Flower Child

I signed a lease with some people in March for a lease that started June 2014 and ends May 2015. Everything was going according to plan until I started seeing someone in May. I basically lived at his apartment this summer and it was great. In July I decided to find a sublet to finish out my lease at the house so I could officially move in with my new boyfriend. I figured that was the best option because it was cheaper and some of my roommates at the house don't agree with my lifestyle (I don't really drink, but I smoke weed everyday). Right now I'm still living with my boyfriend and things are going pretty great. But I've been doing some reading and I've found that it's best if couples don't live together until they've been together for longer and they stay together for longer if they wait. Living with my boyfriend feels like I'm settling down and I'm not ready for that, I'm only 22. I just can't decide what to do because if I stay here I can continue to live comfortably and it's cheaper , but if I move back to the house, my roommates might not agree with my lifestyle, and my land lord is kind of a jerk, but going on dates with my boyfriend will be a lot more special and I will be spending more time with my friends, which I'm not doing a whole lot of right now. What would you do? What do you recommend? Thanks!

I know that sounds weird, but I don't have anyone to go with me since most of my friends are under 21. I'm 21, a girl, and am told that I'm attractive a lot, but I'm shy and quiet... if I go out alone someone's bound to come up to me and buy me a drink, right? Like, as long as I stay for a little while. Idk, I need to get out but I'm just a little nervous. Of course I won't take a drink that could have been drugged, get too drunk to drive home, or go home with a stranger, I'll be safe... but do you think if I'm shy it'll be fun?

So this is kind of a long story, but I'll try to make it short.

I dated this guy (Ben) for a few months and fell very much in love with him. Then I broke up with him and it was so hard to keep myself away from him, but I genuinely thought I was doing the right thing.

I started seeing Jeremy a month or two later and we had a pretty good relationship. All this time I only saw Ben a couple times, but we talked quite a bit on Facebook.

This semester I ended up being placed in a dorm right next to Ben and Jeremy wasn't happy about that at all. I soon realized that I was not over Ben and Jeremy and I talked about it and ended up breaking up on Sunday so I could get over Ben, but part of me wants him.

Since I moved in next to Ben he's been seeing this girl, but they weren't official or anything until last week, right before Jeremy and I broke up. Earlier that week Ben led me on. I won't go into details, but he took advantage of my feelings and my vulnerability and made me believe he felt the same.

On Sunday right before I broke up with Jeremy I was talking to Ben as a friend and I was really sad. Right before I left I basically found out that he suddenly had a girl friend and he didn't like me the way I liked him. He said sorry, I said I know and I left. Then I sent him these three texts within the next two hours or so

"You've led me on for almost all this past week. I feel so pathetic for breaking up with my boyfriend because I can't even begin to get over a guy who doesn't at all feel the same. Just made my night and all of this so much worse. Don't talk to me when you're drunk again." (He was drunk for most the time when he led me on).

"I don't get it, if you still keep the things I gave you and make sure I know about it, what kind of a message do you think that sends me if you know what I'm going through?" (He still keeps a note and a Valentine's Day card I gave him when we were dating)

"I know you're sorry but I can't forgive you for this."

Then the nest evening I sent him this text:

"If I ever have a shot with you again please let me know... As much as I'm mad at you right now I can't help but want another chance with you."

Just a month before moving next to him he randomly told me that I was the only ex he'd date again.

He hasn't responded to any of my texts and I also unfriended him on Facebook last night, which I'm kind of regretting.

I was just eating alone in the cafeteria and I went to grab something and I see him and a girl he was eating with (not his girlfriend) going out of their way to look at me, like he was showing her me. It really pissed me off.

I don't know what to do because I'm so angry and hurt, but I just want him and I have no idea what he's thinking because he hasn't responded to any of my texts. I have a legit reason to be angry. I just don't know what to do, I want him.

So what do you think he's feeling? What do you think I should do? Thanks

I'm just curious, but I don't want to waste food trying it and then find out that they don't go well together

Like, he's kind of my friend and he's kind of seeing someone but I'm 90% sure he still has feelings for me because he kept some notes I gave him and sent me a photo to make sure I knew that and I would do almost anything for another shot with him. Is it appropriate to just text him and ask him what I can do for another chance? We broke up about 10 months ago, but we still talk and everything. Thanks!

That sounds horrible cause it is. We've been together for 8 months and I fell in love with him sometime over last summer, vise versa. I just get bored so easily and I'm bored a lot with him. Also, I get that "I'm just putting up with this" feeling a lot. He texts me a LOT and whenever I tell him I need space he gets really upset because we're already in a long distance relationship (not that long, just 3 hours).

But at other times I miss him like crazy. I love how I'm the only person who can help him with his sleeping problems. I just don't know what to do about this or what to tell myself... I mean we all get bored, right?

Or if there were one or two exes that he just wouldn't let you hang out with would you end it? Like, if these exes were your friends?

I'm in a horrible situation and I don't know what to do. About a year ago I started seeing this guy and I fell in love with him really quickly, but I broke up with him in the beginning of April because I didn't feel special with him. I had just talked to him about it a week ago and he said he was gonna try harder, but I didn't really give him a chance and broke up with him on impulse.

I started seeing my current boyfriend at the end of April and we made it official in the beginning of June. I didn't expect to start dating again so quickly, but it just happened. Over the summer we fell in love and it's pretty serious now. But I think he loves me more, which is an awkward situation. Overall it's a healthy relationship.

The first guy and I are still friends and talk every other day or so on Facebook. About a month ago I had lunch with him and saw him for the first time in a very long time. After I left I felt so happy and couldn't get him off my mind for days, which made me realize that I still love him. I didn't know what to do so I told him and he said he'd be lying if he didn't still love me too.

This semester I'm transferring to the school he goes to because it's cheaper and close to my old one (my boyfriend lives 3 hours away) and we happened to be placed next door to each other in the dorms. Today I saw him unloading him car with a girl and I pretty much had a panic attack. Long story short I'm depressed that he's with someone. And even though a month ago he told me he loved me, now he's telling me that I'm gonna get over it and it's gonna be okay. Earlier this fall he told me I was him only ex that he'd get back together with. So I have a broken heart and a boyfriend I care about who doesn't know about it. What do I do? Thanks

I have a roommate who rarely does her dishes and I always do mine. Me and my other roommate always complain about her. She texted me on thanksgiving day to tell me that I left dishes in the sink, which I haven't done all semester. Right now I'm so upset that I haven't responded, bit I really want to send her back a text. What should I say to that? Thanks!

It doesn't make any sense to me... I love my boyfriend, he's perfect, I can see myself settling down with him, just great boyfriend material in general... he's just such a sweetheart, but I can't help but be curious about other guys. I broke up with my last two boyfriends partially because I felt the need to be single. I crave flirting, getting hit on, attention from males, the rush of starting something new.... but I don't want another perfectly good relationship to go to waste because I want to have fun. What do you think my problem is? What can I do about it? Thanks.

Basically, tonight I accidentally (and thoughtlessly) ignored my boyfriend, who was texting me and wanted to call me because I was having a heart to heart with one of my roommates, who just got dumped for the first time. I just lost track of time. My boyfriend was just made because he was making an effort and I basically just ignored him even though I told him what I was doing and I feel horrible now. He forgave me and said not to feel bad, but I just want to make it up to him, but I don't know how... We live three hours away, I have school and he has work. I also have very little money. Nothing sexual, please. Any suggestions?

Thanks!

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1 1/4 C Sugar (Yup, plain, good-ol’ white sugar)

1/2 C Oil (I used olive oil, but you can use any oil, coconut oil, baby oil, canola oil)

3 tablespoons Citrus (Lime or lemon)

For a girl:

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Alice Grace

For a Boy:

Bentley Alan

Briar Alan

Chester Alan

Conan Joseph

Thanks :)

We're supposed to wear space-themed things, but I have no clue what to do. I guess I could get some of those space tights from ragstock, but I don't know what else to wear. Any ideas? Thanks :)

I want to audition to be a disney character in the near future (or maybe after college) and I'm just not really sure which characters I could pull off. I'm thinking Rapunzel (we have the same eyes), maybe Cinderella, maybe Vidia, Belle, or Wendy? I'm really not sure. Here's my face, thanks!

http://finding-my-fire.tumblr.com/post/46550047810...

http://finding-my-fire.tumblr.com/post/36599830412

I've recently defraged it, deleted cookies, and I only have one or two programs running at once. Thanks!

I saw some at american eagle the other day that I liked, but do they work well? I wear a 34C, but the rest of my is small, so I need something that will fit, but also has good support. Any suggestions? Thanks!

I was on the couch to 5k program, but I haven't ran in about 2 weeks! Last time I ran it was my second time running 3 miles. Should I run 3 miles again this time (idk if I can handle it) or should I run less? What do you recommend? Here's the program I'm on in case you're not familiar with it: http://www.coolrunning.com/engine/2/2_3/181.shtml

Thank you!

I know this question sounds ridiculous, but my dad is really controlling and freaks out about boys still. Anytime he knows I'm with a boy he tries to lecture me about birth control and it's obnoxious. I'm 20 years old. I'm home over winter break and I haven't gotten out a lot and when I do he asks a LOT of questions. What can I tell my dad I'm doing? Thanks!

I think how I am when I'm this nervous isn't too different then how I normally am, but it's still noticeable.

How can I get rid of it? Or help it? I just always feel the need to talk cause I'm afraid of awkward silences. Help? Thanks!