Cin

I do love my husband and we have been married for over 9 years with 3 boys. He had a child at 17 and has been in trouble throughout our marriage with child support. The last straw came when he was arrested yet again for non support and missed our second child's birthday for the second time. He is begging me not to file but my options are limited. I have 3 year children, I need a husband not a fourth child. I am so torn over this, I have forgiven him when he cheated but so many other things are going through my mind now. Like how he couldn't get to hospital in 20 mins before I had surgery yet my mom came over an hour to be there. He really needs to grow up and get a sense of responsibility. Part of me thinks if I divorce him he will do this. Any thoughts would be appreciated.