The Guardian

I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. He has more "experience" than I do when it comes to some sexual activities and has had more partners. We were at a friend's house last night for a pre-Thanksgiving dinner party. We started drinking and playing a game called, "Never have I ever [fill in the blank." Who ever has done what the said person hasn't, they have to drink. His friend came out with, "Never have I ever had a threesome." My boyfriend was the only one to drink. I was completely shocked and blindsided. He knows how I feel about threesomes and about "sharing" period. I told him I wanted to go home. I was extremely uncomfortable as I just found out in front of 7 other people instead of in the privacy of our own home. We ended up in a huge argument (the biggest we've ever had), which ended with me bawling like a baby and him returning to the party. According to my boyfriend, after he came home, his friend apologized for ever bringing it up because he already knew about the threesome and then asked my boyfriend why he just didn't lie.

I never wanted to know. I don't want to know about his sexual past unless he has a disease (which he doesn't) or unless I ask. He already knows this as well. I understand the past is the past, but I believe that it should stay in the past. I wish I never knew. I wish I never found out. I especially wish I never found out in front of 7 other people. Now I can't stop crying over it. I can feel the damage done to myself and to our relationship because of the argument we had.

I know it's completely irrelevant, but I feel like he isn't mine anymore. How do I build my strength back up again? How do I just move on from this and repair the damage I caused by creating the argument?

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I guess I just have a lot of questions going through my head right now. It just doesn't make sense on why, if people preach freedom of speech, spirituality, sexuality, race, color, etc, that they discriminate and judge others.

I just want people's opinions on this subject, no matter who you are, what race you are, what religion you are. I want your true, honest opinions on these questions. No answer is right or wrong, unless, of course, your answer has absolutely nothing to do with my questions.

There's one question that asks "What's your current stance on religion?" which specifically asks "What do you label yourself, if you even do, some people despise labels, do you think or know yourself to be an atheist, theist, pantheist, apatheist, agnostic, agnostic-atheist, deist or what? Respond if you want."

Why is it that people label themselves, but get a thumbs down as if they're wrong for labeling themselves??? If someone labels themselves an atheist, who says they have the right to say that person is wrong? What about Christians, Jews, Catholics? Why did I get a thumbs down because I said I'm Wiccan? Another person answered, "Agnostic-atheist" and got 2 thumbs down.

Are we wrong for labeling themselves as they we are??? The religions we've chosen to follow? Are we truly wrong for that?

I'm just trying to understand this. I'm respectful of others as long as they are respectful to me. I accept a thumbs down rating if I'm wrong or said something the wrong way, but I don't accept a thumbs down for me answering a very open, general question that basically asks, "What are you?" I answered Wiccan. I didn't give a thumbs down to a man that answered that he was a Christian. I accepted it as everyone is different.

***Please be kind and respectful in your answers. I'm not mad at anyone, but like I said, I'm just trying to understand. Enlighten me with your knowledge, but please, do not judge me as I do not judge you unless you use harsh words towards me.***

Thank you *bows head and smiles gratefully*

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***If you're not going to be nice in your answer, then keep your comment to yourself. I don't want to hear mean, offense, or bs answers.***

THANK YOU!!!

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