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I'll try to make a long story short here. Last week my 14 y/o grand-daughter used my computer to do her social networking and explore utube videos. When I went to do my weekly clean up on the computer, one program I use to record videos (automatic record if you watch the videos, cannot change settings other than disable the whole program) recorded quite a few utube lesbian videos she had watched. On one of her social networking sites (FB), her pictures are mostly of her and her GFs. Some of these pics are questionable as to what she is doing with her female friends. Even though she has boyfriends from time to time, none of these BFs are in her albums nor are there any boys in her closest GFs albums (other than a brother or two).

My grand-daughter is outgoing and socially adaptable to most situations and some of her friends include gays and lesbians. She does not have her dad in her life, and even though I am her grand-father, I have been the only father figure in her life. We have been able to discuss any subject, including sex but at this point in her life I feel that she may consider her sexuality or sexual preference, her own private business. She is all girl and I do have a good interactive father-daughter relationship with her. But I suspect her mother is also thinking the same thing just from the comments she has made on a few of her FB pics quizzing her on what is going on. She claims it is a sisterhood thing, nothing more. These questionable pictures were mostly taken when she was on sleep-overs.

So, with a general background info on her and what I found, I would like to know from you teen girls what you think is going on. Is this normal, or is it possible she is either just curious or bi-curious? I don't want to approach her with what I found on my computer because she may just withdraw from me. I don't want to mention this to my daughter either because I don't know where she stands on the subject of lesbianism. This is one subject my daughter and I never had because it was never needed to be discussed. My wife would be devastated if our grand-daughter turns out to be bi or a full blown lesbian. As for me, I am open minded if she is bi or just curious, but I would have a hard time accepting her as a full blown lesbian too. But I would never stop loving her.

I feel that my only other option is to install a key-logger program in my computer to monitor her online activities as I found that she has other social networking sites she is a member of that no one knows about. I feel that if I do this then I would have a better understanding of where she is at in regards to her sexual preference and not be blind-sided if she is a true lesbian and comes out of the closet.

So what do you girls think and how should I handle this?

BTW - I did not want to post this in the Gay community section because I wanted to get well rounded answers from all girls of both sexual preferences and not limit it.

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