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I am planning to go on The Greenway trail from Orlando to Savanna. I have Pannier for my bike for my camping items. Can someone tell me if a trailer is a better choice or should I stick to the pannier. I am also looking for a partner, man or woman who would like to do this with me. The pace is ours. It is not a contest. I am even willing to plan it together. It is on the 7th of June. Its along the coast. Sight see and relax for up to 10 days.

If you are up for it we can communicate with email or phone.

My wife has never ever celebrated my birthday, our wedding anniversary, valentines day or even have wished me a happy new year sincerely. She has never said I love you. It is impossible for her to say sorry when she is wrong. I have always celebrated hers and made her special. She would remember dates like a calendar. Yet she never once remembered our anniversary. We have beautiful wedding pictures that my children have never seen. I don’t even know where they are. She is a good mother to my children and she has been a good housewife. So I have been with her all these years ignoring my feelings. I have always been nice to her. I don't have any bad habits. I don't drink or smoke. My children are big and they are quick to point a finger at me like their mother for the smallest of things but never say anything to her. They are like, scared of her. They have always ignored even the most obvious of things when it came to her. I have questioned myself why it is this way. For the sake of the children and the family I have kept it to myself. It has always been children, her friends and family first. I am always last in her list. Sometimes I am not even there. She loves to go out with her friends and stays late. Never went on vacation with me and the children. I have always provided well and we have everything to be happy. Yet this has haunted me for more than twenty odd years. This is the life I have known in my adult years. I am an optimistic person. I always think it is going to be better tomorrow. I want the best for her and my children. I have asked her to go to counseling with me and have tried to communicate with her about this. She wants no part of that. In her mind she does not see a problem. She does not want to leave me either. According to her I am the worst person this this whole wide world. If our marriage was a mistake why would she have three children with me????? I feel so bad if I leave her my children may not hesitate to break their relationships. What is my next step should be??????

My wife has never ever celebrated my birthday, our wedding anniversary, valentines day or even have wished me a happy new year sincerely. She has never said I love you. It is impossible for her to say sorry when she is wrong. I have always celebrated hers and made her special. She would remember dates like a calendar. Yet she never once remembered our anniversary. We have beautiful wedding pictures that my children have never seen. I don’t even know where they are. She is a good mother to my children and she has been a good housewife. So I have been with her all these years ignoring my feelings.  I have always been nice to her. I don't have any bad habits. I don't drink or smoke. My children are big and they are quick to point a finger at me like their mother for the smallest of things but never say anything to her. They are like, scared of her. They have always ignored even the most obvious of things when it came to her. I have questioned myself why it is this way. For the sake of the children and family I have kept it to myself. It has always been children, her friends and family first. I am always last in her list. Sometimes I am not even there. She loves to go out with her friends and stays late. Never went on vacation with me and the children. I have always provided well and we have everything to be happy. Yet this has haunted me for more than twenty odd years. This is the life I have known in my adult years. I am an optimistic person. I always think it is going to be better tomorrow.  I want the best for her and my children. I have asked her to go to counseling with me and have tried to communicate with her about this. She wants no part of that. In her mind she does not see a problem. She does not want to leave me. According to her I am the worst person this this whole wide world. If our marriage was a mistake why would she have three children with me????? What is my next step should be??????

It was love at first sight. We dated for about 2 years. We got along well. She is shy about a lot of things. Although she never said "I love you". We still got married. Twenty five years and 3 children later she still hasn't. If you had a fight it was always me who reconciled. She has never said sorry either. She criticizes a lot. She is the first to finger point or even call names. I have always loved her and have been nice to her. I am not the jealous type. She had anything she wanted and she was free to do what ever. She is a dedicated mother and a good housewife. I don't care about house work. I would like her to put her arm around me once in awhile. She never goes on vacation with me and the children. She does not believe in a religion. No matter what happens she is always unhappy. She is constantly pre- occupied. She has to be busy all the time with silly stuff. She goes out with her friends and would come home as late as 3 - 4 am. But she can never keep up to watch a movie with me and the children without falling asleep as early as 8pm.

I am frustrated and have asked her to go marriage counseling. She won't go. I have suggested therapy on her own. She won't do that either. She is possessive. Can anyone tell me what is going on here. I have never stop loving her.