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I'm very quiet in person, so i prefer to talk to people through the computer. i love to help people. I defend others, but when it comes to defending myself, forget it. i just can't do it. =[ feel free to add me as a contact. i'll probably add you as one of mine. It's really hard to describe myself. is anyone else having this much trouble? oh, and i'm an introvert. feel free to send me an email!

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    My mom met him several weeks ago (knowing that we wanted to be more than friends) and liked him quite a lot. She wasn't fully comfortable with his race, but she believed she'd be able to get past it. She even said that I "could do a lot worse".

    My dad found out a few days later. He wasn't okay with it at first, but then he said he'd give Jacob a chance. That's all I could ask for and I was ecstatic. This occurred on a Friday night. The following Monday when I woke up, my mom told me that they had both changed their minds and that they thought it best for us to be just friends (in a way that meant that I didn't have a choice). Apparently, they decided that I'd be labeled as white trash and that white guys wouldn't want to date me after I was Jacob's girlfriend. They're afraid that all the black guys would see me as the white girl who will date black guys, and I'd become some sort of trophy. (My high school is 65% black) My Dad convinced my Mom of this. Otherwise, she'd still be perfectly okay with it.

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    I don't know how to convince them that none of the things they're afraid of would happen. There are quite a few bi racial couples at my school and no one cares. As for white guys not wanting to date me, why would they want me to date someone who is that prejudiced? When I've stated those things, they just go silent, but they hold firm to their decision. Please help me convince them that there is nothing to worry about and that they should allow us to be more than friends...

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    My father yells at my mother. He has my Mother brainwashed, she has hardly any perception of self-worth. It's not uncommon for him to make her cry.

    My brother's girlfriend has done a lot of good for her. She at least has gotten my mother to stand up for herself a bit. (My brother and his girlfriend are 20, I'm 14.)

    After talking to my Mom several times about my father, my brother's girlfriend noticed a trend. Mom always used me as the excuse as to why she stayed. You see, Dad has the major income, and without it we couldn't live the way we do (we're middle-class).

    I realize that I can't make my Mom get a divorce, but is there any way that I can convince her that I would be fine with it?

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    The boy (justin) is smoking in the dream. he's usually walking past me and we're on my school campus. every time, i ask him what he's doing. and in each dream, i get progressively more angry (in the first dream, i had a curious tone. in last nights dream, i sounded worried, fed up, and hysterical combined). last night was the first time he got caught by someone other than me. we were walking past the counselor's office when i said "what are you doing!?" and these two girls turned around. apparently one of them knew him and got the counselor's attention. the counselor took him into his office and i was supposed to continue on to class. i was too worried about him, so i didnt. but that's pretty much where the dream ends. but the rest of the dream was focused on him but i never saw him (i kept thinking about him, but he never appeared again).

    i don't think that he would ever smoke in real life, considering he's 14 almost 15 and has already fought leukemia. plus, it just doesnt seem like him. so the dream has a deeper meaning than me being worried about him smoking.

    the dreams are never the exact same, but it's the same basis (i find him somewher on campus smoking). it's never in the same place and i dont think it has the same people. and there aren't usually many people around us, just a handful.

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