Summerae Girl

I had a pretty nasty cold and I breast feed my 3 mo old son. My milk never decreased but AS SOON AS my cold symptoms started to slow down and go away I noticed I was leaking milk all day and night. Then today I woke up with a fever of 102 and feel like one of my breasts feels pretty tender on the side (not the nipple). Is it normal to have your milk supply increase like that? Could it be engorged or a blocked duct? Or do you think I should add the fever to my list of symptoms for my cold? I mean my 4 year old daughter is the one who started the cold going around first and she started with a fever too. But I'm almost over it and now I'm getting a fever? I don't know what to think.

My husband and I have made plans to move to Idaho to be closer to his kids. Just as his ex-wife hears about this she decides that she wants to move out of state "to be closer to a friend". It says in the divorce decree that she can't move the kids out of state without my husbands consent. The kids have grown up in Idaho and we agree that it would be better for them to stay besides we don't want to follow her around the states just because she doesn't get along with the kids' father anymore. What can we do if she moves the kids out of state anyway? Does anyone know?

ok so I am up to my ears in sappy love songs to slow dance to. If you were at a wedding what song would you like to dance to?

Most of the athiests that I know personally came from families that were very religious...which usually turned them off to religion in general. It made me think that maybe they once believed and then over time, study and a lack of answers decided there was no God? Is this how it happened for you? Did you once believe in a God/dess or have you never believed? I'm just curious.

Ok I'm not trying to sway anyone I was just thinking about this the other day and well now I'm just curious...So in the bible there is a story about Paul who was very active against Christians and then one day on the road to Damascus Christ appeared to him and asked him why he was so against Christianity and such...anyway the guy converted and was a huge Christian Leader after that...but I guess my question is what would you do? I mean if Christ appeared to you...would you believe it? Would you think you were drugged, crazy or would you actually believe? No judgement here just curious what would you do?

The History channel has a show on right now called UFO's in the Bible and they are saying that the people who wrote the bible were mistaken that it wasn't God it was Aliens in UFO's from parting the Red Sea to the appearance of "Jesus" to the Native Americans and the 10 Commandments. Does this make sense to anyone or does anyone believe this and if so why? If not why? (Please dont say anyone is going to Hell)

I have been on Y! Answers looking at the different questions on religion and I've seen questions being asked by and to christians and athiests pop on and down talk their beliefs and christians set up answers to show that they are judging the Athiests for not believing in God.

It seems as if no one is happy to let each other live as they would choose. But christians, doesn't this contradict Jesus' law of Love one another? And Athiests why do you complain of being judged and then turn and judge other people?

I dont understand. Why is it SO IMPORTANT to prove one another wrong?

My father was a very abusive man when I was young. He was abusive mainly to my mother and some of my brothers and sisters. I however was spared this. My parents divorced when I was 8 and I haven't seen my father in over 12 years but I will speak to him once every year or two. However, before all of this I was very very very close to him and well he is blood. Not to mention that all of my 4 brothers are very close to him. But the trouble is that my grandfather used to be the chief of police (who I am closer to than my own mother) and my uncle is a very passionate advocate against domestic violence. Not to my step dad and I'm afraid what will happen if they ever see him again. My father is still blood but its my wedding day and I really dont want the police show up to my reception or deal with someone getting hurt and the drama of it all. Should I invite him? If not how should I break it to him that he's just not invited? PLEASE HELP! I dont know what to do!

I am Laguna Pueblo and I need to find as many traditions associated with weddings as possible. I know about the hand washing and the white garment being tyed at the top but is there anything else and how exactly is it supposed to happen? Please help!

I'm overdue by like 2.5 weeks but I had sex just when my period was due. I know that they say to wait a few days before your period and everything but I also remember being told 2 weeks after having unprotected sex back in high school. Is it ok to take the test now or should I wait for another 2-3 weeks and take the test if I dont start my period next month? Not sure I can even wait that long. Please help.

(it could've just been billy corgan but it was done while the smashing pumpkins were still together)

My ex-on again off again boyfriend keeps contacting me every year. He is married now and has been for the last 4 years. we were together (on again off again) for almost 7 years. We didn't end well (he cheated on me with his now wife) and the only time he contacted me before he got married was to get back together. we never established a friendship after we broke up and I keep telling him to stop. His wife has written me nasty emails. and i block every email address he uses to get back in touch with me and tell him to stop but it doesn't. What should I do. This has to stop and I dont know how. HELP!