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My 13 year old son left his Facebook up so I took a little snoop. His last post read as follows "Home alone and need entertainment..message me if you want a tbh from me;)"

I'm assuming It's a drug/sexual teenage thing. Can anyone tell me what it is?

My fiance has always been weird about his phone (constantly deleting texts, clearing histories, etc..) I never thought anything of it until now. About a month ago I found a phone number of a girl named "Karissa" in his phone. I calmly asked who she was and he said it was a girl he used to work with in another town. He said she texted him not knowing he had a family (me and our son) and they were just having small talk. OK that was fine with me but still a little weird. He deleted her number in front of me and I moved on. Now this morning I looked at his phone because it lit up and I noticed he has been texting a "Karissa" again BUT according to the conversation, she is from his CURRENT workplace. The only thing the texts really say is "I can't do tomorrow" and "Aww okay :(". There's other texts too but they don't really make sense. Now I have yet to confront him. I'm wondering if I should wait it out and see if I can find more leading texts, or confront him now?

Basically my ex boyfriend (who I have not been with for over a year) is claiming he's the father of my child. It is physically impossible for him to be the father considering my son is 2 weeks old and I haven't been with my ex for over a year. My sons real father has signed the birth certificate and everything but my ex says he's taking me to court to take MY baby away. I don't understand HOW he can possibly do this? I know he's not the father but I am wondering if he can even demand a DNA test for something so absurd and ridiculous.

My doctor works for a clinic and they don't answer the phones after 7pm..So if something goes wrong and it's late at night, I'd have no way to contact her. Can I just go straight to the ER if something feels wrong? I'm 7 months and scared of something going wrong and not knowing what to do because I can't get ahold of my doctor!

Am I the only person who gets annoyed by these questions? If you had sex then YES there is a possibility that you are pregnant..Take a test! lol.

I haven't been eating a ton or anything but I've gained SO MUCH WEIGHT! Anybody have a similar experience?

Do you ever get your clothes on and makeup and hair done and then end up staying in all day because you have nothing to do? -__-

Just wondering why people come on here to ask other people if they are pregnant before they even take a pregnancy test.

Just wondering if anyone has taken flagly (aka metronidazole) in the 2nd trimester of pregnancy? I took it in my first trimester and it made me really sick, but I have taken one pill so far and I seem fine. Did you have a reaction to it and is it safe for baby? I figure my doc wouldn't prescribe me something unsfae for my baby.

Seriously.

My dr scheduled me for a colposcopy but I am a little weary..I have heard they aren't too safe in pregnancy. She scheduled it because my pap showed i have lsis.

I am so confused. My pay-stubs say I have three exemptions but I have no idea what that means. I am not married yet and I am pregnant. Will i have to change my exemptions after I have the baby?? Will I have to pay taxes at the end of the year?

I am 17 weeks and going to be house sitting for a week. The people have 6 indoor cats and 2 dogs. I won't be changing the litter, but is it safe to be around that many cats?

I am 16 weeks and just found out I am having a boy. I bought him about 10 outfits that were all on sale. Do you think it's too early to buy him stuff? When did you start shopping for your baby?

Well, my boyfriend/baby daddy lives an hour away, and we usually see one another 1-2 times a week. But sometimes when I ask him to come down he says "maybe" and this really upsets me. I would just like a yes or no answer. Sometimes he uses excuses like "I have no gas" or "I am stressed and need alone time". These conversations usually end in me becoming really upset/crying. Am I just over-reacting? I understand that he can't come EVERY single day, but a spontaneous visit every once in a while would be nice.

I'm 14 weeks and not showing. I've always had a little meat on my bones (5'6 and 140 pounds pre-pregnancy). I was just wondering when did you start showing? I know every woman is different, but I am anxious to actually start looking pregnant instead of extra chubby!

Long story short, my mom has always been dependent on other people to support her. She has been on and off drugs for so long that I can't tell if she's using them anymore or not. She doesn't have a car and lives with her irresponsible brother who also has no car OR job. she recently got a job at my work and I've been buying her lunch and sometimes driving her home. Now she claims she needs to borrow money from me to ride the bus. I've always loaned her money when I have it, but I feel so wrong doing it because I don't know if she'll use it for the bus or something else.

What do you think I should do? I know she's at least using weed because she's smoking it with my 14 year old cousin. I'm pretty sure she's using harder drugs too..I'm also 4 months pregnant and can't afford to loan money all the time.

How can I really motivate myself to save my money? I have a problem with spending my money when I get it.

A (certain person) in my family had my 14 year old cousin pee in a cup for her, and she used it for a drug test so she could get a job. This has me SO enraged that I was wondering if I could somehow report her so that they make her re-test? I think it's ridiculous and she does NOT deserve to have that job.

Also, she got a job at MY work, so I know all the managers.

There's this guy at work who keeps hitting on me and asking me to hang out with him..I keep telling him that I have a boyfriend, and he knows that I'm pregnant obviously. It's starting to make me feel weird..but he's a nice person and I don't want to be mean..How can I tell him to back off in a nice way?