Ali

Hi im a 13 years old girl and im having a blood test to see if I have glandula fever or me/cfs or something because ive been bedridden for a week and a half. I'm starting to get really scared like I did before my hpv vaccinations (which really hurt me btw). My mums had every illness under the sun including glandula fever twice so shes really tough, she says its fine but I hate needles, they make me super nevous, like when a nurse say it wont hurt a bit and stuff like that...

I just need to know what they are gonna do and what I can do to make it hurt less... im scared.

Thanks for the help :)

Its weird but I'm extra sensitive about everything. I take things people say quite personally. If i get irritated by the slightest little thing it could set me off (i.e serious anger or sadness - "meltdown"). if im even the tiniest bit exited, I could be bouncing off the walls for a week. If I "like" someone, I'll go all in, no cutting corners. If im nervous I could go into a panic attack if I can't calm myself down.

I was wondering if talking to my friends might help, because even though I know I should express my feelings to people close to me, I just can't. Its like I have MAJOR trust issues even with my mum (BTW, I have been bullied before)!

Thanks for any serious answers :)

Sometimes, when I space out, I fantasize about getting attention or being in the spotlight, but when it actually comes to it, i HATE it. Is this normal, or what?

Info:

Girl

13

Day dreamer (when im bored)

Very Heightened emotions (i.e anger, fear, sadness happiness etc)

I know its a long way away but I kinda need the time...

Okay so:

I HATE Skirts- don't suggest them because it wont help.

I have muscly legs(big thighs)- I play rugby and I very tall and muscly-ish.

I'm a tom-boy- my winter "get-up" is skinny jeans a neutral color t-shirt and a plaid shirt undone on top (I like beanies and skateboard sunnies)

Not confident with my "body"- Veeeery self-conscious.

If it makes a difference, I'm in year 8. I have brown hair and brownish eyes that sometimes turn muddy green (swamp water color- like an icky river but sometimes go slightly blue round the edges ;3)

Okay, so, if you can help... thanks a lot :D

P.s. I really like this color #660011 <------- color code

What am I if I have low self-esteem, trouble trusting others, am shy, am self-conscious, and am afraid of being rejected/ being disliked by people close to me? Its a problem I've had for quite along time and it causes me to melt down... Help! (p.s I'm 13)

It sounds depressing, and some people may think I'm looking for attention... please don't think that.

The way I see it... I've lived a lie. For the whole of the 13 years I've lived I've not once been myself in front of my friends, not properly anyway. I hide behind a wall, I act weird because if people laugh at me, I know its not the real me they're laughing at. I chose this instead of being shy towards everyone but I'm scared I'm becoming my wall, and that I won't be able to change. No-one, not even my best friend knows how I feel because I don't want to loose him,for him to think I'm odd for showing my true self. I'm a tom-boy, I was a huge one when I was younger, I was taller than everyone, so I hid by acting tough. But now its different. I like some girly things and I enjoy some girly stuff but if anyone knew, I'd get teased... again. Help, I'm stuck- whats wrong with me?

O.K so I have a massive crush on my best friend (male) and I'm (female)going to a sleepover with him and another best friend(also female). I just wanted to know if he would be creeped out if I rested on his shoulder. Its on Friday (so tomorrow- at the female best friends place) so I need some answers :3 (I'm 13).

O.k so I'm going to this sleepover with one of my best friends (girl) and another best friend (boy-who I also have a crush on) Help! We're going to a Halloween party then going back to my best friends house (the girls one)to finish a movie and stuff!!

Is there any ideas or things to help me out? (I'm a girl Btw)

I have very little money to blow on this stuff so could you plz attach some links to cheap websites that sell the one you think i should get. Thx

I just thought, should I buy a ps3 and when the ps4 comes out see if i want it and if i do sell my ps3?

Bear in mind i don't have too much money to blow on consoles and games