Alexandra

long story short, i'm a 19 year old female and I have never orgasmed. I frequently masturbate and have tried multiple things: porn, books, thoughts etc, but nothing works for me. i even use vibrators.

I love masturbating, but it never gets me anywhere, I just do it until it wears off i guess?

I'm also sexually active and I've never orgasmed through that either.

Has anyone else experienced this and got advice?

I started smoking at the start of uni a year ago, more as a social aspect when I was drinking, which obviously as a student was very frequent. I don t think I m addicted to nicotine at this point to be honest, just the motion of smoking? Like I feel like i could vape and have the same effect, however I ve heard vapes can be just as bad, and I have a friend who is more addicted to vape, than she ever was cigarettes.

Is there a sort of vape or even herbal cigarette that isn t that bad?

Basically, I’m currently 6 days late on my period, so I’m starting to freak out a little. It could be me adjusting to my new implant but I’m just thinking worst case.

I had sex on the 24th of Feb, with no condom( I usually always demand a condom but I was drunk and didn’t realize it had been taken off and yeah, it wasn’t a great situation. I had the implant in but it was nearing the end of its expiry so i don’t know how succesful it was.

Thing is I had a period from the 1st-3rd of March.

Last time I had sex was around May 3rd, but we used a condom the whole time, I had a new implant, and he didn’t finish in me, so it’s super unlikely right?

Can it be the first time even though I had a period like a week later?

Hi! Basically I m a uni student and can t really afford expensive razors, so I use disposable, which is absoloutely fine on my legs/armpits etc. but not do much on my pubic area. I don t really like shaving in general there as I tend to cut myself and it still leaves little dots of hair, but I do like to be hairless there, personally.

Hair removal cream can only be used on the bikini line though, right? And I ve never waxed (myself or professionally) before, so that intimidates me. Whats the best method for clean hair removal?

Hi, basically I've come home from uni for xmas, and need to hide a rather awful smoking habit. Trust me, I know it's unhealthy etc, I'm working on it. But basically I really struggle to hide it at home. One of my parents is almost always in so I can't just smoke outside when they're out.

It's nearly 10pm right now and I haven't smoked in like 2 days, because I haven't been able to, so I'm wondering if I can get away with it outside my window?

I'm thinking if I wear a beanie to cover my hair, and change my clothes, gum etc and only hold the *** outside and smoke out the window would that work? Or would the smell still get in.

Thank you!

I ve been taking the pill on and off (mostly on) for 6 years, and I was told to take them contiuously due to period issues. Now I ve been told to have a break every 3 months, so I stopped taking the pill Monday, and now 4 days later there s nothing. Previously if I ve run out of pills my period can start 2-3 days later, so I m getting a bit worried.

I m on the implant and haven t had sex in 3-4 weeks, so I was on the pill also at the time, so it s unlikely I m pregnant but I am freaking out. I keep getting waves of nausea, though this could be due to antibiotics (only taken since Tuesday) or stress due to moving to uni soon. I m going to take a test in the morning anyway, but I am doubting it.

Is there any reason my period hasn t come yet???

*I POSTED YESTERDAY BUT DIDN'T GET MUCH RESPONSE AND I'M PRETTY DESPERATE SO TRYING AGAIN*

I m trying to change to cruelty free makeup, for obvious reasons, however I m struggling. This foundation is my favourite product and I m struggling to replace it. It s perfect for my skins, and makes the rest of my makeup look fab, but I cannot find any other alternative!

I ve tried wake me up, NYX stay matte, no7 stay perfect, and so many others but nothing looks as good as Macs.

I don t care about the price, I m willing to invest if it makes me feel how MACs did.

Thank you!

I m trying to change to cruelty free makeup, for obvious reasons, however I m struggling. This foundation is my favourite product and I m struggling to replace it. It s perfect for my skins, and makes the rest of my makeup look fab, but I cannot find any other alternative!

I ve tried wake me up, NYX stay matte, no7 stay perfect, and so many others but nothing looks as good as Macs.

I don t care about the price, I m willing to invest if it makes me feel how MACs did.

Thank you!

I'm booked in for a tattoo tomorrow, and I'm extremely anxious for it, and fear I may have a panic attack. I was prescribed proponalol (beta blockers) to take for panic attacks, so I was going to take one just before the tattoo to calm my nerves, but obviously if it thins blood it'll run the tattoo, and google isn't helping at all aha.

Also paracetemol. I know iburprufen thins blood, but not read anything about paracetemol?

2 weeks ago I got diagnosed with viral tonsillitis which wasn t pleasant at all, but I had a couple days off college which seemed to get rid of the majority of it. It never fully went, but was barely noticable, however a week later it came back worse. I ve been off college for a week with headaches, light headedness, awful cough/throat, and I threw up 2 days ago.

Now on the 3rd day of being off I was applying for jobs, as I was made redundant a month previously and I desperately need work. I applied while I was ill because most places hadnt got back to me for a couple weeks, however this place got back to me literally 15 minutes later, asking me to come for an interview the next day. I was honest and told them I was overcoming tonsillitis and they were nice enough to reschedule it to tomorrow, however I m not a lot better.

I haven t been sick again, and my headache isn t as awful, but I can t calm this cough down. If this was like a retail interview I think I could get away with it, but it s a resteraunt cooking job, and I believe the interview is in the kitchen, and obviously there s hygiene rules about that.

Shall I go and request the interview be somewhere else? Or not go at all and see if they ll reschedule again? I really don t want to miss out as they are the only job that s got back to me so far and they did seem really eager as I have qualifactions and experience.

This sounds stupid, and I know I m going to get a sarky answer, but hear me out.

On Saturday I have a Musical Theatre university audition, for West London, and it states that makeup is strictly forbidden, and usually I m fine without makeup, I m pretty confident. However, typically when my skin needs to be good, it isn t. I have to scabby spots on my cheek, and the naturally dark under eyes (I ve always had them, not even a full face hides them), and they re really veiny and deep. Is there anyway I can look a bit better, by doing something in the week before to prepare? Thank you

For my coursework I need to do a presentation on job roles in Musical Theatre. We have 3 groups to do a job role for, Performing (which I've just done Acting for), Production, and Admin.

I could probably think of production easily (though suggestions would be helpful), but I'm stuck on admin as I missed the lesson, what jobs are considered admin in musical theatre? Thank you

In January I am auditioning for 3 universities on Musical Theatre courses, and need to purchase a leotard.

In all of my MT education so far I have never had to wear one, just because it wasn t necessary, but I think it s more appropriate for auditions.

Only problem is I don t have a dancers body AT ALL. I m a fairly good dancer, just don t have the look, so I struggle with leotards.

I am 17, 5 10, size 8, with 30FF chest, which makes it so difficult, especially as I can t wear a bra under the leotard (up until now I ve always worn jazz shorts and a sports bra for dance wear).

My plan is to get a size 8 leotard and just pray it flattens me down enough, but I don t know the logistics.

I m also really tall so I m worried about that also, as well as not really wanting to exceed £20.

What leotards are best for this problem, and also what s audition appropriate? Black or coloured?

Thank you!

I have an audition, and it requires performing a MT song as a dramatic monologue. I have a few ideas but I m open to more. Thank you:)

I m a dancer and generally I just wear a sports bra and shorts which are fine, but for some upcoming auditions I need to wear a leotard, however I m a 30FF. I m a size 8, so I have to get a small leotard, but I don t know how I m meant to get away with wearing a bra?

I've sent off 3 applications, all coming back saying I don't meet the educational needs for the job, however I've finished secondary school and I'm currently in college. They definitely hire at age 17, so they can't expect any more than that? I said I graduated my secondary school, but not my a levels, as I haven't yet, am I meant to just say I have graduated as I intend to?

I don't know if my not ticking graduated they think I've just dropped out.

I have eczema and one of the things that really trigger it is water, so when I have a bath my legs gets really painfully itchy, so I scratch them. I noticed to spots/bumps on my legs and assumed it was just where I was scratching or an eczema reaction to the water.

This happened to both individually but I ll just tell about one of them.

So I woke up and it was really raised, and scabby, so being the gross idiot I am, I squeezed it, and it popped like a spot, except the puss was green. It drained for a little while, then I pushed it again and a hard green clunk came out, which was pretty gross, and now it s immedietly gone down and they re starting to go away.

If it was one I wouldn t be as concerned, but this happened with both, is it some sort of infection?

Hi, so for a long time I ve wanted to dye my hair a fairly dark blonde (some would probably say light brown but you get the idea). I have a couple questions before even booking my consultation.

1. My hair has been dyed for a year, and it s been blonde ombre, red, then dark brown, all dyed over eachother because I m in idiot, will they bleach over this or will they remove it, then bleach my hair?

2.What is it referred to as? In the dying section all the websites I ve found have referred to full head of highlights, or change of colour. I m assuming change of colour is what it sounds like, but looking at full head looks good too, is there a better one of the two?

My hair is actually in good condition. I always trim it, and use conditioners for dyed hair so it isn t damaged at all.

The place I ve booked my consultation with is fairly fancy, so not a cheap place, I just want to make sure I understand everything first. Thank you!