margarita lady

I had a question about allergy, in my yahoo mail says i have an answer to my question, but when i go there there's no answer at all... zero response??? why?

I just had my very first allergy shot today. As per instruction from the doctor's office to stay for 30 minutes in the office. This is to observe if i have an adverse reaction from the shot. Thank God, i didn't. After an hour and until at this very moment (8hrs), i have this bad allergy like sneezing, watery and itchy eyes & runny nose. How long this will lasts? Is this normal?

We're married for almost 2 and a half years now. Step-son lived with my husband since he was a kid. He lived with a gf in my husband's (his Dad) house. Son with live-in gf bought a house but after a year they eloped. Step son moved in the house. He started bringing lots of friends men/women in the house ( we let him live in the basement like a suite but without kitchen). Sometimes, when i get home from work he is in our living room watching TV with male friend or a GF ( with GF they are cuddling) that i don't know. Last few months he started bringing different women and have sleeping over. I don't like the idea of different women that we don't know spending the night in the house. When he goes to work, the woman will be left in the basement and just leave whenever she feels like. I also leave early to work and my husband don't leave till around 11am to work. I don't like the idea. I also noticed that when a girl come late at night in the house like 11pm she can just get in the house through the garage. I am wondering why they can get in there, meaning they know already the combination on how to open our garage. One evening, i was in the living room watching TV, this girl came upstairs went straight to the kitchen and opening all the cupboards, i was upset but i just let her, then she came down, the step-son came up ask me something what he needs from the kitchen so i gave it to him. Then after half an hour maybe, this girl came up again and went straight to the kitchen and keeps opening the cupboards. That's the time that i went to her and asked her what's she's looking for and told her that she have to asked me what she needs especially when i am home. Seems she doesn't care and just say "no problem". I don't agree with this kind of behavior these women he's bringing at home. My husband talk to him about everything and he is upset of me, he said he know where all these bullshit coming from. (that's me what's he's talking about) that he said there is a problem in the house that his Dad don't see. One more incident... He was saying ( just after new year) that he is missing a lot of his DVD's. I told him that he brought a lot of friends downstairs that are new faces to me. He said no not my friends. I said "we're only 3 living here what do you mean?" he answered me "that's the thing." infront of his father. I was upset. Since then i don't tidy up the basement anymore.

Am i wrong telling to his Dad what's going on when the Dad is not home? My husband comes home around 11:30pm from work. He's threatening his Dad that he will leave after his knee surgery in two weeks. After the surgery for sure, he will be upstairs with us on the bedroom next to our bedroom. That happen last year, he got knee surgery, we let him stay next to our bedroom so we know if he needs something. But what happen was, there is this woman again who just go in and out of the bedroom. sleeping-over, that he never introduce to us. My husband just looking at each other wondering who is this girl?

It's a big disrespect what he's doing. Knowing that he is already 26 years old. If he's a teen-ager maybe you can understand how he's behaving. I am not comfortable at all. Now he said to his Dad ( my husband, he chose to pick a fight to his own son that he doesn't see the problem in the house), maybe he's referring that i am the problem in the house. I need an honest opinion to this.

you could have a great sex in your life if you sleep with her. (her means daughter in-law). told to the husband but the husband says ... oh mom is just joking.... but the damage is done...

and a follow up statement from me "you look so sweet, they talk to each other often, meaning they maintain their friendship untill now" question from my husband without any malice at all or any jealous feeling but my husband took it so seriously. He said they were attracted to each other when they were in Grade 9... they are 56 years old now. My husband was so mad at me. He said he is tired of me asking inappropriate questions. He asked me to leave the house two days from now. told him i am not leaving (we're married 1.3 months) He always act that way whenever i asked something about his women friends. I just want to know where they're coming from.

He said i have a big problem. He even accused me of having psychological problem. It hurts me so much. There was a previous problem in trust when we're just 3 months married. He hid pictures of a particular female friend.. he claimed she's his friend. He bought folder lock to hide from me. but this is a closed book between us already.

I feel that i am not welcome to his daughter, he never say hi or bye whenever she comes to the house. (this house we're now has been their house with his ex... long time ago and the daughter was born here). I always say hi to her, trying hard to be friend with her. Yes she talk to me sometimes i often noticed her eyes rolling whenever we have conversation, the three of us ( my husband, me and her) i just ignore that. As much as possible i don't want to embrace that feeling that she is not in to me. This morning, my husband and the daughter went to pick up something, i didn't go with them because i have a lot of stuff to do in the house. When he came home... we started talking casually. He mentioned about the grandmother of her daughter (mother of his ex-wife) that the daughter said, grandmother wants to do baking and that she cannot do that because she's living in a home. The home is very close to the ex where the daughter's live, very convenient to the grandma, no steps to climb.

She was an issue at the beginning of our marriage. We had huge fights because of her. My husband hid her from me at the beginning of our marriage. He purchased a folder lock just to hide her pictures from me and kept going to the internet to chat with her behind my back. I came to know all about it when i found out about the folder lock. I was very upset that time, i felt i am betrayed by the two of them. We fought so hard and almost ended up our marriage. He accused me of being jealous, insecure and even sending me away.

Six months,he said that he cut his communication with her already. So be it. I don't want to stress myself again because of her. He stopped going to the net to chat with her and our relationship changed into more closer and deeper.

When i got her message yesterday it upsets me and i became grumpy all day yesterday. He asked my why but i didn't tell him that i got a message from this woman. I don't want to open a topic about her. She's a closed book to us already.

she was not his ex-girlfriend but it's his ex-girlfriend's best friend. The wife talk to him already and the husband is not chatting with her anymore.

why husband still chats in the internet to an old lady friend (an ex-gf friend). They spend hours and hours in the internet seems like they can't get enough from each other. leaving off-line messages if they cannot catch up in the net. the husband claiming to his wife that they are only friends. Is it fair to the wife to keep that frienship burning even he's married already?