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I'm 31 years old and my girlfriend is 29, and we've been together a little over 2 years now. We have sex quite frequently, but it's just sex, no foreplay what so ever. She's told me about her past relationships and mentioned how she's had anal sex with previous boyfriends, and had sex in much more adventurous settings such as while camping and even with other people around. Yet she won't do anything with me of the sort. I've asked her to go down on me multiple times, and every time she refuses. I've asked her why if she supposedly loves me more than any other guy shes been with, then why was she so adventurous sexually with them and not with me. She also has some really weird things going on that I don't really understand, such as she has absolutely no feeling in her clitoris, and doesn't enjoy oral sex on her or me touching her. This brings up alot of questions, and yes I've asked her everything, ranging from was she assaulted at one time, or was she much more sexually active than she leads on. When I asked her why she won't go down on me, she told me that for one I was too big, and that she had never done it for any of her boyfriends, which to me seems like a line of BS. No one goes right to taking it in the butt, and just skips oral sex. And trust me, there isn't anything I haven't asked her. I'm just wondering what the heck is up with her, she wont open up sexually with me at all. This is killing me. Any ideas?

About a week ago I was riding my bike around the block with my girlfriend, and I got a sudden stabbing pain in my outer and front part of my thigh, like someone was literally grinding a knife into my legs, yes both legs. I usually ride about 30 miles a day, yet on this day I had only rode maybe 1 mile at a very very slow and easy pace, when the pain struck. It hurt so bad initially that I used my bike as a walker and then couldn't even walk, so I collapsed in the yard, writhing in pain. As I stated its been about a week now, and every day I try to hop on my bike in the easiest gear, and pedal around the lot very slowly and easily, and yet the pain just comes right back. What is going on here? I've iced my legs, elevated them, put heat on them, took baths in epsom salt, put compression on them, massaged them, took recovery shakes, vitamins, plenty of bananas and potassium supplements, yet nothing works. My legs are fine until I hop on the bike and pedal it. And yes my seat is properly positioned and my bike is a proper fit, I wouldn't have bought a 3000 dollar bike (USED) if it didn't fit right. And yes a good saddle on it, in fact its a SERFAS mens saddle, with the cutout. Nothing explains why I'm getting these horrible pains. Here I am an avid mountain biker, and I can't even ride with my girlfriend that just now started biking. I'm starting to get really depressed thinking if it doesn't go away, I may never be able to ride a bike again. What can I do?

I probably ride my bike anywhere from 20-30 miles a day, (Up hills, down hills, over jumps, flat land, trails, street, everything.) Here lately I can't even make one lap around the block. As soon as I sit down, on a bike or even in my car recently my legs in my middle to upper thighs cramp up and it feels like someone is repeatedly stabbing me in the leg. This started the other day, when I tried going for a short ride with my girlfriend, my legs cramped so bad that I had to get off the bike and use it as a walker, and even then I couldn't take the pain and I literally collapsed in the apartment yard. So yesterday I took the day off from riding and took it easy. I decided that I would work on my bike, and needed to replace my back shock linkage bolt, so I set off to the hardware store. As soon as I sat in my car, the pain came full force, again like someone was stabbing me in the thighs. I've had charlie horses, cramps, and all sorts of pain before, but this doesn't seem to go away. And what scares me is that it flares up all over again no matter how good it feels beforehand if I sit in an upright position such as riding in a car or on a bike. It's only been two days now, but I've been icing it, using mineral ice, went to the gym and got a chair and water massage, even taking baths in epsom salt, and drinking sports recovery drinks and everything. Yet still a stabbing pain in my thighs. Should I be worried?

I recently bought a 2002 Honda Civic from a used car dealership. The Radio serial # is U2311 L6317. However I cannot get the reset code from Honda as the website says my email and or phone # is different. Please help, I really don't want to buy an aftermarket radio right after purchasing a pre owned vehicle. And, no I will not take my car to a Honda dealer where they will charge me 100+ bucks for 2 minutes of their time to look up the reset code on a computer. I need some help PLEASE!

I recently bought a 2002 Honda Civic from a used car dealership. The Radio serial # is U2311 L6317. However I cannot get the reset code from Honda as the website says my email and or phone # is different. Please help, I really don't want to buy an aftermarket radio right after purchasing a pre owned vehicle. And, no I will not take my car to a Honda dealer where they will charge me 100+ bucks for 2 minutes of their time to look up the reset code on a computer. I need some help PLEASE!

In July I broke up with my fiance' of 3 years, and I immediately moved out to avoid further problems. My car had been financed in her name but I had been the sole driver of it, and had paid it off, yet we kept it in her name for convenience and less expensive insurance. She in an attempt to find out where I was and cause more problems, contacted the Blair Nebraska Police Dept., and filed a charge for Unauthorized use of a motor vehicle. I was informed that the charges had been filed so I immediately went to the Blair PD and spoke to a detective. The detective called my ex in and talked to us both in an attempt to resolve the situation. The title to the car was then signed over to me as well I received and signed a bill of sale on the car. My ex even wrote a statement requesting to drop the charges. The detective I spoke to said all should be well, and I was worried that I would have to appear in court and with me being recently homeless I was afraid that I would be unable to appear. The detective said not to worry at all, and the charge would be dropped immediately when it hit the court. However recently I found out I suddenly have a warrant for the charge of unauthorized use of a motor vehicle and also for a failure to appear charge which I had no clue about, since I was homeless during this time. I have called the police dept, to no avail, it's out of their hands. I then called the county sheriffs office, also out of their hands, but they referred me to the county attorney. The county attorney was very rude, saying I had a warrant, and needed to turn my self in, and nothing would be done until she had evidence from all sides, which she already has! I currently have a background check running on a great job I was going to be getting, but now I will probably lose my current one and this prospect, and probably return to being homeless, because some county attorney is to lazy to get off their but and look at papers and just drop the charges. Not only that if I am picked up and or turn myself in I will use my last 100 or so $ to bail myself out, leaving me no money to get to work, meaning if I stay in jail, I'll lose my job, so I'll lose my job anyways. PLEASE, I NEED HELP ASAP! Please help as soon as anyone can, I am a veteran, and I can't lose everything and be homeless again I also cannot afford an attorney, and every attorney I've consulted has said the court is railroading me hard. Please help.

I am reposting this, yet again due to lack of responses or responses that aren't even remotely close to the questions I asked, given the details I have provided. ********* To start off I am 28 years old and my fiance is 25, we've been together for almost 2 years now and are planning on getting married next year in October. In all parts of our relationship its great, except for one... sex. In the beginning of our relationship we would literally hump like rabbits, sometimes 4 times a day, and she would initiate sex just as often as myself. However now it seems like I have to feel guilty just to bring up anything sexual. Anytime I come on to her I get shot down. She NEVER initiates sex anymore at all. However when we do have sex it is GREAT! I've talked to her many times about this and nothing changes. I keep telling her that I also have needs and wants and I as a human being, especially of the male gender, need to feel wanted sexually. I Tel her that I would love it if she initiated it, and yet nothing happens. Im wondering what went wrong here? I've brought up to her in a ploite and respectful way that in past relationships of hers she was with a "hump buddy" and the sole purpose of the relationship was sex, and she would frequently visit the person for that sole purpose. Yet somehow, im the man she wants to spend the rest of her life with and I can't get her to even act a bit flirty with me. She says there are no problems with our relationship, she loves me dearly and she loves the sex. In face she claims its by far the best shes ever had. Well why won't she initiate anything then? She gets mad at me for "bringing up her past" when I question how she could have a relationship in the past with others that solely revolved around sex yet with myself she can't give me any attention sexually. Now im no freaking rocket scientist, but to me it just sounds like she doesn't enjoy sex as much as she claims, and perhaps in not really the best. Yet when I bring these hypothesises to her, she points to my anxiety and panic disorder from the military as my thinking this way. Which makes not a Damn bit of sense to me. All I want is for her to give as much as I do sexually, I want to k own that im not going into a marriage that I will be unhappy sexually in or one that is based on lies.... as in, I am the best, she loves sex with me, so on and so forth. Can anyone please advise me in an appropriate and mature manner on what to do... I am literally at my wits end! Please help!

To start off I am 28 years old and my fiance is 25, we've been together for almost 2 years now and are planning on getting married next year in October. In all parts of our relationship its great, except for one... sex. In the beginning of our relationship we would literally hump like rabbits, sometimes 4 times a day, and she would initiate sex just as often as myself. However now it seems like I have to feel guilty just to bring up anything sexual. Anytime I come on to her I get shot down. She NEVER initiates sex anymore at all. However when we do have sex it is GREAT! I've talked to her many times about this and nothing changes. I keep telling her that I also have needs and wants and I as a human being, especially of the male gender, need to feel wanted sexually. I Tel her that I would love it if she initiated it, and yet nothing happens. Im wondering what went wrong here? I've brought up to her in a ploite and respectful way that in past relationships of hers she was with a "hump buddy" and the sole purpose of the relationship was sex, and she would frequently visit the person for that sole purpose. Yet somehow, im the man she wants to spend the rest of her life with and I can't get her to even act a bit flirty with me. She says there are no problems with our relationship, she loves me dearly and she loves the sex. In face she claims its by far the best shes ever had. Well why won't she initiate anything then? She gets mad at me for "bringing up her past" when I question how she could have a relationship in the past with others that solely revolved around sex yet with myself she can't give me any attention sexually. Now im no freaking rocket scientist, but to me it just sounds like she doesn't enjoy sex as much as she claims, and perhaps in not really the best. Yet when I bring these hypothesises to her, she points to my anxiety and panic disorder from the military as my thinking this way. Which makes not a Damn bit of sense to me. All I want is for her to give as much as I do sexually, I want to k own that im not going into a marriage that I will be unhappy sexually in or one that is based on lies.... as in, I am the best, she loves sex with me, so on and so forth. Can anyone please advise me in an appropriate and mature manner on what to do... I am literally at my wits end! Please help!

To start off I am 28 years old and my fiance is 25, we've been together for almost 2 years now and are planning on getting married next year in October. In all parts of our relationship its great, except for one... sex. In the beginning of our relationship we would literally hump like rabbits, sometimes 4 times a day, and she would initiate sex just as often as myself. However now it seems like I have to feel guilty just to bring up anything sexual. Anytime I come on to her I get shot down. She NEVER initiates sex anymore at all. However when we do have sex it is GREAT! I've talked to her many times about this and nothing changes. I keep telling her that I also have needs and wants and I as a human being, especially of the male gender, need to feel wanted sexually. I Tel her that I would love it if she initiated it, and yet nothing happens. Im wondering what went wrong here? I've brought up to her in a ploite and respectful way that in past relationships of hers she was with a "hump buddy" and the sole purpose of the relationship was sex, and she would frequently visit the person for that sole purpose. Yet somehow, im the man she wants to spend the rest of her life with and I can't get her to even act a bit flirty with me. She says there are no problems with our relationship, she loves me dearly and she loves the sex. In face she claims its by far the best shes ever had. Well why won't she initiate anything then? She gets mad at me for "bringing up her past" when I question how she could have a relationship in the past with others that solely revolved around sex yet with myself she can't give me any attention sexually. Now im no freaking rocket scientist, but to me it just sounds like she doesn't enjoy sex as much as she claims, and perhaps in not really the best. Yet when I bring these hypothesises to her, she points to my anxiety and panic disorder from the military as my thinking this way. Which makes not a Damn bit of sense to me. All I want is for her to give as much as I do sexually, I want to k own that im not going into a marriage that I will be unhappy sexually in or one that is based on lies.... as in, I am the best, she loves sex with me, so on and so forth. Can anyone please advise me in an appropriate and mature manner on what to do... I am literally at my wits end! Please help!

I am 27 years of age and currently work in the detail bay at a local car dealer. I am by all accounts from management the best employee in the shop and my raises show it. However.... I have noticed more and more being made fun of and even harassed at work. For example I have a back and neck injury related to my military service. I frequently crack my neck and back to relieve the constant pain I am in. Its obviously also very painful as I have my disability claim in with the va for it amongst other things related to military service. I notice people poking fun at my disability cracking their own necks or holding them sideways and laughing as a way to get a rise from me. This is somewhat tolerable. However, recently I found out from a coworker that an assistant manager of our dept who is now getting promoted was talking Crap to crewmembers telling them things like "I am a whiner, a pansy, a liar, not in any pain at all and encouraging the crewmembers to make fun of me and to harass me." This assistant manager has been reported to hr by myself and others on multiple occasions for showing porn to underage workers while on the clock and on his phone. He does not work at all.... sometimes he will sit in the office all day long and on other occasions he will be found out back also escaping his duties as an assistant while smoking down cigarettes left and right. I'm quite certain hes starter things with me now and encouraged the coworkers to start trouble with me for one of two reasons. The first reason being my report of him to hr, which by the way hr did nothing and shared every bit of confidential information I shared with them with all of the management in my department which strongly denied all of the allegations towards the assistant manager. I feel he may be trying to retaliate against me. Second reason being as though he is a crappy worker that has slipped through the cracks he doesn't want someone who is a hard worker to come along and take his place.

You've listed in several posts that you were a Ranger and an Operative of ODA 595, however I'm having a very hard time believing this with some of your responses, that even an e-1 in basic would know the answer to.

If you could answer me these questions then Don.

While in ODA 595, what was your primary method of transportation in Afghanistan? Also.... what was your ITB PLT and CO? And tell me what almost all of the ranges there were named.

If you can't answer these, I'm planning on making a few calls, as you are in violation of the Stolen Valor Act.

Your choice.

The good majority of so called atheists on here, are actually anti-theists. I have no problem with atheists as each human is entitled to his or her beliefs, but whats with these other guys?

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I'm 27, and she is 24. Can someone with some insight into astrology give us some advice or perhaps a look into the future?

I'm not looking for google links, and or a copy and paste site info, real knowledge only please.

I can give additional info if needed. I will be checking in frequently to add info and respond.

I was wondering if the Stolen Valor Act, covers all fraudulent acts such as posing as a serviceman, and or veteran. Or does it only cover misrepresentation of medals, tabs and so on.

I notice a lot of Fakes on the internet, and well it just pisses me off a bit.

And your views on doing other things that may be considered not typically correct during this day of rest?

I'll be quick to vote and checking on this often.

Can anyone else add anything? Think of something totally off the wall and just say it.

Mines been a bit bland so far. No one to celebrate it with. Looking for some stories to cheer me up!

I have been living with my girlfriend for about 3 months now, I am 27 years old, and she is 24. We both have a very great relationship emotionally, physically, and sexually. In fact even she has said she likes how open we are with each other, how much we have in common, and well how great the sex is...lol.

However I do have one problem. I am not in any way a jealous type nor hold any feelings against any of her ex's. In fact I have met a few if them and get along with them quite well. Not to mention there is a good deal of trust between both her and I.

Here's where the problem lies though.....

Her last relationship wasn't really a relationship at all. She was seeing a guy here in town for a friends with benefits sort of thing for about 6 months. He abruptly ended their thing, and then started seeing a 19 year old girl. My girlfriend says that nothing will ever happen between them again, but I don't understand why she would even want to be friends with someone that used her only for sex, and then it was only on his terms while it lasted. She says oh we are still just friends, and yes I trust her, but deep down in side of every guy there's that little bit of gut feeling that says Hmmmm what the heck should I do here?

This situation really only worries me for two reasons.

1.- We saw him at the bar one night with his current g/f. Instead of paying attention to her, he was more inclined to stare at my girlfriend almost the entire night. Not to mention try and start crap with her father who was also there by saying. "Well why didn't you like me, you seem to like this guy, and I actually had a job". Speaking of the job thing, I'm new to the area, have been looking, and is just a small town, very hard to find work here..... but I have found some side things here and there doing roofing and laborer type work. It just offends me that he would bring up me when he wouldn't know anything about me or my history.

This guy is an ex convict to say the least and he had the balls to bring up something about me, when I'm a US Army Veteran Infantryman, and I've also worked as a military contractor overseas doing force security work for a company called Dyncorp Intl. Sort of offensive when a Felon tries to talk crap about you, I mean where does he see the right?...lol.

Anyways, I told her that he had offended me and I was going to bring something up to him about how anything he thought of me should not ever leave his mouth, unless he first told it to me. She said "Oh dont worry about him, its not worth it, he's also my friend to."

At this point I felt very pinned almost to say... I was with in inches of saying screw this and helping her dad knock the crap out of him...lol. But being a nice guy.....lol, I resisted said oh well screw it, and had another beer.

This almost makes me feel as though in a way she was defending him, or maybe I don't know perhaps I was over reacting and she just didnt want to bail me out of jail...lol.

Basically where this comes down to is I am worried that he will try to see her again.

What is the best way without physical violence that I can tell him...STAY THE HELL AWAY. Without of course saying just that.

Also I am a bit worried that she still may have some sort of feelings for him. But again maybe she wasnt defending him, even my friends have said she probably didn't want you in any sort of trouble.

Feel free to discuss this and perhaps give me an outsiders view on the situation and any advice.

Thank you very much, and have a great weekend!

I am 27 years old and a male. I have had panic disorder for the past 4 months. At first I was on Lexapro as my medication, which totally killed my sex drive, made orgasm near impossible, and also made it impossible to hold a strong erection.

However in the last week, I was removed from the Lexapro by a local doctor, at my wish, and switched to Buspar.

I have noticed an extreme rise in libido with taking the Buspar for only one week now, and I find that any other sexual, lexapro related problems have almost vanished.

I am just wondering is this effect normal, and also has anyone else experienced an effect such as this from Buspar?