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I am a 20 year college student who dorms at school. I am a virgin but I have “talked” to quite a few guys and made out with them after meeting/hanging out with them only a few times. A lot of these guys I’ve met thru friends or class and I wouldn’t usually talk to more than one guy at once. I feel as if it never gets past the talking stage & I don’t know if I come off as being “easy”/not a challenge for making out with them?

My cousin has not been nice to me ever since we were little kids. She was always the oldest and therefore the “boss”. I was always afraid of her as a kid and she’d constantly make me cry. she was always good at sports and dance, and very outgoing so she had lots of friends who were “cool” like her. I wasn’t good at sports and kept more to myself. We went to the same middle and high school and her friends were the type of people that would make fun of kids like me. I felt nervous going up to her when she was w her friends because of what they’d say later on. And she would let her friends gossip about me, she didn’t even stand up for me and say “that’s my cousin, she’s a normal nice girl just a little shy”. She would instead complain to my aunt that I “embarrass her” by not acknowledging her, then my aunt would tell my mom and my mom would scream at me. On top of it, I was going thru a really hard time with my parents’ divorce/my father losing his job. There was constant screaming in my house and I would cry every night. We’re 20 years old now and I still find her very judgmental & it is hard for me to talk to her. My mom says that I’m an embarrassment to the family bc I get very anxious at family events. and just end up not talking. I don’t know what to do about this because this is really the only family I have. My dad ended up completely leaving and he doesn’t really have family either anyways. Is my mom right that I’m a bi*** to my cousin?

I am 5’3” & 120 lb & I wear a size XS or 2; and I am constantly called tiny by my 5’11 220 lb boyfriend...does tiny refer to height or body structure/shape?

I am interested in purchasing colored eye contacts to enhance the green in my hazel eyes and I do not like to purchase things online because of credit card hacking issues. To anyone that has them, which stores have you purchased them from? Thanks

I need help finding an iridescent blue/purple/pink prom dress like this. I do not like the top on this one, can someone help find a similar dress?? Thanks!! http://www.promgirl.com/shop/dresses/viewitem-PD16...

This person has been a good friend of mine for years. We are in 11th grade now and she s always been a tomboy, but now I am starting to get the feeling she sees herself as a male. She wears absolutely no makeup, cut off all of her hair, wears boys clothes all the time (literally we went to the mall and she went straight to the men s section to buy herself clothes), no nail polish. Her name is Callie but she likes to be called "cal" now. She tells all of her teachers to call her cal. However, she does have a boyfriend, so maybe she would be a gay male? I really want to know if she is but I dont know how to ask politely or find out if she is?

They keep saying it's too much money but I have found ways to make it cheaper. They still said it's too much money. How else can I convince them??

It's making me really upset bc I don't ask for anything. This is the one thing that I want and they keep saying no and that I'm being a spoiled brat. I even wrote an entire essay on why I deserve one and how we can make the party less expensive but the answer is always no. I really need help, how can I convince them? Btw I live on Long Island so I need ways to make a s16 inexpensive on Long Island. Thanks !

So I was at this Mexican resteraunt with my mom, and as soon as I walked in, the cute waiter looked right at me and we were all smiley towards each other. He asked me what I wanted to eat and I told him a burrito and he made it for me. He was really cute and seemed really nice too. It looked like he was about a year or two older than me, and I'm 16. Also, the town that this resteraunt was in is about 10 min away from where I live, so it's not too far. I'm dying to see him again. Even my mom said to me, "you see Victoria...HE is absolutely PERFECT for you. A little older, smiles, polite, and doesn't go to your school". (Every guy at my school is a jerk) what can I do? Should I go back to the restaurant?

I am about 5'3, I wear size 2 dress, long, thick honey/golden blonde hair, hazel eyes, very light skin but not sickly pale. I'm a dancer also and I have a little bit of theater experience but when I go to college (going into junior year of HS sep 2015) I'd like to do the Disney college program and audition to be a princess. If anyone has worked as a Disney character or auditioned please respond! I appreciate it!

have social anxiety and I'm taking medication for it. But ever since I was a little girl Its been difficult for me communicate with others and its becoming a bigger problem for me as I get older. When I was little I had a set group of friends but we all know that people change and now I don't have many close friends, lots of friends have left me bc of my communication problem. Sometimes I just feel more comfy when I don't say anything but I don't want to be like that. I want to enjoy talking to anyone, what can I do? I'm going into my junior year and I want to really improve myself this year

I'm 16, going into 11th grade & so is the rest of the group.My group consisted of me, a girl A, and 3 boys, J M & C. I was originally friends w a who brought me into the group in sep 2014. She'd say things like "I don't hang out w girls" "I get along better with guys but you're the only girl I like to hang out wi" & I thought nothing of it. A and J are dating for 6 months now. Back in sep-oct M and I dated for around a month, & I dumped him bc I wasn't ready for a bf. He was really sad bc he's supposedly been in love with me 7 months before we started dating. In dec C came & started to hang w us. I still didn't wanna date but I had a huge crush on him & it seemed like he liked me. He'd always text and snapchat me for hours on end. But around March, that stopped& so did me getting invited places. I tried talking to the group about it & nobody would tell me what happened.it got worse when May-June came around. The group still hung out without me, but then I was replaced by a guy L.. He was getting invited instead of me. I figured it out, and one night I was so upset that I started cutting myself, hoping I'd die if I bled enough. I didn't get what was going on. A always said I was her girl bff , C and I...I thought we kinda had a thing, and M and I were still friends after the breakup, I'd thought he'd gotten over me. I still don't know what happened and it makes me really sad. Plus I have English w C &J next year. i just can't imagine what I could've done...?

I have the color run soon and my crush who i used to have a thing with is gonna be on the same team as me. I want us to have a thing again and I wanna make sure I look super cute. I have long thick golden-blonde highlighted hair. I usually straighten or curl my hair in to big curls. What are some cute hairstyles I could possibly do?

So my friend M brought me into her friend group, & she's the only girl besides me now. The group consisted of me and her, her bf P, my ex bf S whos depressed and another guy named E. Me and S dated from sep to oct, a month long. I broke up w him bc I said I wasn't ready for a bf, which I wasn't. I wasn't comfy hanging out w him alone and he'd always wanna make out and I didn't like doing that. But we would still talk and text all the time and it was almost like we never dated. It was like we were just good friends. Then this guy W came into the group in December and I immediately fell head over heels for him. We just hit it off well & started texting talking & flirting a little. He was in my lunch period and after we both are w our same gender friends he'd come get me & we'd walk around school. His friends would always tease him bout me & even people in our group always say that we should kiss. A friend even heard W say he thought he had a thing w me. I always kinda thought we had a thing. But then it just stopped. No more txts snapchats or walking around during lunch. I wasn't even invited anymore when our group would hang out. We'd always flirt even when the group was around, but suddenly the group thought it was weird that we'd constantly flirt. But W would still get invited and I wouldn't. And it wasn't the same w him anymore. I want it to be how it was...what should I do?

So my crush and I are friends but at lunch he use to occasionally sit with me but lately he's been sitting with his older friends from baseball. They are in 12th grade and my crush and I are in 10th. My other guy friend heard my crush say to someone in their English class (friend and crush sit next to each other) "I think me and (my name) have a thing". We've never discussed having a thing, even though I'd totally be ok with that ;) but my crush has been insanely busy bc he's not doing so good in some of his classes :(, he has lots of baseball stuff, and he's in drivers Ed so we haven't really been texting. But I hang with him and some other friends in the morning before school. But his 12 grade baseball friends always, pretty obnoxiously, wave to me and say hi to me. They'll say "how are u?" "Have a nice day!!" But by their tone of voice I can tell its in a joking way. If I'm far away they just stare and stare at me. Why do they act like this? Do u think my crush said something about me to them?