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My first girlfriend broke up with me recently and I'd just like some insight into why and if you think it was right what she did.

Things with her were great. We spent time together, had stuff in common, and loved each other. There were no problems, except for one thing. Every now and then, she would cancel dates so she can hang out with her friends. It was rude because she would do it at the last second, but understandable because everyone needs friends and she was really sorry. I tried to be the perfect boyfriend by taking her out, considering her in my everyday choices (like waking up early to see her before class) and little things that would show my affection and appreciation. Unfortunately, she did none of this for me.

So one day we were in class together and it was close to exams. We sat together and talked. I had my arm around her too. Everything was perfect for both of us. But when I got home, I checked Facebook (where we chat usually) and saw a message. She basically told me (in a series of messages) that she was happy with me, but happier with friends and she loved me but also loved hanging out with her friends. She broke up with me. She said she still wanted to be friends and that she was really sorry. She said she wished she didn't have to end like this but it had to. After that she avoided me and left me in ruins as she lived happily ever after with her friends.

I gave her plenty of times with her friends! Why can't she be happy with me and her friends? I talked to her to find a better answer.

After talking she changed her stupid answer to "I'm not ready for a boyfriend".

After flirting with me for weeks, for wanting to go out with me (and me obviously giving her the chance) and spending two amazing weeks full of happiness and bliss... That she isn't ready for a boyfriend. For some reason I don't understand her reasoning.

Am I wrong for thinking that was a stupid excuse to breakup? Am I wrong for thinking what she did was wrong? I'm so confused and hurt...

Thanks for your responses.

**Definitions**

Ripstik - a caster board (carving board with two wheels that simulates a surf board or snowboard)

I'm a ripsticker and I see comment after comment on ripstik videos

"Ripstiks are gay get a sk8board ripstiks suck because you cant do tricks on a skateboard u do lotz of tricks and u can go fastr."

So what I got from that was

1. Ripstiks can't preform as many tricks as a skateboard

2. skateboards are faster

3. People on the internet get loosey goosey with their grammar

my response

Try integrating skateboard tricks to a two wheeled board. Also of course a skateboard is faster. Its push, push, push while a ripstik is propelled by the motion from your hips. If someone pushed with their foot on a ripstik it'd be just as fast but defeat the purpose of the ripstik. The purpose is to feel like you're surfing on the street not do silly tricks.

Okay so my little rant is over and I want to ask serious skateboarders why they think ripstiking is lame, wussy, gay etc. answers like: Ripstiks are toys won't do since it's made by the same company who makes scooters, motor scooters etc.

I'm looking for real answers why people don't like it. Not a fight over the internet.

Thanks.

A little relative of mine is turning bad.

We went to a water park and I found her and her 13 year old friend on the laps of 25 year old guys!! It was suppose to be a family thing with just her, her 10 year old brother and I (15).

Up till now we've been close and now she's trying to become mature. KEYWORD: TRYING!!! ALL she does now is talk to her friends and text when it's too late to talk.

I know that 13 y.o is bad news because she is the one dating and such (at 13?!? Crazy)

Once we told her mom her mom grounded her (but she has her phone still) so she still txts and calls her friends.

She's at my house for tonight and has said 2 words to me. Literally. she said hi, went downstairs and continued talking to her friend.

She just got off the phone and she went straight to bed. the 10y.o boy & i were playing video games (she usually plays to) but she didn't say two words to us.

The worse thing is I dont want to hear her talk!! I know what she's talking about because i was sitting right beside her!! Talking about cute boys and such.. worse part is now she's very judgmental of these boys saying "oh he's too short. Oh he's not strong enough" That REALLY pissed me off esp. since her 13 y.o friend told me i'm not strong because I can't carry her (shes like 110 and i'm 130.)

So that's pretty much the whole story. She's going to continue txting into the night and ignore us. I car a lot about her since we're a couple years apart and have been close for sometime. Now with the direction she's going I can't help but feel useless. All I can do is watch her become a little slut.

Are 12-13 year olds supposed to be making out and having boyfriends? Or am I just a nerd for being 15 and haven't had my first kiss?

I'm not a perv. lol.

In the men's change room, there is just a room with benches and lockers. There usually aren't any private rooms to change in. I was talking to my female cousin and she was wierded out when I told her about a creepy old man in the change room. She wondered why he was naked in front of other people. this got us guys questioning if she changed in public with other women. She said they had change rooms.

Now I know there are private rooms for females but what about us guys!!! If you check men's health you'll see every question is about if their penis is big enough! I think we are much more insecure than women.

Women may be insecure about their breast (which I can understand) but they're always seen. No hiding how big a women's chest is so what's the need for secrecy?

Thanks for answering.

Ripstick, Wave, Blade, Whiptide.

Here's my story:

a few of my friends are getting ripsticks and so I was going to get a ripstick. that was until I heard of the Wave and the Blade and the Whiptide!

I hear:

- Ripstick is faster than Wave but not as smooth

- Wave is the first brand to make the castor boards and ripstick copied the design and added the middle neck (lengthened sorry)

- blade sucks

- Whiptide is a 4 wheeler and isn't as good.

Now both my friends have the ripstik by Razor. I'm not sure because I heard the Wave is lower in cost and better. I know between the ripstik and Wave that they're the same in technique and sell the same accessories. they have the same wheel size and bearings. Yet these two products are so different!!!

I've tried the Ripstik (my friends) and its a lot of fun. I don't want to be struggling to catch up if the wave is slower.

Please tell me if there are any significant differences that I should be aware of between the Wave board and ripstik G.

I'm reviewing old questions seeing "Nothing will happen, its just people trying to scare you"

OR

"It's backed up with nothing but fact!"

What's your opinion? My parents tell me "People say these things when the economy is down the toilet to try & make you buy their products. Look what happened in 2000 & 2003."

1. Why do you use it.

2. How do you use it. (I mean what do you usually say)

3. How do you get a lot of people to "Follow" you?

Add me if you want / can: http://twitter.com/3diot

Any place to get some?

Nothing that gives you viruses like Limewire!

Please no mean comments. I have money but 2 lazy 2 get songs...

I'm a 14 male who is constantly barged in on while playing a game, watching a video or even sleeping! I want to sleep naked but I don't want my mom or worse - sister - barging in on me.

Any tips?

Obviously mine from 2 years ago is 3diot. I made it up in less than a minute. Went from idiot - ediot - 3diot. ANYWAYS I need all you gamers' help to make me a new name. Original and either funny or serious - like chaos, Destructor or even Homo-milk.

Nothing to profound :P

In North America, I find Women treated better than men. WAIT! don't kill me yet, there are a few things i need to be clarified before i can make that statement.

1. Women allowed to hurt men but not vice versa.

Why? If a women punches a man, it's ok if she has a reason to. If its the other way, then its horrible! I understand men are stronger (you know what i mean.) but thats unfair. This is being taught to kids. The "3 hit rule". Once a girl hits you 3 times, it's ok to hit back. I want to know who came up with the " Its wrong to hit a woman" rule.

2. Guys being "Sacked" by a woman.

Again a lot of people say this is ok if she does it in self defense. It hurts! Unless the guy is going at you, this shouldnt be acceptable!!

to conclude this hella long question, I know all the b.s that girls get less money than men & all that & i agree its unfair 100%. Try to give me a unbiased answer to this question i've wondered for the longest time!

Sometimes I dream weird things - things that happen. Not big things like 9/11 but maybe me in the car like months before it happens. Here are two examples.

I dreamt i was at Staples with my dad. He asked me a question - something like, "What do you want?" & I had the opportunity to say 1 of 2 things. Now i don't remember exactly but i could see the result of each thing i said.

Creepy thing is this happened & I remembered the two different things i could of said, so i stood there for a second. Then blurted out one so my dad didn't think I was on something ;)

Another time i dreamed i was in high school & I can remember my thoughts. I could even remember me thinking "Hey, this was in a dream! Hi me!" (not the last part) in my dream.

What does this mean?

Does the PC have most of the Xbox 360 games for it? I thought since Microsoft made both (in a way) then that should be the case. What do you guys say?