Beverly M

So I met this Gemini guy back in 08 when we were both undergrad in college. I just knew him from around campus, and we spoke occasionally. So in 2012 I wrote him on face book, and we started talking non-stop,mainly online. I am a Scorpio female. We couldn't get along to save our lives. So around September 2012 he got mad and stopped talking to me. Our fights were mainly about him being so confusing, always telling me to submit to him (he is not my husband) and just his constant, random disappearing in and out of my life! So he called me in November 2012 claiming he was "checking on me." So I gave in and wrote him back in December, mainly because we were not a couple, and I didn't want to ruin what could've possibly been a friendship. It wasn't long before we stopped talking again, it was January, 2013. This time I got off face book from Jan-July. He only called me once throughout that whole time, and I didn't answer. So when I got back on in July, he writes me apologizing for the confusion, and I didn't respond until August. So we continued on talking like nothing happened. He kept accusing me of being in relationships, I was never in. He kept referring to my "boyfriend" which I didn't have, because I was single. This past January he stopped talking to me, and now I just feel really heartbroken because he said the words "I don't like you" but he said it after I cursed him out. I reached a breaking point, and he was frustrating me with his games. I'm just confused as to why he feels the need to keep coming back, or questioning me. When we talk on the phone he's very open, but he's very short with me when we're online. We also live in 2 different states!

So I met this Gemini guy back in 08 when we were both undergrad in college. I just knew him from around campus, and we spoke occasionally. So in 2012 I wrote him on face book, and we started talking non-stop,mainly online. I am a Scorpio female. We couldn't get along to save our lives. So around September 2012 he got mad and stopped talking to me. Our fights were mainly about him being so confusing, always telling me to submit to him (he is not my husband) and just his constant, random disappearing in and out of my life! So he called me in November 2012 claiming he was "checking on me." So I gave in and wrote him back in December, mainly because we were not a couple, and I didn't want to ruin what could've possibly been a friendship. It wasn't long before we stopped talking again, it was January, 2013. This time I got off face book from Jan-July. He only called me once throughout that whole time, and I didn't answer. So when I got back on in July, he writes me apologizing for the confusion, and I didn't respond until August. So we continued on talking like nothing happened. He kept accusing me of being in relationships, I was never in. He kept referring to my "boyfriend" which I didn't have, because I was single. This past January he stopped talking to me, and now I just feel really heartbroken because he said the words "I don't like you" but he said it after I cursed him out. I reached a breaking point, and he was frustrating me with his games. I'm just confused as to why he feels the need to keep coming back, or questioning me. When we talk on the phone he's very open, but he's very short with me when we're online. We also live in 2 different states!

Have you ever had an incomplete feeling with an ex? There's this guy I was with for 13 months in 8th grade and shortly after. Our relationship didn't end bad, we broke up because I was suppose to move away, but I didn't. However, we did have a disagreement on the phone, and we were cracking hurtful jokes towards each other, and after that day I never called him again. I wasn't really angry with him, I just thought it was immature, but we were kids at the time, this happened in 2001. So years later, while we were freshmen in college, 2005, we found each other on facebook. He would write me and say he missed me, and we should keep in touch. I gave him my dorm number, and after a while we lost contact with each other, he deleted his facebook. So about 2007, he adds me on facebook, and he's in a relationship, but he still wrote me saying lets be friends, and just kind words, I then found out his mom had passed over the time he got off facebook. I lost my mom at 7, so I gave him encouraging words, and we were just friendly towards each other. So then he disappears again. In December 2012 I was looking for him on facebook, and couldn't find him. Literally a week later facebook suggested I add him as a friend, he had just created the account. I didn't add him, I just wrote him, saying "I hope you're blessed and well" He said that I had woke him out of his sleep, and he kept on writing me. So around 3 weeks ago he added me as a friend, and he's in a relationship now. I haven't accepted or rejected his friend request. But I always feel there's some incompleteness between us. He was my first love, my first kiss. But I've never had sex with him, and I don't know him as an adult. All I remember is the boy he was, when we were kids. Why do I feel there's incompleteness between us? I also feel like I'm obligated to check on him from time to time. It's like a year can't go by, that I don't know rather he's safe or not!

I met my supposed best friend in College in 2008. It was her and 5 other girls, we all became close because we all lived in the same dorm building. Now over the years in College my other friends and I would notice that she would do shady things to all of us. For instance, borrowing a brand new pair of shoes, and returning them dirty. Borrowing money, instead of paying people back, she would have her hair and nails done, and new clothes. Whenever she got mad with a friend, she would go talk to the guy they like etc. I noticed she was a slob because one yr before Christmas break she threw a chicken bone in my panty drawer and I didn't notice. When I returned from break, I found it and my roommate told me who did it, she said the girl was aiming for the trash can, but it flew in my drawer, which I thought was weird and nasty. She also was accused of bringing roaches to the dorm, which I did see in her room one day. So yrs later, the girl is living in FL with her family, and things wasn't going right in my life where I was. Her roommate flaked on her, leaving her to pay rent she couldn't afford. So I thought I needed a change of scenery and since we were best friends, I decided to move to FL to help her out, and start my life over. Once I move in the roaches were everywhere,she leaves bloody pads on the bathroom floor, spills food all over the carpet and kitchen, sleeps on the sofa and smashes it in, when she has a room, she's a complete slob, borrows money and clothes, and gets upset when I ask for my things back. Now recently her mom and new friends that she met here have stopped communicating with me, at first her mom and friends were friendly now it's all fake, they hardly speak to me. Do you think that she played victim to them, to get them to dislike me? And should I let this friendship go? She does dumb things like lie about being one place, when she's really another just so I won't meet up with her and her friends, she's only cool with me when her other friends are mad at her, or when she wants to borrow something, and she's always in a negative mood. I've tried praying and and communicating with her, but I honestly feel like I've outgrown the friendship. All of my other friends just say "You knew better than to move in with her of all people" but I thought since we were older now, she'd become more responsible. She also acts as if she can't have peace in her life. For instance, if her new friends are mad at her, or make her mad, she'll want to hang with me. But when they start back talking, she acts funny towards me. She never owns up to any thing that she does wrong, there's always an excuse, or she plays the victim!

When I was a child I had extremely curly hair. My mom died when I was 7 and one of her last request was to never perm my hair, well 4 yrs later one of my aunts decided to let the neighbor perm my hair. Which initially pissed my other aunt off, she even came to the lady house and asked her to pretend to perm my hair, but she showed up too late. At the time I was a child, and all I wanted was straight hair, like everyone else, and I really didn't have a choice. For years my roots have always been curly, but the rest of my hair would be damaged. I don't think I would look right with extremely short hair, however it beats the damaged,uneven hair I've been dealing with. My hair grows fast, but I'm unsure as to the texture it will be, and will I be able to deal with it? I have some friends who have cut their hair, and the natural looks good on them, and I see the growth, however I have a friend who cut her hair 3 yrs ago, and it just won't grow, and she also doesn't have any edges. I'm not sure if it's because she went natural, or just isn't caring for her hair? I know that since I've met her she gets her hair done a lot, and use glue wraps as well, her hair has always been extremely short, and her natural hair sheds everywhere, and she keeps weave in a lot. My other friends hair grow out pretty long, curly, and thick. Can someone tell me the best affordable products to use, how often I should wash my hair, get my ends cut etc. I just would like for it grow and stay healthy...thanks!

When I was an undergrad I met this guy around campus. We were sort of like associates. One day I was walking from the store back to campus, which was only like a block and a half away, and he saw me walking and let me in his car to drop me off in front of my dorm (He lived on campus as well). The campus wasn't really that big, so my friends knew him, and I knew all of his friends. I ended up leaving school after the first year to work, but we were face book friends and he always came off as a southern gentleman (I'm from Chicago), so his opening doors and always speaking was different than what I was used to. So 3 semesters later I returned to school. I kept seeing him around campus and he would speak, and say welcome back, at this time all of my friends had transferred schools, so I was sort of a loner, which was fine with me, because now I was older and extremely focused on just school. He would see me eating in the cafe alone, and would come to my table and sit with me, this happened 3 times. Then one day he invited me to a house party, but we didn't speak much there, because I was with my friend, and he was with his. During the time I was out of school and working, I told him I was bored in my new location, and he said "see you should've came back here." Now everyone is done with school, and he's in the army, living in Atlanta, and I live in Houston. We aren't face book friends because I deleted my original account, but I write him from time to time, just a simple "hey, how's it going" or "Hey I'm praying for you" in terms of being active in the army. And he says "thanks and I'll be praying for you too." I told my best friend about the situation and she believes that there was a time in which he liked me, and I missed it. But I don't feel that way. She has this belief that because I'm extremely shy around men I may have scared him off. I just want advice on what step I could take next. Because when I randomly write him, it's gotten to the point in which I say things that don't exactly lead us into a big conversation...?I don't want to rush, or make things so obvious... Thanks

Ok so I was at my biggest size ever. On April 27th I decided to start dieting and working out, for like 45-60 minutes a day, or longer. My family and friends noticed I was losing a lot of weight fast, and when I weighed in this morning I lost 60 lbs. Is this normal, or even healthy? I wasn't starving myself, just started only eating veggies, fruits, chicken baked or grilled, and salmon, and drinking lots of water. My dad says it's not healthy, but the weght is gone, and I'm continuing on. I was however considered big for my height and age.

My best friend and I are interested in either/or The Reserves or regular Air Force. However, I'm unsure as to rather or not they're the same. If you're in the reserves do you get the same privileges as the regular air force? Such as serving your country, pay-rates, living on base/barracks, on base shopping, medical/dental,air force jobs, military I.D. and help with school loans etc. Do you have the same BMT as the Air force? I don't know anyone who is currently in the military, so anything will help! Thanks!

If you're not into horoscope then don't bother answering! I'm a Scorpio (extremely emotional) and I've known this Gemini guy since 2008. We've been associates every since, we met in College. Recently we have been writing each other on face book nonstop. But sometimes when I write him he disappears for days. The 1st time he never responded to my message, and he disappeared for 10 days. But he was on facebook,liking pics, updating his status etc. The second time was recently. We were messaging each other and he asked if I was single, and told me how he has always thought I was beautiful. So he randomly ended that conversation, which I didn't mind because we had been chatting for almost 5 hrs overnight. The next day I asked him how was his day, and I also told him what I was doing that day. He writes me and says I'm busy I'll get back to you later. I kept thinking all you had to do was say hello. He was still online updating his status and liking pics etc. Now it's to the point where he'll not respond to my messages but constantly like my statuses... Can someone explain if he's interested, or just being confusing?? It's so annoying to the point in which I'm ready to delete him from my friends list! But I don't want to do the wrong thing!

They sent two metal frames and the headboard and foot board and i bought a spring mattress what can i use as a substitute for a box spring until I'm able to find a trucking company and a place that sells one at an affordable cost? please don't provide me with truck companies info or places that sell box springs. I only need to know what i can use as a substitute.....and i have no middle frame part as of right now but i do have some wooden boards in my living room..

On a $10 they gave me it said "Terry For President" and although I'm not voting for whoever he is, I just have to ask ISN'T THIS ILLEGAL??

Although I'm young...24...I'm not into all of these new phones I have an old smart phone my uncle gave me that was once his, it's a nokia :-(. He gave it to me like 7 months ago and before that i had an old flip/push up phone. Now all it (nokia) does is shuts off, when I'm on it, when I'm not, it screws up my alarms etc. I need a phone that's touch screen, that can block numbers (darn telemarketers keep calling from 503 numbers) what's an updated/affordable phone that I don't have to download apps and all that other technology stuff???AND I'M NOT INTERESTED IN RENEWING CONTRACTS, SIGNING UP FOR A PLAN, SPAM SITES, AND ALL THE OTHER CRAP THAT'S OFF TOPIC....THX IN ADVANCE :-)

In may I got a JCP credit card and my limit was only $100. I know it''s because I just started re-building my credit! I've requested an increase 2 times and was denied both times. But today I logged into my account and they increased it to $1000 is that strange?Because I know they have the red card at below $500 limit, the gold at $500 or more and last the platinum at $1000 or more. What could have made them take me from red to platinum....is this a mistake?I hardly use my jcp card but just curious?

I just moved to Houston from Iowa. My best friend was living down there in a 2 bedroom and needed help with rent. I was not happy with where i was living at the time so I decided I needed a change of scenery anyway so I moved all my stuff to Houston. Before I got there we discussed all of these rules we agreed on. Well before I even got there she started letting her soror stay there (supposedly until school starts back in mid August) My things were already down there. It cost me over $1000 to ship my stuff, buy my ticket etc. We also discussed guess sleeping overnight, MY DISLIKE FOR ROACHES(which she said she had none)!, fees, privacy, food, cleanliness etc. Now I'm here.....IT'S ROACH CITY,SHE'S NASTY,I MEAN i feel like i've been scammed. I'm suppose to sign the lease on August 1st (Monday in 2 days) and I want her to sign a contract before I do! I'm going to buy some boric acid and bengal gold spray as well :-(. I'm not a neat freak or anything but I was raised in a household with my uncles who were in the Marines & the Army! My grandma taught me that no womans house should be nasty. I'm not old-fashioned but I feel like no human beings house should be nasty. The other day she went to school, I came out my room and saw like 5 roaches in the kitchen, like i haven't put one thing in the fridge, I also haven't ate real food in days...just chips and water from my luggage! That morning I also saw in the corner of the dining room a birthday cake on the floor..like seriously? A DAMN SHEET CAKE!...SITTING NEXT TO A EMPTY TRASH CAN...so uh yea what should i put in this contract?

So my best friend lives in a 2 bedrm apt in Houston and I'm moving down there and I'm really scared because now i live in a shelter and I'll have to leave here when I'm 25 which is in October I have money saved up and my stuff is pack I just can't get over my nerves and the possibilities and what ifs....I need to put my 30 day notice in today or tomorrow I'm so nervous. This move will be great for me, she'll work out with me and I can finally live my life and I'll be in school and working as well...how do people get over the moving nerves!Also she is the only person I know in Texas!

I ORDERED THE 25 PACK OF LARGE BOXES FROM USPS TO SHIP AT A FLAT RATE AND THEY ARE EXTREMELY SMALL. i'M MOVING FROM ST PAUL MN TO HOUSTON TX AND I'M THINKING WILL IT BE EASIER TO SHIP 4-5 REALLY BIG BOXES?I'M ONLY TRYING TO SPEND $300-$500 FOR SHIPPING AND I'M MOVING A SMALL STUDIO AND I HAVE NO FURNITURE. IT'S MAINLY CLOTHES, BOOKS,PERSONAL ITEMS ETC. I DO NOT KNOW ANY WEIGHT OR LENGTH OR ANYTHING I JUST WANT A GUEST ESTIMATE, OR THE BEST WAY TO SHIP! I WILL BE TRAVELING GREYHOUND!

I am trying to ship 15-20 large priority boxes to Houston TX from St Paul MN. Someone told me flat rate labels are cheaper?I ordered the free boxes from online. I have not packed yet but can someone give me an estimate of the how much this will be? I am moving down there. I dont have a lot of heavy stuff only my books and magazines is the heaviest. I also need to know how exactly do i get these labels, and should i get 20 of them?!

I only have $1700 and I need to get my ticket ($160 greyhound) and have at least August and September rent and bills/fees saved up rent&bills will be $386 (i have a roommate down there waiting 4 me) Is there a way I can move all my boxes down there for $500-$700 bucks? Please don't say UPACK or ABF moving companies they're too damn high. Can I do it by usps,fedex or ups?I have like 15 boxes they're not extremely large/heavy just 3 of them are heavy, how much could this cost me? i don't have a car! and i don't know how to calculate the shipping cost, i dont have any measuring tape either!Please help thx :)

THE QUESTION IS: Is there a way I can move all my boxes down there for $500-$700 bucks? I AM ASKING THE BEST WAY TO MOVE IT, IF U DONT HAVE THE ANSWER DONT ANSWER! U WILL GET A THUMBS DOWN!

I only have $1700 and I need to get my ticket ($160 greyhound) and have at least August and September rent and bills/fees saved up rent&bills will be $386 (i have a roommate down there waiting 4 me) Is there a way I can move all my boxes down there for $500-$700 bucks? Please don't say UPACK or ABF moving companies they're too damn high. Can I do it by usps,fedex or ups?I have like 15 boxes they're not extremely large/heavy just 3 of them are heavy, how much could this cost me? i don't have a car! and i don't know how to calculate the shipping cost, i dont have any measuring tape either!Please help thx :)