Chris

So there was this girl I got close to during my senior year in high school. We had been friends for a few years but near the end of the school year we became something more. Basically we both liked each other but she wasn't up for the distance dating whenever we left for different colleges which I completely understand. Anyway, she left for college and I missed her like I knew I would but I knew she was happy and within the next few months had a new guy she was talking too. During Christmas break she brought him down to my town for some reason and when she came to the party I was and she sat on his lap right in front of me and talked to me(I think to make me jealous). She als invited me over with some friends a few days later but was very plain with me. Basically, I still missed her but I knew she had moved on and it was time to do the same. Somehow one of my friends invited me to skype one night and she was there and we ended up talking a bit to the point that I figured out she had already broken up to the new guy. That next week was spring break when she came down and I could see some of her feelings had returned because when we were alone briefly and I was talking to her I saw her looking deep in my eyes and glanced down at my lips a few times. Its been a few weeks since then and I have been missing the hell out of her...in fact since she left from college I have been missing her a lot. My problem is summer will be here in about a month and we may become something again. However, I don't want to be so hopeful for that and then realize she found someone new...I'm suppose to be transferring to her college during next spring semester(academic reasons) but I don't want to get my hopes up for no reason....should I hold out or give up?

P.S. Sorry that was long, there is still a whole lot more to the story but you guys dont have time for all that. Thanks

I'm going to try and get this down to only the basics for you guys because I doubt anyone wants to read an essay. Basically, me and a close girl friend became more than friends at the very end of our senior year. She decided that she didn't want to date because we were going to different colleges. So we have our 5 months together and then she leaves off to college and I felt heartbroken. I thought this would just be a quick 1-2 month thing and I would be fine. Wrong. Its been around 9 months and I still am having thoughts of her! Now I think I know some reasons why, I have never had a girlfriend and I am completely inexperienced with girls. Now I have been working on finding someone new, but I go to a community college and sadly, I haven't found a single girl that I really have felt pulled too. I know I must have decent looks because I get a lot of those glances from girls. I just haven't found someone that I really feel a connection with, and too be honest I'm very picky. Is there a way to stop thinking about her without finding someone new? I have been doing everything to keep myself busy and when the slight thought of her appears in my mind I will literally think of some random object or thing...i don't know what to do.

P.S. I saw her this spring break, and we were with friends and we got really close to kissing but other people were there. I think that didn't really help...

I'm going to try and make this as simple as possible. I have not been truly happy in the past year since one of my close girl friends who I was "more than friends" with left for a separate college. We would have dated had we not left for different colleges, however I have been heartbroken for almost a year over her. Why? Because I cant move on. It was so simple for her, she had a new boyfriend within a few months(she broke up with him too). I'm tired of beating myself up and giving myself the false hope that we could be something when I transfer to her college(academic reasons only). I want to live my life fully, and to not have her come to my mind when I go to bed or I see a love scene in a movie. She is as free as can be and I'm ready to unload this bearing of wanting and missing her so much. What can I do to move on???

Thanks Everyone!!

So me and this girl have been friends for awhile but last summer me and her had a fling, we both liked each other but decided not too date because of college. Anyway, Spring break just came up and I sent her a message saying "Hey you! When you gettin your pretty 'ol self down here in *****?" which she responded with "Bro, I be IN belton as we speak"

I got a feeling she was telling me she just wanted to be friends by adding the bro. What do you guys think?

So over last summer me and a good girl friend of mine became "more than friends". We decided not to date since we were going to different colleges. Within a few months she had a new boyfriend and we have still remained good friends. However, recently she has broken up with her boyfriend and I was hoping to ask if she wanted to continue our relationship over this summer. Problem is I have always been terrible at telling her how I feel but I have a new air of confidence since college started. How can I ask if she wants to be more than friends again without seeming like I only want her for sex? (we never did bit we got close)

 P. S. I still have a lot of feelings for her I just need to know what to say!

So I sort by this cute girl in my math class and I ended up getting her number with a couple friends when we were thinking about studying together. I've only texted her once or twice since then and both was about homework which she responded too. However, yesterday I texted her asking if I saw her at my church(I really thought I saw her), and she never responded. Should I just take that as a sign of disinterest? I would like a girls perspective if possible.

So I sort by this cute girl in my math class and I ended up getting her number with a couple friends when we were thinking about studying together. I've only texted her once or twice since then and both was about homework which she responded too. However, yesterday I texted her asking if I saw her at my church(I really thought I saw her), and she never responded. Should I just take that as a sign of disinterest? Normally she answered my other ones within 10 minutes...

I know I'm over thinking this but I am straight up horrible with girls. I can be friendly and talk to them but mix that with attractiveness and feelings I just can't seem to say what I want. Anyways, I am sadly in college and still having these problems and I sit next to this very cute girl in my math class. I still talk to her every now and then but not really anything deep lol. Anyways, at church I saw a girl who was really good looking and we exchanged a few glances and I swear she looked exactly like the girl in my math class lol. Anyways I texted the math class girl "Did I just see you at my church or am I just crazy??"? She hasn't responded yet and probably won't but was that an alright thing to say? Like I said, I I know I'm over thinking the hell out if this but I'm just so bad with girls I need advice lol.

Alright so here's my problem. I'm an 18 year old guy but people are always so surprised when I tell them that. Most of them guess I'm around 14 and it really knocks down my confidence. I have always been pretty tall and skinny, so I make sure to work out a lot. I actually have a pretty good looking body with solid abs, firm pecs and fair sized biceps, but with a shirt on you can't tell except a little in my arms. I try to dress nice(polos). I can't really grow facial hair but I do grow a little on my chin just to try but you can hardly see it. I even try acting mature but all to no avail. I'm a freshmen in college but people look at me like I'm some sort of young high schooler on a field trip. It never used to bother me until I started talking to girls my age and they all thought I was 14...I know most people will say don't worry about it. When your older you will get the young girls, but I just want to find someone my age. I am honestly not that bad looking but I feel like crap after someone tells me they thought I was 13...what else can I do?

Alright so here's my problem. I'm an 18 year old guy but people are always so surprised when I tell them that. Most of them guess I'm around 14 and it really knocks down my confidence. I have always been pretty tall and skinny, so I make sure to work out a lot. I actually have a pretty good looking body with solid abs, firm pecs and fair sized biceps, but with a shirt on you can't tell except a little in my arms. I try to dress nicer and wear nice polos and a watch. I can't really grow facial hair but I do grow a little on my chin just to try but you can hardly see it. I even try acting mature but all to no avail. I'm a freshmen in college but people look at me like I'm some sort of young high schooler on a field trip. It never used to bother me until I started talking to girls my age and they all thought I was 14...I know most people will say don't worry about it. When your older you will get the young girls, but I just want to find someone my age. I am honestly not that bad looking but I feel like crap after someone tells me they thought I was 13...what else can I do?

I met this girl a few weeks ago who works at a catering company with me but only works during breaks(college). We seemed to have a mutual interest in each other so after finishing up work last night I texted her:

Me: Whatcha doin tonight?

Her: Not sure I'm going back to unload and all that

Me: That's cool. If you end up being free tonight let me know

Her: I will:)

Now I know that she did have to unload but was it a nice way of rejecting me? I could understand why since we go to college in separate places but I was just looking for something casual. So should I ask her to hang out later? Or just drop it?

Me and my bf were having anal sex and I'm pretty sure he went off inside me. Can I get pregnant?

I'm going to try and keep this as short as possible without leaving anything too important. Anyways during the end of last school year me and a girl friend got pretty close. We ended up having a thing for around 5 months but didn't date, since she couldn't handle the distance when we left for different colleges. I have been having a hard time getting over her. She was the first girl to look past my looks and like me for...me. I know normally you should just think of all the bad qualities in your partner but Im now really close friends with her. Hell during Thanksgiving break of the 5 days she was home she spent 3 of them with me. She even let me meet the new guy she was talking too. He is very good looking, he's fit, he's hilarious and he's super sweet to her. A little bit of me hurt to see her in his arms but she was just SO happy that it didn't matter. I do get that she has moved on and I need to do the same but I'm having trouble. I talk to other girls, keep myself busy, and I'm fine with being single, but when I'm alone thoughts of her will come back no matter how much I try and push them away. Any thoughts or advice?

Ever since I started college(3 months ago), I have been almost deperate for a relationship. I don't truly act desperate but in my mind I know I am and I probably give off a vibe. I never used to be like this, I used to be completely myself and even won a girls heart that way. Problem is she didn't want to date because of the distance when we left for seperate colleges. I have been stuck on her since she left and I believe it's the root of my problem. I am finally seeing her as a friend again(she let me meet the new guy she was talking too a few days ago and I could see she was happy so I wasn't upset), I just hate the fact that I can't be myself like I use to. I am honestly trying too damn hard. I know it stems from 2 reasons: 1. I have a fear of always being alone and 2. I'm still not truly over the friend from high school. Any advice on what to do?

I don't want to waste your guys time so I will try to keep this short. During the end of my senior year in high school, me and a girl friend got close. For around 5 months we were more than friends, but decided not too date because of college. Well I hadn't seen her in 3 months and I finally got to see her during the break. She ended up brnging a new guy shes talking too with her. I'm not going to lie, I have had an extremely difficult time getting over and this was painful to see, but for some reason I didn't mind as much as I thought I would. I'm not disappointed that she found a new guy, its just how fast she got over me. I am happy for her and still love being her friend but how can I stay strong? I am trying to look at all the positives and use this as a stepping stone to getting over her but it is SO hard. I don't think she was trying to make me jealous, she just was living her life. Any ideas on how I can stay strong?

To put this simply, me and this girl were more than friends during the end of our senior year I high school. We decided not too date because she couldn't handle the distance when we left for seperate colleges. Well I got to see her for the first time in 3 months with some other friends and it went just like it should. She just treated me as a friend and She was was texting someone almost the whole night(she hated texting and when we talked I was the only one she ever had texting convo with). In all honesty, my stupid self was hoping she still cared about me and would wait for me intill I transferred to her school(academic reasons) but she is happy so Im going to try not and worry about it. Dont get me wrong, seeing her talk to another guy was heart breaking but if it makes her happy then I should let it be. I really do want to be happy again and be able to move on from her for both her and my sake. Any ideas or suggestions?

I'm going to try and not put too much writin on this, but me and this girl friends became close last year at the end of senior year. We decided not too date because she couldn't handle the distance when she left for college. Well 3 months ago she left and I honestly missed the hell out of her and was just starting to finally get over her. Well she came back to home and she seemed really exicited to see me. We ended up meeting with 5 other friends and drank a few beers. Problem was I hardly got to talk to her one on one and I was really looking forward to it. We said our goodbyes and now I feel completely depressed. It's like losing her over again, and even tring to keep myself busy doeant keep her off my mind. Now here is the key thing! I already have 31 credit hours and plan on transferring to the same school as her in the Spring of 2014. I really hope I can hangout with her during the breaks we have and maybe give this relationship another go when I transfer. Do you think she could still possibly like me then? Or is it just stupid to think about and I should keep tring to move on?

So last year(senior year high school) at the very end of last year, me and a good girl friend started talking. We ended up becoming more than friends and not date because she simply couldn't handle the distance. I don't know why but those were the best 5 months of my life. Honestly our relationship wasn't that great. I got jealous, tried too hard missed ALOT of chances and only kissed her twice! Yet it's been 3 months since she left and I've still been stuck on her. I know it was smart to not date, I would have been a crappy bf and she deserves to live the college life. Don't get me wrong Ill still talk with girls and forget about her but at night or when Im alone these feelings come back. I have a feeling that one reason I can't let go of her is because I am transferring to her school for the Spring 2014 semester. My mind has this idea that we could try a relationship then but knowing her she will be done with me and only view me as a friend. I just wish I could stop missing her! Any ideas on how to get over her?

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So I am 18 years old and still have not had a girlfriend. Don't get me wrong I am still young and have a lot of life to live but this is kind of frustrating. You may immediately assume that I'm some awkward shy kid who sits alone but I'm not at all! I talk with everyone, I can always make people laugh and people want to hangout with me. I thought maybe its my looks but I work out to stay in good shape and I see a lot of girls staring at me(in a good way)as I walk by I'm just not intrested in them. The girls I've liked never seem to like me back, I don't try to hard I just never seemed to get lucky. Hell, even when I told one of my girl friends that I was still a virgin she freaked out saying no way and wanted to get some hoes over, but Im not like that. Maybe I'm batting out of my league, but looks are not the main thing I go for, I love intelligence and someone I can hold a conversation with. I'm not saying girls haven't liked me, I geuss my stupid picky self wants to go for the girls that aren't intrested in me....sigh any advice?