Kitten

I went to a local christian homeschool group to join, and I could not believe how cold the group was. I am new to homeschooling, but not to Christianity (I've been a christian for years), and I was completely stunned by everyone's really stand-offish demeanor. I wondered if it was because I am Hispanic and they were all white, but it seemed that everyone was pretty much on their own; noone was really concerned about the new people or if they knew the other members. I tried to start a conversation with a few members, and they really cut the conversation short; it was clear they "mistrusted me or didn't want to talk"(seriously I'm not a paranoid person, but I'm not going to force someone to talk!). This is the second supposedly christian group get-together I've gone to and the moms have been absolutely unfriendly people. Why on earth is that? Why are the christian homeschool groups so cold and unloving, and decidedly unchristian-like?