn[house 8], Pisces Midheaven [house 9] Gemini Venus [house 12]

Out of the blue, this guy has started getting possessive over me.. I was wondering how to manage this... I made him jealous by accident and since then he's been insecure.

His chart is libra involved (sun, moon, mercury) then his ascendency is cancer, his venus scorpio, and his mars Sagittarius. With venus in the 5th.

I've heard scorpio venus gets incredibly possessive and jealous....

I don't want to change him...I just want to bring out his best qualities...and get over this 3 week period of angst.

How do you communicate with someone who has recently become possessive over you? How do I say and show him that there's nothing he has to worry about without accusing him of anything or making matters worse? It's only recently that he has started acting this way and I would like to effectively get to the bottom of it.

I'm mostly concerned with aspects that show whether someone is rough or gentle in bed. The sexology websites lack in depth info so help me pot favor?!?!?

My crush got me a raise at work...how on earth do I repay him?! We're not dating or anything but I really wanna show him how much it means to me that he went out if his way to get me a raise. Guys what is something you would want in return for doing such a kind gesture?

Last week my coworker took two things off my receipt at work and upgraded my food to the larger size then said it was a token of his appreciation...now this week he pulls me to the side and asks if I want a raise and said he'd talk to my boss to get me one! I didn't ask for it, he just randomly offered... Is there more behind these two actions than just being a friendly coworker? He's one of the assistant managers now so he has rule of who works til 8:30 and who works til 10:00 on weekend nights and ALWAYS scouts me out to ask if I'm working late with him. I'm not crazy to think there's meaning behind these actions, right?

This guy has complimented me only 3 times and every.single.time...EVERY ONE... I become a deer in the headlights and I say NOTHING!!! I'm afraid of this because I could have sworn he told me he liked me and when I became silent he said "just kidding" and there was a pretty long awkward silence between him saying both those things... So how do I overcome being silent and shocked before I lose my chance?!

I work at the desk at Domino's. I've been genuine with customers, I remember their name, I sometimes give common customers a better coupon, and I always take care of them but some of them NEVER tip. What are some things that make you more likely to tip someone if you rarely ever do tip?

words cut like knives, but silence makes the heart deaf.

With every word you speak at least I get to hear your breath.

Your silence is so numbing,

to the paint my heartbeat fades.

Would you please just stop killing me

and stab me with the wounds of your word's blades?

does my poem make sense and what's a good title?

People fall like stars in the night sky. They're there for a second but so easily say goodbye. My heart is as lonely as that big big moon. An astronauts footprints always remain even after leaving me so soon. I'm lost in this empty space where it's always so dark, you can live in the smallest galaxy and one light year has never felt oh so far. I used to love people as bright as the sun, but stars are deceiving- they die like every one.

does my poem make sense and what's a good title?

People fall like stars in the night sky. They're there for a second but so easily say goodbye. My heart is as lonely as that big big moon. An astronauts footprints always remain even after leaving me so soon. I'm lost in this empty space where it's always so dark, you can live in the smallest galaxy and one light year has never felt oh so far. I used to love people as bright as the sun, but stars are deceiving- they die like every one.

who would be compatible with me?

me: sun leo

cap moon

cancer mercury

gemini venus

virgo mars

libra jupiter

aquarius saturn

capricorn uranus& neptune

cancer rising

him:

Taurus sun

Sagittarius moon

Taurus Mercury

Taurus Venus

Aries Mars

virgo jupiter

aquarius saturn

cap neptune/uranus

capricorn rising

strong friendship or strong relationship?

me: sun leo

cap moon

cancer mercury

gemini venus

virgo mars

libra jupiter

aquarius saturn

capricorn uranus& neptune

cancer rising

him:

Taurus sun

Sagittarius moon

Taurus Mercury

Taurus Venus

Aries Mars

virgo jupiter

aquarius saturn

cap neptune/uranus

capricorn rising

me: sun leo

cap moon

cancer mercury

gemini venus

virgo mars

libra jupiter

aquarius saturn

capricorn uranus& neptune

cancer rising

him:

Taurus sun

Sagittarius moon

Taurus Mercury

Taurus Venus

Aries Mars

virgo jupiter

aquarius saturn

cap neptune/uranus

capricorn rising

Also, is there any level of compatibility?

me: sun leo

cap moon

cancer mercury

gemini venus

virgo mars

him:

Taurus sun

Sagittarius moon

Taurus Mercury

Taurus Venus

Aries Mars

My name is Jessica and it was the number 1 baby name for my birth year, yet I still love it.

What name is classic and do you think stands the test of time?

Female/Male