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i am trying to trace a man from ballymena in co antrim who was in the maze prison around 1977/78. his name is winston mccartney i am guessing that he is now in his late 50's early 60's. he at that time was living with a lady called christine ohalloran. i am told that he has a daughter called caroline although i dont know how accurate that is. she has been and possibly still lives in ballymena. he has a sister jean who is deaf , i dont know if she is still alive. i would be really grateful for any information.

i am in n ireland so it would help if it was in that area.

if i had known the truth i wouldnt have gotten involved with most of my birth family. when something bad has happened dont you think i should be able to know all about it?

i know alot of people dont believe but i have 3 lets say not alive humans who visit my house. the things that are happening are really getting out of hand now and if i cant stop it i am going to have to move house as it is starting to scare the kids. how do i get them to go away?

i have four kids , the oldest three i have no bother with but the youngest is a nightmare. he is 20mths old, he kicks, hits, bites and generally causes havoc. i have tried ignoring him, slapping him(not hard though which my husband says is the problem)putting him in time out(which he just ignores anyway and goes at whatever he wants) he is starting to do this to other children as well as adults. i need help.

my 3 yr old has just started nursery school, she was getting on great until they started to do a story time in one of the small rooms, children have limited space and are sitting in a large group. my daughter crys through this, she does not like in the tiny room with all of the people. the school has story time every day.

i might add i am talking about my father in law he just wont let me have an opinion on anything

ok i need your help again all those who answered the question about my sons pnemonia. the hospital sent him home on two inhalers and antibiotic yesterday afternoon, his breathing is getting worse again i have given him all medicine etc and it is not sttling down, my husband thinks i am just being too overprotective of him and that i need to back off but i am worried. if it were your child would you take him back to hospital or wait to see what happens. needless to say my husband has gone on to work and left me to it with three other kids as well.

i took my 20 mth old son to his own gp yesterday morning and he diagnosed a head cold without sounding him etc later in the day my son got worse and i took him to local hospital, he has pnemonia in his left lung. i have had him back and forward to doc for about 3 weeks is he out of order?should he have spotted it? would it have saved my son all of this bother if he had?

i have a free day with no kids and i dont know what to do with myself, done all housework etc first thing now i am just bored.

i have got stung by a wasp, there is now a lump about the size of a 50p an the scin on the outside of lump is getting redder spreading outwards. i never been stung before is this okay

this is my first weigh in at weight watchers tonight and i am petrified that i havent done well even though i have stuck to my points

my daughter starts pre school today and i dont want her to go. she is standing here with her uniform on and i just cant cope she looks to grown up. i have four kids and she is not the baby. why do i feel like this i didnt when the two older boys went!

who is sick of all the reruns and rubbish that is on tv at moment? where have all the good shows gone? any suggestions on what to watch?

is it any good?

my sons are 9 and 8 only 11 mths apart and they never stop fighting. physically as well as arguing why? i am so fed up with it , how do i stop it without hitting them?

started weight watchers last wednesday, yesterday and today i am on a short fuse is this normal? i dont feel hungry ot anything so it cant be that?

my daughter just started dance and the teacher is looking nearly £40 for a uniform ie trousers leotard and pumps. is it too much where can i get it cheaper?