♥blue eyes♥

To start with you should know, yes I feel guilty even by just asking this question.

I'm stuck between two boys. I'm 16 btw.

Guy 1: Jack, he's my current boyfriend of a year and a half, and I love him. We are in a 'serious relationship' . He's my first love so of course I'm always going to feel something for him. We're the same age, we have quite a lot in common, I'm pretty quiet and enjoy things like visiting art galleries and going to the theatre which he likes too. We go to school together so I have lunch with him everyday and I do enjoy spending time with him. It was complicated when we first started going out, he had broken up with this girl who was one of my friends and this meant I lost a tonne of friends by going out with him and I don't regret it. He's great at everything and is so competitive though, it sometimes gets me down that I don't feel like I'm as good as him though. And he goes through phases of being in really bad moods, where he's still with me and we spend time together but he just basically doesn't talk. Now I feel like it could be the end of us. But he's my safe option, I know he still loves me and I don't want to break up with him and them regret losing him.

Guy 2: Ross, to be honest if it wasn't for Ross I don't think I'd be doubting Jack and I. But we've known each other for a few months. The biggest down side, he works for my dad. Therefore I'm the bosses daughter, and we'd have to hide it from my whole family and I think it could be worth it though? He makes me laugh so much. And i feel excited when we're together. And I've admitted I kinda feel something for him, although he got drunk and text me saying it first. Visiting art gallerires etc isn't his thing but he said if it made me happy then he'd come too just to see me smile. He goes out clubbing etc and has been with a lot more girls but he's been single for the past 2 years cos he said he wanted time to himself but now he wants me. He said he wants whats best so if staying with my bf made me happy then he'd be fine cos I'd be happy. He's new and exciting but complicated.

I'm just looking for opinions, I know in the end its my decision. Thank you.

-blue eyes

Well I'm 16 so it's perfectly legal, and I've been with my boyfriend for just over 10 months and we'd talked it through and he said he'd wait for me and about a month ago we had sex -using a condom-but now we think I should go on the pill as an extra precaution, so I want to know how would I get it, I know go and see the doctor but what questions would be ask me? What are the side effects and how much would it cost? I live in the UK btw, thanks for any information

So have you ever. . .

Been robbed

Been skinny dipping

Been arrested

Been in an airplane

Been out of the country

Had surgery

Felt like passing out instead of enduring pain

Snuck out without getting caught

Cried yourself to sleep

Seen a shooting star

Almost died (how many times)

Been to the E. R.

Fallen in a pool

Thought consirderably about the past/furture

Been stung by a bee/wasp

Eaten raw bacon (or other meat)

Danced around in your underwear (honestly)

Bitten someone

Been in a fist fight

Fallen down the stairs

What about tripping up them

Ignored someone till they stopped talking to you for good

Met someone who changed your life

Woken up screaming

Had reoccuring dreams

I'm 16 (so its legal) and today I tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the second time. The first time we tried we were both so nervous and tense we figured it just wasn't going to happen, then we tried again today and it hurt, he probably got about half an inch in and it just, well, hurt, I think I'm too tight! I was naturally lubricated, I'd say a fair amount, he says he doesn't mind and we can try again whenever I'm ready. But I don't know what to do, I don't know what's wrong with me. (and we did use a condom btw)

thanks

Im going to be 16 in just over six weeks so I've decided I need to tone up a bit.

I'm 5'8 and weigh just over 10 and a half stone so I'm within a healthy BMI but I'd ideally like to get down to ten stone. I'd particularly like to tone down my large calves. But I do realise that 6 weeks isnt very long so it may not be totally possible though I'd like to give it my best shot!

So I'm looking for any tips you have, right now I go jogging about 3 times a week, I'm totally prepared to change my diet so which foods should I eat and avoid and what are any good exercises to do?

Thanks guys, all answers much appreciated.

This was originally from an episode of US sitcom 'How I Met Your Mother', this is based on the theory that a lasting relationship requires one person to love olives whilst the other person hates them. What do you think of it? It is true for your relationship?

Just a bit of fun!

I'm 15, 5'8 weigh just under 11 stone and my body is all in proportion apart from my large calves! Will do almost anything to slim them down, please help ;) thanks

My boyfriend of 7 months is off to Italy for 2 weeks tonight and I've already said goodbye and I love you in person but I'll be texting him when he's at the airport and I need something to say, I've said I love you more everyday etc and stuff like that and I want something to say to him because I love him so much but I'm not very good with words.

I'm 15 btw thanks x x

Just curious, it's just a little bit of fun there is no right or wrong answer.

Stuff like hair colour, height etc

Thanks

Guy 1 : The easiest option.

He's my current boyfriend, smart and funny . We've been together for 4 months at first I was so 'head over heels' in love that I lost my appetite and we were constantly texting each other, we still text most days and we always have a laugh. He's been with 2 other girls before me but been with me the longest, he's said he loves me via text but never to my face and apparently said I love you to a previous girlfriend, she constantly winds me up about the fact she was with him first and I don't thinks she's over him. We don't have a lot in common, but that makes things a lot more interesting, right? I do love him, I think, but it he worth it. I see him at school everyday and we can only occasionally meet up at weekends but when we do its a good laugh.

Guy 2 : The good friend.

I actually only started talking to this guy when i started going out with my current boyfriend. Both him and my current boyrfriend hate eachother. But I am always so relaxed around this guy, he is also smart and makes me laugh like an idiot. We have so much in commen and he almost always waits for me outside classes so we can walk together to the next. He is single right now, I know he used to have a huge crush on me but backed off because of my current boyfriend.

Guy 3 : The mystery man.

In my first year of high school we talked all the time but then in the past years drifted apart. Then a few weeks ago we went on a class trip together to Austria and got talking which was so much fun. To be honest I don't know that much about him but what I do know I like so he's kind of a mystery, which could be very interesting He had a girlfriend of four months but broke up with her when we got home from Austria. He is intellegent, funny and really good looking!

I'm just asking for your opinions, should I go with one of the other guys or stay with my boyfriend as this could just be a slight rocky patch we're going through. I'm pretty sure I know what I'm going to do, just looking for your advice, thanks.

I found this site

-http://www.allthingsoriginal.com/

its full of really beautiful pieces of jewelry and I was just wondering if anyone has seen other websites like it. Thanks

To start off with I'm only 14 btw. Anyway I have a boyfriend who I like a lot but there's also another guy that I like a lot - but as a friend.

So today at school I was standing talking to my friend Oscar and we were laughing and just joking around because he's a good guy, he's smart, funny and in quite a few of my classes so I see him quite a lot. Then recently in one of my classes I was stuck on a question so I was looking around the class and saw him staring right at me, so I smiled and he briefly smiled then looked away looking rather embarrassed then when I was stuck on another question he was looking at me again but looked away too soon for me to do anything. The other day I heard him calling me when I was walking to class and he tapped me on the shoulder and said he'd been trying to catch up with me for a while so then we walked to class together talking and laughing as usual. Anyway we were then talking today at lunch when my boyfriend (he's my first boyfriend who I really, really like and we're been going out for like a week and a half) came along and wrapped his arms around my waist which I'm fine with but as soon as he did that I could see Oscars face change he glanced into my eyes and asked "do you go out with him" and I was like yeah and he was like "I didn't know that, anyway I've got to go now I'll see you, Jo" and he just left. I was going to go after him but I didn't want to hurt my current boyfriends feelings either. I'm in such a mess I don't want to lose Oscar as a friend but I really love my boyfriend too!

So my question was do you think Oscar likes me or do you think I'm over reacting and what should I say to Oscar next time I see him.

Sorry this is quite long but I needed to explain, thanks for anything you have to say -Blue Eyes-

The first thing I do is put on my dressing gown

I'm 14 and I basically have a great life. I get told I look 'pretty' by a lot of people, I'm 5'8, average weight good features. I have a boyfriend and lots of other friends. I live in a big house with a loving family and I have nice clothes, shoes and lots of beautiful accessories. I have all the latest gadgets, phone, IPOD, computer, latest books, DVDs etc (which I have saved up for and bought myself over time) I've traveled to a lot of different places on holiday. I get great grades at school and have a part time job. I can play piano, speak reasonably good french and have been told I have a 'simply brilliant' talent in art. But for some reason I don't feel happy. I'm not a spoiled brat btw in case your thinking that. You may also think I'm selfish for having a great life and not being happy with it but I just don't feel satisfied. Everyday I wake up to the same routine and I just want to happy again which I was up until about 3 months ago when I just got bored of everything and nothing seems 'exciting'. Whats wrong with me?

thanks for anything you have to say

-blue eyes-

Did you have a date today?

I just got back from my first date with my boyfriend :)

-It went really well and was so special because it was on valentines day :)

anyway if you did where did you go and did you enjoy it?

thanks

Okay so I've been crazy over this guy for like the past year then last Monday evening (early hours of Tuesday morning over text) he told me how much he liked me and I revealed to him (still over text) I like him too. But ever since I have told him my appetite has been non existent (though I still do eat, I just constantly feel full and no food looks very appetizing) and I don't know why. Has then ever happened to you before and do you know why it's happening to me? Is it because I'm in love?

BTW I'm 14 and currently am of a healthy weight range.

thanks

I'd like to be able to read peoples thoughts x

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The School is organizing a trip to Northern Peru for next year. Its next Summer for 4 weeks. The cost will be £3,250, which includes everything, flights, hotels, meals, tours etc. We would be trekking and helping the community and doing some sight-seeing.

I'm only 14 (will be 16 when I go) and will have to raise every penny myself (my parents said if I wanted to go then I would have to raise the money) I would get a job, do fund raising etc

What I wanted to know:

Do you think it is value for money?

Anything about Peru, you think I should know

If you were in my position would you like to go

What fund raising could I do?

thanks

Mine is

A real leader faces the music............

................. even when he doesn't like the tune

-anon-

What's yours? could you also tell me who it was written by

thanks