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I am a young women who has not yet had

children , I want them it just hasn't happened / 5 years waiting . I often feel that the women I am around that have children talk to me differently than other women without kids. Almost as if I'm ignorant , I grew up in a large family 4 sisters , eleven girl cousins. My grandmother also babysat many children and that was my second home.i know more than most about children and their ways. It really is hard to feel comfortable making friends when I feel I'm being talked down to also they always tell me not to have kids ?? I think it's the most awful thing to say! So do you women with children think us women without are a bunch of dummies?

I don't know how many times I have heard reference to girl on girl action as being exciting to men/women , but then those same people have a problem with guy on guy action ? Is this just a double standard I am in no way taking sides it is just something I have asked myself enough times I thought I should ask all of you , Why do you think people are this way ?

It is often hard for me to understand how the government got itself into such a position as this. In my house if you can't afford to go out to eat you don't go next door to your neighbor and borrow 200 dollars to go out ,,,you just don't go. So why does the government have such a hard time budgeting ? if they don't have the money to do something why are they still doing it? and why are we letting them? I am sure the answers I get will be very interesting due to the question so let's have it please educate me on this subject so that I may understand why the government can just do what it wants with our money.

I used google search and found the numbers location but I can't find out who the user is. long story short my mother in law and sister in law have been harassed repeatedly by my father in laws new wife, she used to do it personally but got caught so now she uses acquaintances and friends to harass them by text and facebook , it has recently got way out of hand and this person has threatened the lives of my nephews and niece. Police say she should have text back "stop", because otherwise they can't say that it is harassmentnt. My sis in law did try to contact the number after the first text but the cowards wouldn't answer her or anyone else for that matter.The police said they would contact the person and tell them to stop and then if they do it again she can file a police report against them? ....that I don't understand it was a threat on children. So now I would like to know how to take care of the situation and find out who is behind this so she can file a defamation and harassment suit against them. any body know of a way to find this out,???

she already paid one of those silly sites that is supposed to give you the info but it still came up unlisted.

My husband is filling out a resume and we are both stumped on what he should write for career objectives in the oil field industry he is looking to be a floor men in the field.

my friend recently found she was pregnant, not really expecting it but excepting it for the time. She did tell me that if she finds out the babies father is a certain guy she was with she will be aborting the pregnancy because he was a crazy person ,( no longer together) On the other hand if it is the person she is with right now she will keep it. I am just torn because I have very strong feelings about abortion, I am not sure I can deal with the conversation, my husband and I have been trying 5 years now and It really is a punch in the gut to hear her say that, I don't know how to disconnect it from myself I guess any suggestions, I am happy for her but it makes me sick to hear her say she would destroy a life so precious, I understand she would be the one with the responsibility but as a friend I am involved in her life so i don't know what to do or how to handle it.

Ok so I have lived in the same place all my life, I have traveled some here and there as a child. Recently my husband has looked into oil rigging and we think we are wanting to make the move. What I would like to know is what should I be looking forward too? like weather , economics wise, people meeting,,,,,I am 24 lived in missouri all my life I am freaking excited yet very anxious about such a large change in our lives. any tips would be most helpful.

Ok so my organization is horrid along with my consistant procrastination. for example , I paid off my land two months ago and still have not made it to the court house to record my deed. Not that I have not had the time I just have a habit of putting things off, I must confess I do have anxiety issues that I fight with from time to time but that's not the problem. I do fine when I am under pressure , like if I am taking care of children and so forth , but other than that I tend to just put things off and I don't have any strive " to do". Like I will tell myself I am going to go do this this and this after work but then I go home and my plans change, it's like I have nothing to hold me in check and its frustrating because I feel kinda lazy even though I am not I just can't seem to get a schedule going at all. any suggestions? hopefully this wasn't completly confusing.

I have always had this thing about girls getting their boobs done, I don't really agree with them getting them enlarged and all that, I understand when someone may have a reduction and such reconstruction that's a little different in my mind it's not going for the big fake boob look. My problem is my breasts are um.... im not sure how to put it well they don't point forward and this bothers the hell outta me becasue it is obvious often times through my clothing, My question is am I being a hypocrite to consider having them fixed? I don't want to enlarge them I just want them to ya know be more where they are supposed to be facing forward lol I call them my side boobs. But really I have considered it a lot I am a married women so I am not doing it to show them off but I can't help but feel hypocritical about it.

I have been a little curious as to what happens when people owe money , like if someone owed like say schooling, car, medical debt, and then they die? what happens to the debt? does it just dissappear or does the family get stuck with it?

Ok so I tend to get the cold shoulder alot from women in general, I will start off by saying I am not a concieded person but I know that I am good looking. I feel that often times when I enter a room women make snap judgements about me because of my appearance, I am somewhat tall , have very long hair , thin and shapely. Like these people will never approach me to even catch my name, I have had this happen at jewelry parties , and other social occasions , even my own family does this too me, but they make remarks about my looks and such , like oh go eat a cheeseburger, and so on and so forth convos are never just about the weather it's like they gotta dis me first to make themselves feel alright.

So I was wondering is it just me who feels this way or is it just a girl thing to be jealous when you don't feel adequate to the people in the room,

I have had issues with cysts but this really feels different than that pain. After I have sex like with in a few minutes my ovaries will begin to like burn and ache some? This seems kinda off to me , feels like my ovaries are being attacked lol maybe his swimmers are doing this?

I bought a jeep last october and one of the perks was that it had a sirius xm radio installed in it. Deal is it has said numerous times that it is updating and I still don't know who is paying for it? how would I figure this out ? I don't necessarily want to cal the company but I don't want to be ripping off some other poor soul. any one know anything about these doodads?

My husband feels that I tell him " he never this he never that" all the time, And truthfully I probably do say that but not like weekly even, mostly when I am fed up with doing everything myself. For example , he brought home 4 chickens a year and a half ago and still has yet to finish a proper pen for them, they also some how became my chickens?all my responsibility?( Oh yea then he brought home 3 more 5 months ago) He had a two dogs when we married and they two are all my responsibility most of the time, Biggest issue I have is the fixing household things, My bathroom toilet has been leaking for the last month and he knows it , I change out soaking towels twice a day, he has yet to pick up the plumbing parts , I generally would fix but I don't do plumbing because I am unfamiliar with that line of work, I mean i even fixed my own washing machine ( he didn't even try) We both work forty hour jobs on the reg but He has been doing like 70 hours and now uses that as an excuse to do nothing,( I don't mind picking up slack but even when there's no overtime it's the same). my question is how do I get him to do things with out being a "B" and saying he never does anything , I understand why he doesn't want to hear that , but then again I shouldn't have to do everything after I work either, I keep my home pretty clean , I do laundry , actually I'll do just about anything as long as I don't feel I'm being opposed upon or taken advantage of . Any advice would help I guess I'm just stuck on this one .

My husband has finally came to terms with the fact that I do not always wear a bra . I was wondering though what does the general population think...of course men always get sexual but , I look at people and just see people. What do you think , Inappropriate to go with out or not? I don't care one way or the other and maybe it's because Im on the smaller chested side? your thoughts please!

My husband and I have decided that we would like to start looking into reality , mostly foreclosures do to the economy right now it is the perfect time,,,Or so we think? We have never done this before and could probably use some pointers and tips , things to look for watch for listen for,,, We are almost paid off on our property we live on and our home so I think we are ready to do this...any suggestions greatly appreciated.

I have ovarian cysts , not necessarily pcos though , (doc says they are not related to that) problem is, my doctor just keeps doing nothing but offering me the pill, I am not taking the pill period . because I want children, what I am not understanding is if taking the pill stops the cysts while your taking it that doesnt mean when you stop that you won't have them again, also I get a cyst about every month so how do I have a chance of getting pregnant ,,, have I missed some information here or am I totally lost in getting medical help , ( surgery for the cysts is not applicable because it would cause scarring on the ovaries ) I have had one rupture and it was some gawd awful pain to bare.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!! much thanx

I'm 23 I am married have no children , I will have 4 acres of land a house and 2 vehicles paid off this year. I am still freaking out though because I have no savings , I always worry something will happen and set us back ( because it only takes a little to get way behind) when we are soooo close to being debt free, I did not attend college and neither did my husband so no student loan debt.....

I was wondering if I am in a better situation than most or not? with no savings that is ? Tired of staying awake at night worrying bout tommorrow.

please let me know what your situation is and maybe some insight into some stress relief of the matter.

I go grocerie shopping once a week usually on saturday. My bill is generally like 120 for groceries and then like 40 ontop of that for the usual house stuff, detergent, tp, soap,

I shop at a butcher and usually go to the local farmers market for the groceries,,,hit the five and dime for the house stuff.

I am wondering if I am spending excessively or if really I am paying for what I am getting (fresh meat and produce).

what do you think?

K like I wouldn't mind if he was doing it and me but only the movies and no loving for me? I don't understand is there something I don't get about men and porn?