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Ok, My BF (I am 36 and he is 44) Is in Prison , on a 6 mth Parole Revocation. Well, Including county and being in the State.. he has been gone 8mths. This whole time every day we are either on the phone, or getting letters from one another.

Well, i havent heard from him since LAST Sunday.. Over a week. No call, no letter. Nothing. His mother has received a letter though. So I know he is safe.

He is due to be released, within the next week.

After this whole time he has not gone longer than 2 days without having some kind of contact with me. Its now been 9 days.

What do i think?

I am 36 years old. I have always considered myself a strong woman. I have made it through alot of bad things in my life, But, in the past couple of months, I just cant seem to get a breath of fresh air.

I have had the worse luck ever. I keep trying to keep my chin up, but, Just doesnt seem possible anymore. 1st I lost my job, then of course my house. So, I luck up and find a house that I can live in Rent free , only have to pay the electric bill. So , the deposit is $175 and I am staying with a friend and have my son staying with his friends cause there is no room for us both here. Well, my car breaks down, Cant find anyone to fix it and have no money. So , I save up enough money to pay the light deposit, had it last Tuesday. Well, wednesday I am at a wedding and my purse gets stolen, With every dime I had to my name and the only key to my broke down car, the title to my car, My phone . Of course everything else you would keep in your purse. So, now after 2 months I am pennyless and still homeless. I am really feeling low right now.

Thanks to anyone who took the time to read this. I guess I just needed to vent.

I got this last night. I thought it would look good. I do not like it. Can you give me any advice on how to make it look a little better. I am not a tattoo person. So The smaller the better. Just make it look better. ** let me add that I already had the hearts on my ankle.. I had them add this to it.

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Short of it::

He makes good money.

We have been married 13yrs this June.

We have 2 children toghether.

I left him in Alabama (to Arkansas)

He would never let me work. Made me stay home and raise babies.

He makes $100,000

He is suing for custody of our two girls

He has 3 felony convictions of 3rd degree battery againts me.

He has 9 Misdameanor convictions of 3rd degree againts me.

He is still on a 6 yr suspeneded sentence.. (21 mths left)

I am working 2 jobs. Living in a nice house

Not even a speeding ticket..

Can his money buy him custody?

Ok .. I work alot.Going througha divorce and I have to depend on him to help with the younger ones. I found out tonight from his Ex angry girlfriend that he is smoking and having sex.

I also caught him tonight in his room with his laptop webcamming his private parts.

He is already angry and mean to me for the divorce. I dont want to make things worse, but, I cant let him do this to his life . Advice will be very much appreciated.

Ok. Yall have helped me so much through all this. I need your help again. I am single for the first time. Working for the first time. I have three kids. Ages 6 , 10 and 15... I have to work. What can I do for them this summer? Any Ideas? I dont want them sitting here all summer staring at each other and fighting.

This just hit me Thursday afternoon. I am so tired and my muscles hurt. No other symptoms except a little bit of a sore throat. ??

I never get sick.

What is wrong with me?

Only does this on the spin Cycle... It backs up out of the drain that you put into the wall ! Any ideas of what this could be caused by?

Well it got kinda muggy the other night so I turned the A/C on NOTHING!! No noise.. No clicking sound.. Nothing at all. I checked the breaker box and their all on. Can someone give me and Idea of what else it could be?

This decision was in trust that my husband(seperated) would send me $. Well, Guess what? My Car note $$ is gone and he sent me nothing.

What should I Do? I mean if I am this tight with $$ that something a small as easter will make me loose my Car can I make it on my own?

Soon to be EX told me that if I couldnt take care of them he can.

But for 2 straight days I have done nothing but worry about how to buy their easter and he obviously forgot about it.

Should I just turn my car in? Cause I cant do this everytime something comes up. My kids will always come first.

Hello all. I am a recently single Mom to 3. I am a waitress and Bring home good tips. But, since its cash I spend it as fast as I get it. Does anyone have a good idea of how I can save half or more of my tips everyday , so I can see actual money at the end of the week? I am very very bad at saving money. I am scared if I just stick it back in a drawer I will get into it all the time. Can anyone give me advice on putting this money back so I will have a lump some to pay bills with?

Hello all. I am recently single. Been seperated for 5 months and will be final in May.

I work alot! My sister helps me with the kids. I have 3. Alot of nights I do not get home until 9 pm.

I am wondering, how do I have a social life with 3 children? I feel so guilty working all the time. When I am off I would like to see friends or maybe even have a date. How do I do this? or should I even do it? I am so confused.

We have 3 children and I left him. He was very verbally abusive. I am happy where I am . But, It hurts sooo bad. He calls me and I hurt. I think of him and I hurt. When I am with him I hurt. When I am not with him I hurt. I am so confused. I love him , but, he is so mean to me. So controlling. Its been 4 months. and has just gotten harder. Please someone help me.

I have a large document that I have scanned on my pc... It saved to pictures. I need to open it so I can write on it. Can you help me.

Hello, Please give me any advice or answers you have for this.

We seperated in Sept. of 09. Since then I have lived alone with my 3 children. Have not worked.

What if anything can I do to keep him form claiming us as dependents? I have no W-2's. He supported us for the whole marriage. Is it fair that he gets to get all of the tax return to keep for hmself? Me and the kids are without a vechicle and no money. he is not paying child support. Does he have all the rights to claim us and receive every dime of the return?

My Iphone just stopped ringing. I have reset it and changed ringer. It will vibrate. And will play my ring tones. so its not the speakers. just wont play when it rings. Can someone help.

My child was born in Arkansas. I was married when she was born , but he was not the father. Anyone know what I can do to give her , her fathers last name? He wants this also.

Thank you in advance for any help.

My sons best friends Mom died last night.. Very sudden. All she had was her 15 yr old son.

I am very upset and confused right now. But I do know one thing.

Her son is an awesome child, His father is no where around. All he has is an 86 yr old grandfather.

I want to do something for this child.

Trust fund or something like it.

I have no idea where to start. Do any of you have an idea of what I can do and where I go to do it. ?

Ok, I have a very good friend that is really confused.

She is married and has been for several years. She has 3 children and a NOT SO GOOD marriage.

She has recently somehow got in contact with her first and only Love.

He seems interested in being around her. Her now husband is constantly talking about getting divorced.

She is scared of this. She has never been alone and is dependent on him for everything.

She is very much in love with this First Love. And so very much wants to see him .

What do you think she should do?

How is possoble to make rice cook in one min? What do they do to it?