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My sister is 32 I am 28 I live with my sister my sister has physically attacked me on numerous occasions I don't know what to do I know she has a drinking problem and needs my help but how can I put up with this today I feel no hope I finished work and I bumped in to her she had a gash on the back of her head she said she ok went to hospital though it did not look that way I said I wish you had come home with me last night anyway we r walking towards the bus stop and she's angry shouting at me and she has giving me money to buy a bus pass as my cash card got sucked in a cash machine in the morning, I don't want to be verbally abused at home I give her her money back I say I go my way you go your s this makes her very angry she shouts head butts me as I'm trying to get passed her and away from her at this point I'm thinking she has money so I know she will be fine I start to walk home she follows pushing me she grabbed my little finger twist it hard I'm gonna cry but I calm down I walk on she yanks my hair out of my head I continue to walk she's following I stop as I know I can't go anywhere I sit she sits I say nothing I few minutes later a police walks by by this time everything is calm but he goes on to say there's been an allegation of assault from public I lie for her said it was just an argument, what can I do I feel helpless I never felt so worried or depressed be4 I do believe I'm the cause if I were calming if I hadn't giving her her money back, pls help me

theres this guy i like he seems to like me back but i feel friendzoned as he said he hardly knows me but would like to remain friends but we talk quite alot we walk eachother to bus stop thers chemistry ther i swear, he added me on facebook but he hardly ever replys i asked y he says hes never on it, i really like him and some times he acts like he likes me too he brought me a drink once, waited till i finished work so we could walk together, and he is the one that asked for a hug first when leaving to get on his bus now i will always hug him when he leaves, ive asked him for his number but he doesnt have a phone at the moment which i know is true, as ive never seen him with one and his friends have sed it, could i ask him out would he say yeh?

anyway a guy i like made a comment about i think pakistani asain ppl (Im one) basically he said something bout ppl outside his relatives house making noise he referred to them as apes and something bout wishing his relative wud move the area is a well known paki area maybe even like a ghetto he said at the end of the comment dont care if you think im being racist this was made via social media, he lives in an english area this guy ive liked for a while, i think he is mixed race himself english/ asain of some sort maybe even paki himself so i cant believe he was being racist, he doesnt have many asian friends and although we are pleasent with eachother i get a slight sense he doesnt like me because im paki or he would like me more if i was english, cud this guy be racist secretly or was he just angry at time

hi theres this guy i like who i used to think liked me but guess i was wrong as he started a relationship recently i used to flirt wid him but since he got a girl i stopped but he still sort of does maybe reckons i dont know anyway one evening at work hes teasing me in a flirty kind of way and its nice i like him so i think to myself maybe if i cant have a relationship wth this guy maybe i could just be friends with hm so i send him a friends request on fb and also i thought the girl friend thing wud be out in the open too but i am sort of a big loser and realise that this guy aint gonna add me i sent it from bout 6.00 int morning to about 1.00 int afternoon i cancel it i feel stupid i wreckon hes saw it what are the chances he saw it, i reckon he;ll be making fun out of me at work telling ppl at work cause when he was single think i made it pretty obvious that liked him worried about going into work,

my question is what are the chances he saw it and what wud he of thought u cant say nowt cause i am pretty much a big loser

hi theres this guy who i kinda like there is alot of attraction there for me the feeling seems sort of mutual but i aint 100% sure any way he looks at me sometimes stuck up for me once he usually takes his break when i get in to work so eg we cross paths like i said i aint 100% sure as i nearly always initiate convo with him he doesnt talk to me alot which gives me douts, there is also the problem that we seem so different like chalk and cheese, i am a muslim but i dont think he is, but not 100% sure as he may be one who doesnt follow strictly i havent seen him alot lately as i am doing less hours but may see him at the end of week, i want advice from muslims if he isn't a muslim is it sin for me to pursue this but the way that i am feeling this will be hard, and if i was to pursue this how should i go about it? please dont be hard on me i had a crush on a muslim guy for 2 years i finally get the guts to tell him and all i get is silence and i felt totally rejected, i really like this guy, any advice from all is welcomed, thank you, in advance

my hair is pretty frizzy i condition it and dont use straighteners or hair dryers that often but its still pretty bad it is curly and i love that about my hair the thing is i was thinking about relaxing it but will it make it very very straight so staight that it wudnt look curly anymore. and is it easy to use a relaxing kit

well i sent a friend request to dis guy i like but he doesnt add me so i delete it, i try to send him a message but it fails, i try to get ova him but it was eid and a friend suggested i should message him to say happy eid i do and it gets sent a couple days later i send a msg to tell him how i feel about him any way how do i know if hes ignoring them or hasnt read them yet they both have arrows on them im not sure what they mean, ive told my friends about him and they think that he likes me and think that he will get bck to me but i want to move on is he ignoring me or not thank you in advance

im crying alot ova him deactivated my facebook trying my best not to go on his twitter any suggestions to get over some1 i dnt think hes interested in me thank u

i had a crush on a guy for bout 2 years so i finally decide to send him a friends request on fb it hasnt been long like only a day and a half but im very upset my friend says just wait and see, he showed many signs he liked me too ,he would smile and stare at me alot, gravitate towards me in a room trying not to make it obvious but sometimes it was and he actually said hi to me as well i was very shy at the time so weve never really had a proper convo i actually only know his name as my sister use to go to his school and we were looking at 1 of her school magazines any way how likely is it that he will add me upset and keep checking

i have really bad back pain and have taken paracetamol how can i make it any better, finding it difficult to bend ova and pick up things

hi recently some money was tooken out of my account the bank said it was pending but could not see where it had gone i have no money in that account now, i asked the bank if i should cancel the card for that account they said no but im worried my money will be taken out next week when i get my wage what should i do? how worried should i be?, i would really appreciate answers from ppl this has happened to,

When i was younger about 5 years old i was sexually abuse by my cousin who was the same age as me his much older brother is a peodophile and has abused many children in our family including me, and he lived with my uncle for a bit i believe he abused all my uncles children and have heard that he even abused his own younger sister, I believe that my cousin who was the same age as me was abused by him and so when abusing me reacting things that may have happened to him, he is now 25 and is training to be a teacher, my aunty recently asked me about the abuse as she found out and asked me if i thought he was safe to be around children i said yes and said i dont believe he does things like this anymore, she also got me thinking about his older brother nothing has ever been done my sister who was abuse regularly by him has mental health issues she is a drug and alcohol user and struggles with her life alot though it did happen 20 yrs ago, i jus want to bury it and leave it the past but now my aunty has made me think theyre not safe to be in the outside world i started to believe that the older brother had stopped abusing children as my little sister was never abused but now im not so sure, should we speak out?

i am a muslim i learnt to perform salah bout 3 years ago but even after learning it 3 years ago why do i struggle to complete 5 prayers a day, somedays 3,somedays 4, somedays 2. My family is not very religious and i usually pray alone, i always try to read asr as ive read many times that it is an important prayer, my sister isnt very religious and on two occasions when she seemed very stressed out, she said to me not to prayer on 1 occasion i didnt listen and on the 1 i did,but recently shes been ok and has seen me do wudu and not said anything i do feel very guilty, but even after feeling guilty find it hard to get any better and also should u prayer in your head completely silently or can u prayer with a quiet whisper (this is how i prayer as noises surrounding me can be very loud ) thanx in advance blessings from allah swt be with you all

hi im a muslim and iv decided to follow my religion in more detail i know that ur suppose to give a certain amount of money depending on your earnings, i make 570 pounds a month and at the moment give to water aid and save the children i give both charities 6pounds each so 12 pounds in total a month, should i be giving more?,and am i ok to give to these charities thanks in advance xox

i was wondering if anybody could help me, i find it really hard making long lasting friendships, i am not completely alone as i have my siblings and spend alot of time with my sisters who all also dont have many real friends, but as siblings do we argue alot i feel this wouldnt happen if we didnt spend so much time together. i had a friend but i chose to stop hanging around with her as she was very clingy and would use me for money like make me pay everytime we went for a meal or watched a movie even though i had a lot of money problems of my own. Its hard to make any real friends at work cus alot of them are alot older than me, im 25 most of them are in their mid 30s and upwards.Everyday i seem to be inside watching the telly or on my labtop, im on fcebuk but ive been on it twice be4 as someone suggested it wud help, but it only seems to make me stalk people i dont know anymo and cn also make me alittle envious as alot of people are doing alot better than me in life. i went bck on it in december and have 2 friends on it 1 of which is my sister but im not really bother with having alot of friends on facebuk as ive had alot of friends be4 but im more interested in making friends and socialising, going out and experiencing new things. what can i do to change this part of my life?

was hoping some1 could tell me the dates of final exams that year 13 are takin. thanx this would help alot and also after year 13 have taken their last exam does it mean they are no longer a student? plz help much appreciated xx

i have a friend who seems very ill, she has a daughter who recently started school. My friend took her daughter out of the school she had only been to for a little while as she said people were saying things to her when she went to pick her up she also said that her daughter was being bullied and that the teachers weren't allowing her daughter to eat her packed lunch but this didn't seem true as my friends daughter seemed very happy and had made friends, so she took her out started to see a councillor also their was someone who went to the school that reminded my friend of something painful in her past another parent who went to the school to pick up her daughter because of this the councillor said the best thing for my friend was to change her daughters school so my friends daughter started a new school which was much further away she went there for a day my friend said the same sort of things that someone had shouted at her when she went to pick her up and then kept her off for 4 days in these 4 days my friends health worsened she became violent and lost in her own thoughts on the third day i rang nhs direct who brought out an ambulance they refused to take her as she was unwilling to go though they felt she was ill and said i should try and persuade her to go to the doctors on that day she decided to stay at her mothers once there she seemed ok paranoid but not violent and a little teary she rang up to try and change her school again but we persuaded her not to and that she would not be satisfied and that wasnt good for her daughter she rang the school and they encouraged her to bring her daugher back but the following days my friends health seemd to worsen and she seemd to become violent again so her sister persuade her to take olanezepan which was old medication that her mother took for mental health she told her it would calm her down she fell asleep, me and her dad decided to take her daughter to their flat and take her to school as my friend seemed ok about it we decided that i would take her in and my friends dad would pick her up but this isnt what happened she seemed much calmer when i spoke to her i told her i had tooken her daughter to school she said it was fine she would pick her up she came back to her flat next morning i got up very early to take her daughter to school again she was very hysterical and wasnt happy about it said the school had done something to her daughters eye though there was nothing wrong with her daughters eye but she had brought her mother medication along with her and on her own decided to take it at that moment then she changed her mind said she doesnt know what she was talking about so we got ready in a rush and took her the next day me and my friend went to the doctors she told me not to tell the doctor that she was taken her mothers medication so i didnt she told the doctor about how shed been feeling but hadnt told the doctor about how paranoid she was about taking her daughter to school the doctor said you have been on 2 different anti deppresants in the past which worked best she said citropram so thats what the doctor gave her but she warned her that it takes 4 weeks to work the doctor seemed concerned and told her to come for another follow on appointment, that night she wasnt well and said she wouldnt allow me to take her daughter to that school again as she said her daughter was talking about the fact that they were tlking about plasters at school and she was convinced that if i took her in the morning they would cut her daughter but in the morning she changed her mind allowed me to take her i did i decided it was best for my friend to collect her daughter with her sister as her sister was free she came over they picked her up together i wasnt there as i was at work but i was told that my friend was angry and was looking around when she went to pick up her daughter her daughter seemed to have a little redness on her forehead which her daughter said she had hurt her self with her lunch box she didnt believe her and said they told her to lie she was violent towards her sister hit her with her daughters lunchbox the redness faded that day she seemed to calm down but she has been very paranoid ever since and believe people from her old job are after her and her daughter and didnt go to her follow on appointment though she is still takin the citropram she doesnt take olanzepan shes been talking bout home schooling her daughter she believes she not ill? what should i do?

I am 24 and I work at a school as a cleaner I have become attracted to a young boy possibly 17 or 18 he is in his last year of sixth form, at the beginning I didnt think much of it and thought it wud pass, bt I seem obsessive and recently found out his name was gna send him a friend request on facebook but have nt, I think he myt lyk me too as he usually comes up to me, and smiles at me alot, what shud I do?