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Ive been using msn without problems but recently, my contact list shows many people offline. Even ones that were previously on 24 hours are offline. i then got yahoo messenger using the same email and added some of the key contacts there. they were all online, available and none had blocked me. Whats causing this problem in msn?

Ive known a girl since 8th grade and we started getting alot closer recently. We went clubbin 4 weeks ago. Then she asked me to go to a party with her. We went clubbing again the week after with a few of her girlfriends and she got really touchy. Then we didnt talk for a week. I called her 2 weeks ago and she didnt pick up. She calls me back on monday to apologize and asks me to go mini golfing with her. Come Saturday when we're supposed to go mini golfing i call her up and she dun pick up. She calls me back an hour later and says hse cant go nemore. Today she travels across state borders to NY to visit me at work.

What the hell? Is she interested or playin me?

Went to a bar 2 weeks ago and pulled a very gorgeous girl and her friend away. We talked and flirted for about 2 hrs before my friend was piss drunk and i had to take him home.

My friend got a number from her blonde friend kate after the brunette turned him down. Im too shy and oblivious to ask. Her friend asked my friend, if i was trying to hook up wit her(the gorgeous brunette) and being the drunken bastard he is said, "him no dont worry about him. hes got a a girl friend. hes basically asexual."

thing is i dont.

the brunettes blonde friend, kate, has been callling my friend. the two girls asked us to meet them thursday at the same bar.

question is:

what should i do to try and make a move?

how do i make it clear im single without being obvious?

and what would the next step be after she knows im single and interested?

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met a friend of mine in 8th grade(she was in 7th) and weve seen each other about once or twice a year. recently started getting alot closer and were going out for the third time in 2 weeks because we live in different states (ny+nj) and go to school in different states (md+nj) im going into junior yr of college and shes going into her sophomore yr.

2 part question

should i tell how i feel or just hook up with her and let that action state it?

what is a good way to kiss her, being our first?

I have trouble distinguishing friendship from interest. Ive almost hooked up with 3 of my friends when drunk

but last friday a friend of mine was like this:

after hugging me she held on to my forearms and just looks up at me and stares

texts me continuously

came 2 hours to visit me at work

on saturday she:

asked me to go to a party/dance with her

asked me to go to the bathroom with her

held my hand when we walked to the car

is coming 2 hrs to visit me at work again today

but she:

didnt want me to drive her home last sat

stayed with a guy friend because she was drunk and couldnt drive home

even tho shes visiting me we havent talked all week except monday and yesterday

do these signs entail wanting a kiss/relationship or just really close friendship?

i was drunk one night and had "relations" with one girl ho was insanely clingy. called her the next day and told her i was really drunk and she understood. a week later she asks me to hang out and we end up jumpin each others bones again. i personally think its great fun and im pretty sure i suck so she cant be coming back cuz im good. just worried she was really clingy at first, second time was pretty fun no strings attached. next weekend were hangin out agian and im pretty sure were gonna jump on each other again