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What are the best things you like about Thanksgiving?

Are you thankful?? OR is just something that you have to do?

I just got a strobe/trigger lighting kit and it came with the remote trigger, and I can't find the adapter cable that would work for my Nikon D90... can you help?????

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The moon this week so far, plus all last week has been full! What is going on?

Is this the first sign that the world is coming to an end - as predicted?

I lost my Alley girl this past Friday (Dec. 23rd) she was 13 years and 8 months old. I have had her since she was 3 weeks old, and I can't even begin to put into words how much I miss her.

For the last couple years she would vomit, and she lost a lot of weight, but the vet kept telling me Alley was fine, it was just a part of old age... Finally I got fed up with her, and apparently not soon enough went to another vet. The next vet thought that Alley had hyperthyroidism and put Alley on some pills. Alley started eating better, and not crying that she was starving 24/7... but I noticed a day before she passed that she hadn't been eating at all... and she was hiding more and more. first I thought it might have been all the xmas stuff going up, but it got more and more, and then she didn't use her box at all that day... so I called the new vet and she wanted to see her. So I took her there. The new vet told me that Alley was sick and like a person, she would have to be "hospitalized". unwillingly, I agreed..but left our cuddle blanket there for her, so she would have a little of home with her.

I didn't expect the call only 3 hours later saying that she through a clot and had to be put on oxygen.. and even with all that, she will not make it through the night. Our only choice was to put her down.

We were beyond devastated! and when we got there, she had blood all over her beautiful white fur, and the blanket - and I saw for myself that she couldn't breath. I scooped her up and told her that I loved her and she was my best friend, and that I was sorry.. but I didn't want her to suffer. Apparently, she had stomach cancer that went undetected. weird, but she went without a fight to the vet that she previously seconds before wanted to rip her eyes out, and she accepted her shot. I grabbed her from that cold table and held her right to my heart and kept telling her that I loved her, and that I was sorry over and over until she passed... she died in my arms.

when we got home, I saw her at the door, and scurry across the living room as though she was right here and all this was a bad dream. But I don't see her anymore...

The first couple days and nights I feel her in my arms laying on my chest when I sit down or go to bed. Our dog won't even go near me when I feel this..

Really strange is my 18 month old woke up screaming the night after she past, and called out her name. That same night, my husband swears he felt the bed move like something came up on it, and walked over him.

Is this my Alley?

I feel like I murdered my cat - does she forgive me? Do you ever get rid of this guilt?

When, if ever, do you stop crying?

Please help...

Alley's grieving mommy

We live in the State of Wisconsin and I checked - there is grand parental rights... BUT - How do you enforce your rights??? Without of course getting a lawyer... Cause that we can't afford.

So - whats the story...right?

Well - our 20 yr old daughter moved out when she turned 18 and moved in with the x's mother. Acutally sneeked out and didn't tell us until after she was gone. Gma snuck over to our house every day after school and took a load of clothes for her. And the reason she moved is that of course gma gives her whatever she wants - lets her do what ever she wants. Well - g-ma lets her bf move in and low and behold - she got pregnant.

So of course we got upset - and good old grandma got K (lets just refer to our daughter as that) to get pissed at us and stopped all communication for 4 months. Then the bf dumped her cause of the conditions of the house and hooked up with one of K's friends... and gets her pregnant as well...

Well after all that K was then all mommy this and that and the other... blah - blah. K was over all the time, we went shopping, gave her this huge baby shower, went to all of her appointments - everything that a mom should do for her child. K even asked me to be her birthing coach (boy did that ever piss off g-ma!)

So couple weeks before she was due K asked if her and the new bf could move in with the baby until they could find a place on their own. And this way the baby would be here and taken care of 24/7 and I could help her. So we said yes. And G-ma's house is not in anyway safe for a baby. ( 500 SQ with 3 cats & 3 large dogs that are all in the house! )

K went into labor at 1 in the afternoon while she was with G-ma and I didn't find out until almost midnight when she was already checking into the hospital. When I got there G-ma was so pissy and got even more owly when the nurse kicked her out into the waiting room.

So the baby was born - and every time I went up to the hospital - here was Gma... and K didn't tell her she was moving out. But her and the baby came home with us. I had the baby all but maybe 2-3 hrs a day. K didn't do nothing with her, for her - so I gradually started putting more and more onto K (since it was her baby) and then one day she tells me that she was going to FL for 10 days... but she can't bring the baby on the bus for that long, so she is staying home. and wrote a custody letter giving me full custody - and took off. Not once did gma call and offer any help... but the minute K came home she called 1-2 times a day.

So we forced K to get a job if she wasn't going to be a suzie home maker - So she did. And by this time the baby was 4 1/2 months old - got so bad that I ended up putting the crib in my room for a while since she didn't get up with her. After the baby started sleeping though the night she went back to K's room. But she plugged in a monitor in my room... "just in case"

So I would give her 10-15 mins to get up with the baby, go in and wake her - but 99% of the time I got "u get her, I'm tired." With all that said - the new bf saw what his future was going to be like and he took off too.

Now the Gma called 3-4 times a day! Well after 3 weeks in the job she got fire - and moves back in with Gma with the baby. This was October 17th. The 19th she came over with the baby, and in 4 days the baby didn't smile, she was dirty, her clothes smelled like mold, full of animal hair, and all she did wanted to do was cuddle with me.

K calls on the 20th (our anniversary) and I told her thatone of her friends is starting chit and getting everyone up in arms - since when she left to move out - she told everyone that she was moving into her cousins house and NOT Gma's. and Gma even looked me dead in the eyes and essured me that she would not be living at her house. Oh and the whole fathers side has sever asthma!

So now she was over there at Gma's house and not at her cousins house. Gma's house not only has the dogs, cats - gas leak from the stove, wood burner has smoke coming into the house, plumbing problems, sewage leak in the basement...the list goes on.

Since that day I guess social services went over there - don't know the story - but Iam getting blammed for it in total. So since Oct. 19th I have not seen the baby. K won't talk, text, email, facebook, myspace - nothing. She won't let us see the baby, or anyone from this side of the family.

So what do I do? How do I get to see my granddaughter???? How do I force her to let me see her? I know that there is grandparental laws in this state - Cause gma used them to see my kids.

Does anyone know how to get this done? And I'm disabled - and on SS - so I have no money for a lawyer.

PLEASE PLEASE HELP!

Thank you in advance!

God Bless

We live in the State of Wisconsin and I checked - there is grand parental rights... BUT - How do you enforce your rights??? Without of course getting a lawyer... Cause that we can't afford.

So - whats the story...right?

Well - our 20 yr old daughter moved out when she turned 18 and moved in with the x's mother. Acutally sneeked out and didn't tell us until after she was gone. Gma snuck over to our house every day after school and took a load of clothes for her. And the reason she moved is that of course gma gives her whatever she wants - lets her do what ever she wants. Well - g-ma lets her bf move in and low and behold - she got pregnant.

So of course we got upset - and good old grandma got K (lets just refer to our daughter as that) to get pissed at us and stopped all communication for 4 months. Then the bf dumped her cause of the conditions of the house and hooked up with one of K's friends... and gets her pregnant as well...

Well after all that K was then all mommy this and that and the other... blah - blah. K was over all the time, we went shopping, gave her this huge baby shower, went to all of her appointments - everything that a mom should do for her child. K even asked me to be her birthing coach (boy did that ever piss off g-ma!)

So couple weeks before she was due K asked if her and the new bf could move in with the baby until they could find a place on their own. And this way the baby would be here and taken care of 24/7 and I could help her. So we said yes. And G-ma's house is not in anyway safe for a baby. ( 500 SQ with 3 cats & 3 large dogs that are all in the house! )

K went into labor at 1 in the afternoon while she was with G-ma and I didn't find out until almost midnight when she was already checking into the hospital. When I got there G-ma was so pissy and got even more owly when the nurse kicked her out into the waiting room.

So the baby was born - and every time I went up to the hospital - here was Gma... and K didn't tell her she was moving out. But her and the baby came home with us. I had the baby all but maybe 2-3 hrs a day. K didn't do nothing with her, for her - so I gradually started putting more and more onto K (since it was her baby) and then one day she tells me that she was going to FL for 10 days... but she can't bring the baby on the bus for that long, so she is staying home. and wrote a custody letter giving me full custody - and took off. Not once did gma call and offer any help... but the minute K came home she called 1-2 times a day.

So we forced K to get a job if she wasn't going to be a suzie home maker - So she did. And by this time the baby was 4 1/2 months old - got so bad that I ended up putting the crib in my room for a while since she didn't get up with her. After the baby started sleeping though the night she went back to K's room. But she plugged in a monitor in my room... "just in case"

So I would give her 10-15 mins to get up with the baby, go in and wake her - but 99% of the time I got "u get her, I'm tired." With all that said - the new bf saw what his future was going to be like and he took off too.

Now the Gma called 3-4 times a day! Well after 3 weeks in the job she got fire - and moves back in with Gma with the baby. This was October 17th. The 19th she came over with the baby, and in 4 days the baby didn't smile, she was dirty, her clothes smelled like mold, full of animal hair, and all she did wanted to do was cuddle with me.

K calls on the 20th (our anniversary) and I told her thatone of her friends is starting chit and getting everyone up in arms - since when she left to move out - she told everyone that she was moving into her cousins house and NOT Gma's. and Gma even looked me dead in the eyes and essured me that she would not be living at her house. Oh and the whole fathers side has sever asthma!

So now she was over there at Gma's house and not at her cousins house. Gma's house not only has the dogs, cats - gas leak from the stove, wood burner has smoke coming into the house, plumbing problems, sewage leak in the basement...the list goes on.

Since that day I guess social services went over there - don't know the story - but Iam getting blammed for it in total. So since Oct. 19th I have not seen the baby. K won't talk, text, email, facebook, myspace - nothing. She won't let us see the baby, or anyone from this side of the family.

So what do I do? How do I get to see my granddaughter???? How do I force her to let me see her? I know that there is grandparental laws in this state - Cause gma used them to see my kids.

Does anyone know how to get this done? And I'm disabled - and on SS - so I have no money for a lawyer.

PLEASE PLEASE HELP!

Thank you in advance!

God Bless

I can't figure this out.. so maybe someone can help please!

So I have in:

A1 - date rent paid

B1 - amount of rent

C1 - late fees

D1 - amount of rent due

This is where I need the help... the late fee's And here is the breakdown...

- from day 1 to day 5 = 0

- from day 6 to 10 = $50

- from day 10 to the date they pay it = $10.00 a day

Is this something that can be done? OR is there a different way that I should be doing this?

Thank you so much in advance!

Kelly

My husband doesn't want to be called "grandpa".... so, since he is french, we are looking for the french word for Grandpa...just to get his goat.

Need the spelling and the how to say it please.

Thanks in advance!

Please don't judge.

My cat is over 12 years old. She in the past weeks have had the diarrhea, and I thought it would just go away at first, but it still is there and this is scarring me to death!!!

We seriously don't have the money to take her to the vet, otherwise I would do that in a heartbeat! But I need to keep a roof over my 4 kids heads!

There is nothing that has changed in the house, nor has her food changed. She eats like normal, and still beats on the dog.

The only thing that has changed is that my daughter is pregnant...but I don't see how that would effect her digestion system.

So if someone out there in this huge world of ours could please seriously help, I will be indebted to you for life if you help me keep my baby girl! I have had her since she was 3 weeks old, and I want to have her in our lives for more years to come...

Thank you so very much!

God Bless,

Kelly

I teach 9th grade Catholic religious education. Our next lesson is journaling. Now how can I get them really interested in this? Especially the boys...

Please give me some incite, or any help for that matter.

Thanks in advance!

Was wondering if it is bad to give a dog milk? I was told that it gives them worms - but can't see how, since their mother has milk when they are born and they drink it.... but not 2% from the store...lol...

How do you do find them with the numbers that they are giving you?

My husband and I are looking for a 2000-2500 consolidation loan to pay off some high interest loans.

Our credit is not the best....ok it's crap! And we are killing ourselves every month trying to pay these check into cash places at 701.25% interest!

Please help if you know anyone in the Milwaukee area that could help.

Thanks in advance

ok - I can't remember the name of this movie and it's driving me crazy!

The only thing that I can remember is that it was about jeans that had the butt either cut out of them, or it was a plastic piece that was see through on the back of the jeans.

Do you remember what movie this is?

I am going to have back surgery. I blew out my L3,4, &5.

What did you go through?

How long did it take before you recovered enough to go back to work?

Do I have to have someone there at all times right after I come home?

Trying to play Godsmack!

I was down sick with a flu and then my cat started vomiting the next day. Is it possible that I gave her the flu?

My huband and I just got married this year, and he has a 14 yr old girl that he never sees. I have only meet her once breifly. She lives out of state with her mother and we bearly have contact with her.

We have asked for a list, but has had no response.

We need to get her something, but have no clue what to get her.... does anyone have any clues what a 14 yr old girl is into besides boys???