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My cat beowulf is a 4 year old female cat in perfect health. Every time I clean out her litter box she pees on the floor right next to it. I use enzyme cleaner and clean the damn box every day, yet she continues to do this. Does she want f'ing attention? Does she have some sort of kitty down syndrome? I am at my wits end and I love her to death but I feel like I have to give her away because my neighbors keep complaining about it (we share vents and a bathroom wall where her box is)

I have had my ears gauged to 5/8th for over a year now. I wear silicone plugs and clean them regularly. Out of nowhere, my right lobe has become really sore and pus and blood are coming out of it. I took the plug out and used a vinegar soak and sea salt soaks, but it feels worse than before and the hole is shrinking rapidly. It really hurts, I don't know what else to try. I know peroxide and neosporin and alcohol are all big no's for piercings, but this is ridiculous it has been completely healed for over a year...why is this happening and what can I do??

place for a 24 year old girl to go and meet people? Not to pick them up, just to socialize. I've been here a while and I feel strange going to bars alone. Is there a good place to make friends?

Alright, I'm not big on asking strangers for advice, but no one I know has helped me so far so maybe someone has something helpful. My sister and I (I am 24-she is 16) are in Asia because she is modelling and I am here to make sure she doesn't get in trouble. We have been here 2 months and before coming here she was a great kid, never did anything wrong. Well her new 'bff' here is a girl her age that smokes, does drugs, drinks, and has sex. Now, I'm not saying I didn't do that at their age, but I didn't do it halfway across the world with strangers! So my sister has become incredibly mean and volatile because of it. My parents gave her a curfew and I tell her to just come home to tell them over the phone she is here, but she is to busy dancing and drinking to do that! My parents are livid, I am livid. She yells at me constantly and I am not trying to be the bad guy. Does anyone have any suggestions to get us back to just being sisters? (I don't know if this affects it-but because of how she has been acting my parents are not letting her go to NYC to model and she is being grounded as soon as we get home-this would not have happened had she complied to the curfew, because my parents don't know the rest of the stuff she does) Someone please help me, I have never felt so powerless over anything.

Graduating from college. I have until December and then I will be an adult. I am in no way ready. I have more than enough education, but I really don't want to leave college. I feel like the real world just makes people angry and bitter, I don't know any happy adults, and I am not exactly a ball of sunshine now, so I am scared of what is going to happen. Does anyone have any advice?

I am constantly seeing people answering piercing questions giving terrible advice, especially to use things like hydrogen peroxide and alcohol to clean them. I have 21 piercings currently, and have had more and every piercer has specifically warned against using these. People who don't know don't need to answer.