*Kandi*

I have caught my fiancee looking at porn a lot lately and he denies it when I confront him about it. I am extremly self conscious already as it is without this issue. I feel so ugly and fat now and it really hurts when he lies about it then tells me that I need to trust him. I really need some advice I know that guys watch porn and that's just life but why is it ok just because he's a guy? And especially when I'm having his baby and I am a very sexual person and I wish that he wanted me as much as he watches porn.

I asked here because no one in pregnancy will answer. Anyways I'm not effaced at all and I checked my own cervix I am dilated to 2cm. Is it too early to be dilated? My baby was also breech until 2 days ago now he is head down. This is my 6th pregnancy (2 full term babies, 3 miscarriages due to hypothyroid) Anyways I am on bedrest too and I'm 25 weeks pregnant. I'm so stressed out with all these contractions I have been having I just google about preterm labor all day long!! Anyways when I get the contractions they don't change anything down there but they are between 1-2 minutes and they start out lasting 40 secs then go to a minute then 1 min 30 secs then lasting 2 mins then just stop. Laying down doesn't help in fact I have more when I lay down, drinking water also doesn't help. They gave me terbutaline once and it worked for a couple hours until they came back this time lasting 1 min 30 secs and 2 mins apart for 2 hours. My dr refuses to check me for dilation and says my cervix is still 4cm long and she doesn't seem too worried. I was negative for all infections and read about irritated uterus's but the contractions for that don't last 1-2 minutes either. Is it actual labor that just stops on its own? Has anyone else experienced this?? I WOULD ASK MY DR but she doesn't help and wasn't in the office today anyway. I just want to know what's happening.

I'm not effaced at all and I checked my own cervix I am dilated to 2cm. Is it too early to be dilated? My baby was also breech until 2 days ago now he is head down. This is my 6th pregnancy (2 full term babies, 3 miscarriages due to hypothyroid) Anyways I am on bedrest too and I'm 25 weeks pregnant. I'm so stressed out with all these contractions I have been having I just google about preterm labor all day long!! Anyways when I get the contractions they don't change anything down there but they are between 1-2 minutes and they start out lasting 40 secs then go to a minute then 1 min 30 secs then lasting 2 mins then just stop. Laying down doesn't help in fact I have more when I lay down, drinking water also doesn't help. They gave me terbutaline once and it worked for a couple hours until they came back this time lasting 1 min 30 secs and 2 mins apart for 2 hours. My dr refuses to check me for dilation and says my cervix is still 4cm long and she doesn't seem too worried. I was negative for all infections and read about irritated uterus's but the contractions for that don't last 1-2 minutes either. Is it actual labor that just stops on its own? Has anyone else experienced this?? I WOULD ASK MY DR but she isn't really helping at all. Please help.

So I'm not effaced at all and I checked my own cervix I am dilated to 2cm. Is it too early to be dilated? My baby was also breech until 2 days ago now he is head down. This is my 6th pregnancy (2 full term babies, 3 miscarriages due to hypothyroid) Anyways I am on bedrest too and I'm 25 weeks pregnant. I'm so stressed out with all these contractions I have been having I just google about preterm labor all day long!! Anyways when I get the contractions they don't change anything down there but they are between 1-2 minutes and they start out lasting 40 secs then go to a minute then 1 min 30 secs then lasting 2 mins then just stop. Laying down doesn't help in fact I have more when I lay down, drinking water also doesn't help. They gave me terbutaline once and it worked for a couple hours until they came back this time lasting 1 min 30 secs and 2 mins apart for 2 hours. My dr refuses to check me for dilation and says my cervix is still 4cm long and she doesn't seem too worried. I was negative for all infections and read about irritated uterus's but the contractions for that don't last 1-2 minutes either. Is it actual labor that just stops on its own? Has anyone else experienced this?? I WOULD ASK MY DR but she isn't really helping at all. Please help.

So I was put on bedrest last week but I'm not dilated or effaced and yesterday I went to the ER for contractions 1-3 mins apart and lasting a minute. They gave me a shot to stop them even though they aren't changing anything but later yesterday evening I got them again 1-3 mins apart lasting a minute for 2 hours then they stopped. Is it possible to just have contractions like this all the time and make it to full term? Are they just Braxton Hicks even though they are regular?

So I was put on bedrest last week but wasn't dilated..yesterday I lost some of my plug and today I lost more I checked my cervix and can fit 3 fingertips but I'm not having contractions. Should I go to the er or wait till tomorrow and see my dr? And how can I have dilated without regular contractions?

So I started having contractions last week that were regular although I wasn't dilated or effaced I was put on bed rest. Last night I lost some of my mucus plug and today I lost more of the plug so I checked my cervix and I can fit 3 fingertips now. BUT I'm not having contractions so how am I dilating? Should I wait to see my dr tomorrow? Or should I go to the er tonight?

So I'm 24 weeks with baby #3 and last week I was put on bed rest because I was having contractions but the FFN was negative I also wasn't dilated and I wasn't effaced. But I was having contractions yesterday but not regular ones but I had about 6 in two hours with low back pain the pelvic pressure, tightening of the stomache, and then some crampy ones in between those I chalked it up to BH contractions. Just now though I went pee and lost my mucus plug or a chunk of it. It isn't bloody though and I haven't had any contractions today I did try to check my cervix though and I think I'm dilated to 1 1/2 or 2 I can fit 2 fingertips..should I just wait till Monday and see my dr? Or should I go to the er?

Well sometimes I get a dull back ache and pelvic pressure together I know it's a contraction but my dr put me on bed rest already even though I am not dilated or thinned out yet but I literally do nothing now but sit in bed but sometimes I still get these contractions like I'll have like 3-8 STRONG contractions in a day with back pain and pressure but they don't change or get stronger or closer together but THE QUESTION IS.... over time can these strong contractions eventually dilate and thin me out? I just don't want to end up with preterm labor.

I am almost 17 weeks pregnant and I went in the welfare office to apply for food stamps and since my mom lives with me and is on them they just want to add me to her case but she only gets 16$ a month for food stamps. I literally only get to eat maybe 2 times a day mostly a cup of noodles and a some cereal or crackers. We hardly ever have food..I am only on SSI income and most of my money goes to rent and utilities. I have noticed that when I do eat 50-70% of the time I throw it back up because my stomache is upset from not eating enough that it causes me to be sick. I am very worried about the baby. I do go to the food bank occasionally but even then they don't help much. They give out expired food or it's just enough food for one meal. I don't know what to do about this situation..can anybody please give me some advice or anything..

My period is 2 weeks late and I took 2 pregnancy tests (the cheap dollar store ones) both were negative..This was about 4-6 days ago and still no period. I don't know what the problem could be..I don't have insurance or money right now to see anyone..so Does anyone here know what it could be? Thanks

I want to change the date on my 21 day advance will call ticket. I was told I could change it for a 15$ fee which is fine whatever, now I am being told since it's an advance 21 day ticket that I have to wait 21 days to change it. NO WHERE on their website does it say this. I have researched this on google and their own website. I think they are making this up..Help please?

OK so I am officially really freaking angry. I just bought this BRAND NEW sd memory card that is 8 gb for my cheap effing samsung android phone from straight talk. It only came with a 2 gb card. The 2 gb card WORKS FINE when I connect it to my computer. But the 8gb card says it needs formatting I HAVE TRIED formatting it time after time if I had my receipt I would return it. I am to the point of crying because I am so frustrated. I thought maybe if I put the 8gb card into my boyfriend's samsung galaxy PLAYER that it might work for me to put music on the sd card itself and put it back into my phone. WELL his music player isn't reconized on my freaking computer either.

OK so I am officially really freaking angry. I just bought this BRAND NEW sd memory card that is 8 gb for my cheap effing samsung android phone from straight talk. It only came with a 2 gb card. The 2 gb card WORKS FINE when I connect it to my computer. But the 8gb card says it needs formatting I HAVE TRIED formatting it time after time if I had my receipt I would return it. I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO FIX THIS FOR A WEEK NOW! I am to the point of crying because I am so frustrated. I thought maybe if I put the 8gb card into my boyfriend's samsung galaxy PLAYER (NOT PHONE) that it might work for me to put music on the sd card itself and put it back into my phone. WELL his music player isn't reconized on my freaking computer either. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help.

I tested positive on 5 cheap pregnancy tests and 2 of those same tests were defective. I tested negative on 3 clinic pregnancy tests days after testing postive on the cheap walmart tests, today I tested negative on a first response walmart test, I have had unprotected sex 4 times last month starting on the 19th. We were trying for a baby then my boyfriend changed his mind. What can I do to decrease my chances of becoming pregnant? I heard vitamin c can help so I am doing that..I really don't want an abortion I just don't believe in them and I can't carry a baby to term to give it away. Any ideas? PLEASE DON'T BE NEGATIVE OR TELL ME TO KEEP MY LEGS CLOSED WHATEVER I AM 23 AND NOT A MINOR

I had unprotected sex on the 19th because me and my man were going to try for a baby and a week later on sunday I started cramping ( I assumed it was from implantation) I took 7 pregnancy tests within the last 4 days all positive. My boyfriend changed his mind on me and doesn't want a baby now. He wants me to abort it, I can't I have done one before and am just so against them. I went to a clinic today for an ultrasound they couldn't see anything yet, they told me to wait another 1-2 weeks. Does anyone know of any good adoption sites or anything. I would rather give it up than kill it. Please don't be negative this is a hard enough desicion without being lectured.

I had unprotected sex on the 19th because me and my man were going to try for a baby and a week later on sunday I started cramping ( I assumed it was from implantation) I took 7 pregnancy tests within the last 4 days all positive. My boyfriend changed his mind on me and doesn't want a baby now. He wants me to abort it, I can't I have done one before and am just so against them. I went to a clinic today for an ultrasound they couldn't see anything yet, they told me to wait another 1-2 weeks. Does anyone know of any good adoption sites or anything. I would rather give it up than kill it. Please don't be negative this is a hard enough desicion without being lectured.

I am 2 weeks pregnant, my boyfriends family have been very mentally abusive to me, I moved out and got my own place, now they are mad at me for getting pregnant. Calling me stupid. I have been wanting a baby since last year I waited on trying because I wanted to be sure I was ready mentally and financially. WHICH I AM. Now I just want to break up with my boyfriend of 3 years who I have a 2 year old with and am thinking about abortion. I know it's wrong but it will mae everyone else happy and I can't deal with this anymore I have tried suicide 5 times in the last year. I can't take the abuse anymore PLEASE HELPE NO NEGATIVE COMMENTS I WILL REPORT!

Me and my husband just started trying on February 19th. We have only had unprotected sex 4 times. On sunday exactly 7 days after our first try I noticed some slight cramping I took a test and it was positive I took one the next morning (yesterday) and it was positive I took 2 this morning they are positive. Can the tests be this accurate this early? Is it possible I was pregnant before and just didn't know even though we were using condoms? I know condoms aren't 100 % effective. What do you think?

I just bought a straight talk samsung precedent 3 days ago, and it has frozen 3 times and it won't turn off so I have to take the battery out of it. Are all the cheap straight talk samsung precedent's like this or is it just this one?