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I practice JKD and various chinese martial arts Iam agnostic, and do think there is a good chance that a higher power may exist, but if it doesn, its nowhere near the god you see in the Bible who constantly contradicts himself. I love poetry, writing and hardcore exercise I also love music like Tool,Nine inch nails,nirvana,alice in chains,rage against the machine....and thats about it I like anime,outdoors, fishing,concerts,and just doing whatever! Im working on a book, i like enjoying myself and talking to other martial artists as well. Im a real cool cat, like meeting new people, keep training....enjoy yourself

  • Can I legally kick her out?

    Well, my roommate moved in his girlfriend without my consent. She has been mooching off us for the last three months. I told my roommate that I did not consent, but he threatened to move, and I couldnt afford to live there by myself. With no other roommates available, and with my own financial difficulties I had to bite my tongue. Now I am financially better, and I told her last night that she needs to leave. She then said that because she has been living in here for three months, I have to give her 30 days notice. Even though she never paid any rent, ect.....neither my roommate or her are on the lease, so technically I broke the rules. The least just ended last month, so I'm going to leave regardless on Jan.1st.

    I can't stand to live with her another 30 days. What is my recourse? should I just grin and bear it, or cut off the electricity so she can leave? Invite a bunch of friends for a party? what?

    5 AnswersLaw & Ethics6 years ago
  • How can I survive loss?

    Well, karma has seriously bit me on the rear end. I was married for four years, and me and my wife had some problems. I got married young at 20, and back in november I went crazy, party, cheated ,ect.....she divorced me. In january, I got into a fight, got hit really hard in the jewels, everything still works ok, but now they say I may have a hard time having kids. Got laid off from my job in february. And now my dad is really sick and may end up going off the cliff. I also discovered I was wrongfully terminated, and now im in a lawsuit with my former employer.

    Im in debt, I only eat once a day, and my ex moved to another state and changed her number, so I cant even talk to her. She was a jewel of a woman. I just got lazy in the relationship. She was a gift from heaven, and I squandered it away. We had a good life.

    I know I am a good man, with a big heart, I just went through a "crisis". I cant let this situation define me, but the guilt is killing me. I destroyed my wife and my own life. I feel like the lowest scum on the earth.

    I have no one to turn to. What should I do?

    5 AnswersMarriage & Divorce7 years ago
  • Should I get a divorce?

    So I got married young, around 22, now im 26 heading to 27. My wife is a good woman. She always cooked , cleaned, supported my political activism, finances, ect..... However, Ive always been the type of guy who thinks about other peoples feelings while ignoring my own. Even when we first met, I wasn't fully attracted to her physically (she was cute but I didnt find her gorgeous) , but I thought she was really nice and I did enjoy being around her. The nicer she was to me, the more obligated I felt to stay with her.

    We have been through so much together. We traveled the country together, I went to all of her immigration hearings, she supported me when I couldnt work and had a surgery, ....ect. But, throughout our marriage, we have never had the chance to date. The whole time we were together, we were struggling, we never had the chance to "date". Now the past year, we finally have decent jobs. Iam dressing very well now, working out 5 days a week, and feeling confident. I kept telling my wife that I would like her to dress up more sexy, but our commuication got worse and worse until I felt like she was a roomate.

    Two months ago, I started an affair with a co-worker. She was extremely beautiful, and I felt amazing with her. She is very feminine and did things I wish my wife could do, but she is dumb as a rock, speaks with a ghetto tongue, and I realized she was trash, but her beauty capativates me. I came clean to my wife, and she left me, but recently called me and said she forgives me and wants to work things out.

    The past month, I have been living single, going on dates, hanging out with friends, and I kind of like it. I have never been this popular, but at the same time, I sometimes think about her and what we went through together and I start crying, thinking about how sad she is. Iam the only man she has ever been with.

    Should I try to stick to my vows and rekindle the marriage? Perhaps I can learn how to love her.

    She is such a good woman. I have never met such an honest and loyal woman. But, I just am not physically attracted to her. she has a nice body, but doesnt dress well, or do anything with her face, I have tried to offer to take her to spas and bars, but she says she isnt interested.

    I dont know what to do.

    I feel like we are both good people , with big hearts, we have helped orphan kids , but I feel sooooo confused. One minute I miss her and want her, the next minute Iam celebrating being single.

    I dont know what to do

    7 AnswersMarriage & Divorce7 years ago
  • Is Boxing killing itself?

    Modern boxing has a ton of early stoppages, bad judging, lots of clinching, and lack luster fights. What happened to boxing? It seems like every fighter now just wants to win, but none of them want to really win BIG, and win convincingly. What happened to the heart? I know their are still a few good boxers out there that put it on the line, but its getting more rare. And have you guys noticed how often the reffs stop fights just after one knockdown now?

    5 AnswersBoxing8 years ago
  • Does this prove the mark of the beast?

    Federal Law - Title 42 SS- 666 - States that all people must have a SSN /Drivers license

    Just think about how hard it is to earn a living, buy , sell, or trade without them

    Plus I never signed the constitution. Isnt drivers licenses and license plates just racketeering scheme so that police officers can extort money from people under the threat of violence?

    MARK OF THE BEAST, 666

    This is why I do not have a drivers license or SSN. I do not drive commerical, I TRAVEL. Free man on the land!

    2 AnswersReligion & Spirituality8 years ago
  • Is the Drivers License needed?

    Title 42 SS- 666 - States that all people must have a SSN /Drivers license

    Just think about how hard it is to earn a living, buy , sell, or trade without them

    Plus I never signed the constitution. Isnt drivers licenses and license plates just racketeering scheme so that police officers can extort money from people under the threat of violence?

    3 AnswersLaw Enforcement & Police8 years ago
  • Questions about TV interview?

    I was interviewed for 30 minutes by a local reporter, and it was filmed. However, they decided not to air it. Could I request that footage from them? Is there a way to get it?

    1 AnswerMedia & Journalism8 years ago
  • open carry rifle tennessee?

    what are the laws regarding open carrying a rifle in Tennessee. I cant seem to find it anywhere, and what are the penalties?

    4 AnswersHunting8 years ago
  • Killed for not paying a seat belt ticket?

    http://sovereigntactics.org/?p=773

    What do you guys think of this story? Should he have been killed?

    7 AnswersLaw Enforcement & Police8 years ago
  • help.New tattoo advice?

    so I got a tattoo and did not find out I had to moisturize it until the third day. My artist gave me no aftercare instructions besides washing it with mild anti-bacterial soap. So last night I put AD ointment per advice from a friend and the tat seemed to leak out a little bit of ink because of it, so I wipped off the excess and switched to curel lotion which seems to be less oily and isn't causing ink to bleed out. The tattoo seems to have a mild scab like film over the tat and couple of bumpy areas here and there, nothing major, just very mild. Should I keep putting lotion on it several times a day? Will my tat be alright? Im new to this. The tats are only 3 days old.

    1 AnswerTattoos8 years ago
  • Whats wrong with Socialism? Arent the roads socialized?

    Personally, Iam a voluntaryist, and I think all forms of taxation is theft, but this a question for conservative republicans

    9 AnswersPolitics8 years ago
  • spare parts for Pistol?

    I just bought me my first handgun. (Sig Sauer P250 compact) Im prepping for SHTF. What are some of the first parts that go on a handgun? Iam looking to have some basic back up parts. I have been looking for a parts kit, but haven't found one yet.

    1 AnswerHunting8 years ago
  • Holster for a Sig Sauer p250 compact (with rail)?

    I just bought this Sig yesterday, and no holster seems to fit. Please help.

    1 AnswerHunting8 years ago
  • why can't people govern themselves?

    If the government doesn't believe you can make your own voluntary choices and you aren't smart enough to lead your own life, then what authority or faith can we have in a small group of elected people to govern millions of people?

    8 AnswersGovernment9 years ago
  • how come hospitals don't know their own prices?

    I broke my wrist, and Im calling different hospitals seeing who has the best deal, and no one there knows the prices. I thought we were supposed to have a freemarket healthcare system? They cannot give me an estimate or anything. Basically, they told me to just get an x-ray, and wait for a bill to come in the mail, then I will know the price. Thats like a waiter offering a steak, and not knowing the price of it until after I eat it. Our Health-care system is not based on Free-market Capitalism, it is based on cronyism. How are hospitals supposed to compete when they don't disclose prices? They dont want to compete. They want to hide behind the government and the insurance companies.

    4 AnswersCurrent Events9 years ago
  • spine cracks/pops when I squeeze shoulder blades?

    When I squeeze my shoulder blades together, my spine always cracks/pops (like cracking your knuckles). I do this maybe 20 times a day. I think it is becoming a habit. It helps to loosen it up. What causes this? Do I have muscle weakness.?

    10 AnswersPain & Pain Management9 years ago
  • wife constantly talks about kids?

    we have been married for 3 years now. We are both 24. She gets mad at me because I rarely talk about having kids. I told her I only want one or two. We both have meager incomes right now, and I want to be be more stable before we make that decision. We even decided that we probably wouldnt have kids until around our later 20's or early 30's. She says, "Oh I know. But, I just want to talk about having kids because it's fun." She constantly talks about having 4 kids, and when I mention I only want one or two, she says Im being uptight and she's only "joking." Today, she got upset and started crying, because she started talking about having kids, and then I mentioned finances, ect.....then she got real moody, and I called her "emo", and she ran into her room and started crying. She wants me to be a woman and talk about "cutesy" stuff and go look at baby ****. I'm just more of a realist. We have been fighting over this ever since we got married. It seems like we fight atleast 5 days a week. It's getting old

    7 AnswersMarriage & Divorce9 years ago
  • According to god: Is it ok to take female sex slaves during war?

    (Deuteronomy 20:10-14)

    As you approach a town to attack it, first offer its people terms for peace. If they accept your terms and open the gates to you, then all the people inside will serve you in forced labor. But if they refuse to make peace and prepare to fight, you must attack the town. When the LORD your God hands it over to you, kill every man in the town. But you may keep for yourselves all the women, children, livestock, and other plunder. You may enjoy the spoils of your enemies that the LORD your God has given you.

    What kind of God approves of murder, rape, and slavery?

    Moses, Eleazar the priest, and all the leaders of the people went to meet them outside the camp. But Moses was furious with all the military commanders who had returned from the battle. "Why have you let all the women live?" he demanded. "These are the very ones who followed Balaam's advice and caused the people of Israel to rebel against the LORD at Mount Peor. They are the ones who caused the plague to strike the LORD's people. Now kill all the boys and all the women who have slept with a man. Only the young girls who are virgins may live; you may keep them for yourselves.

    Clearly Moses and God approves of rape of virgins.

    8 AnswersReligion & Spirituality9 years ago
  • Was jesus' death really a sacrifice?

    He knew he was going to rise again in three dies. After these three dies, he got to be the Vice-president of the universe. If I knew that in three days I was going to be the vice-president of the universe, then going through torture might be a fair trade off. Jesus didn't even give his life. Sacrifice entails something you cannot get back.

    19 AnswersReligion & Spirituality9 years ago
  • Is it ok to rape someone if it happened a long time ago?

    In the old testament, god allows rape, slavery and female captives. When I bring this up, people say, "thats the old testament, it doesnt count". So, does that mean If I rape someone a long time ago, that after a while it doesn't matter? Is there a statute of limitations in the bible? So in the old testament, god is a devient, yet in the new testament, he is suddenly a nice guy?

    3) More Murder Rape and Pillage (Deuteronomy 20:10-14)

    As you approach a town to attack it, first offer its people terms for peace. If they accept your terms and open the gates to you, then all the people inside will serve you in forced labor. But if they refuse to make peace and prepare to fight, you must attack the town. When the LORD your God hands it over to you, kill every man in the town. But you may keep for yourselves all the women, children, livestock, and other plunder. You may enjoy the spoils of your enemies that the LORD your God has given you.

    What kind of God approves of murder, rape, and slavery?

    4) Laws of Rape (Deuteronomy 22:28-29 NLT)

    If a man is caught in the act of raping a young woman who is not engaged, he must pay fifty pieces of silver to her father. Then he must marry the young woman because he violated her, and he will never be allowed to divorce her.

    What kind of lunatic would make a rape victim marry her attacker? Answer: God.

    5) Death to the Rape Victim (Deuteronomy 22:23-24 NAB)

    If within the city a man comes upon a maiden who is betrothed, and has relations with her, you shall bring them both out of the gate of the city and there stone them to death: the girl because she did not cry out for help though she was in the city, and the man because he violated his neighbors wife.

    It is clear that God doesn't give a damn about the rape victim. He is only concerned about the violation of another mans "property".

    6 AnswersLaw & Ethics9 years ago