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  • How do I go about asking new in town coworker to hang out ?

    I like this new cute coworker of mine . I don’t know anything about him . I haven’t really worked with him much bc we have slightly different work schedules.I know he’s new in town and pretty sure he has no ties here ( ie family and friends). I’d like to get to know him outside work but idk if it’s a bad idk bc I don’t want any awkwardness. My coworker friend said I should invite him to hang out thst he prolly like that  and he’s extremely nice . How do I go about this ?

    6 AnswersSingles & Dating5 months ago
  • What do I say to my best friend ?

    My best male friend and I are extremely close .. or so I think . We usually talk everyday for like hours . Call each other and ft each other at 1 point it was 3 hours at a time ... now it’s not the same . I voiced my concerns he said he’s been busy with work which is valid . Yes he still talk almost everyday .. he’s been my rock my biggest supporter.. been my everything basically. He push’s me to get the best outta me . Push’s He’s always there for me . He’s the first person I run to for everything thing during times of sadness and times of happiness  . I always see him on ig but doesn’t talk to me . I’m kinda afraid he’s talking to someone else . I let him contact me bc in my head i know he wants to talk to me . I know I’m being needy too! I almost pushed him away bc of my emotional breakdown 2 months ago. He said I been acting needy. Things are now fine I think . I just want things to go back where we were always in contact with each other . How can I voice this ?  But I’m jealous of this best  friend of his since hs.. the girl has a kind with no dad . Basically he acting as a “father role model” for her. I feel selfish bc I want the attention he giving the baby to me. The friend and child ( definitely 100% not his kid) live in Puerto Rico. My bfff is in Texas . I’m not mad at the kid but again I just feel

    Like I been pushed a little . How do I say this without being needy

    Singles & Dating7 months ago
  • My bff/crush said I’m being needy! How do I recover from this?

    I have the male friend who I care about & he knows this. We talk usually every day for hours, usually he’s the one contacting me.

    something I been trying bc then I know he wants to talk to me seeking me out.He’s really been a positive influence I needed in my life.I never worried about things w/ him

    . He’s never made me not want to trust him.Anyways lately he seems to pull back & it freaks me outs. My most destructive ex would always ghost me went on for 6 yrs.so it kinda became a thing I’d get anxious about!  my friend iS

     well aware of this & I’m really working on myself 2 become more confident.So I get freaked out & it doesn’t help the birth control I recently started is making me 100% more anxious & depressed/emotional. Which again he knows I told him how I was feeling off & this isn’t me. Which I know he sees. Anyways I miss his normally goofy self & I said that. that’s when he said I’ve been really needy lately. Hope it’s just the medicine. Now I’m freaked out that I really done it Pushed him away.He said I he’s here no matter what he wouldn’t judge me bc I told him I was scared he’d think I’m crazy for feeling the way I do.I know he cares a lot about me.But what do I do?What if he still talks to me but realizes he needs the step back ? Thus has been the first time in our “relationship” that something like this has happend. Idk what to do.aside from take a step back give him space.it’s just scary bc he gets/understands me In a way that I’ve never experienced before!

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 months ago
  • My bff/crush said I’m being needy! How do I recover from this?

    I have the male friend who I care about & he knows this. We talk usually every day for hours, usually he’s the one contacting me.

    something I been trying bc then I know he wants to talk to me seeking me out.He’s really been a positive influence I needed in my life.I never worried about things w/ him

    . He’s never made me not want to trust him.Anyways lately he seems to pull back & it freaks me outs. My most destructive ex would always ghost me went on for 6 yrs.so it kinda became a thing I’d get anxious about!  my friend iS

     well aware of this & I’m really working on myself 2 become more confident.So I get freaked out & it doesn’t help the birth control I recently started is making me 100% more anxious & depressed/emotional. Which again he knows I told him how I was feeling off & this isn’t me. Which I know he sees. Anyways I miss his normally goofy self & I said that. that’s when he said I’ve been really needy lately. Hope it’s just the medicine. Now I’m freaked out that I really done it Pushed him away.He said I he’s here no matter what he wouldn’t judge me bc I told him I was scared he’d think I’m crazy for feeling the way I do.I know he cares a lot about me.But what do I do?What if he still talks to me but realizes he needs the step back ? Thus has been the first time in our “relationship” that something like this has happend. Idk what to do.aside from take a step back give him space.it’s just scary bc he gets/understands me In a way that I’ve never experienced before!

    Friends9 months ago
  •  It feels like my male best friend is acting distant ( I think). Am I panicking over nothing ? ?

     I have this extremely close male friend I met last year. In my opinion we have a great connection . We talk daily  sometimes in phone or FaceTime for hours .he remembers all these small details I said in passing surprised he remembers. He’s been my rock/confidant/ helping me be the better person I was when we met in personal/physical/mental and professional. I fell for him when we met bc he’s extremely good looking . But over time I got to see his heart and I swear to god I adore him just because of his heart. I can count on him to be there and I can tell him things /show my vulnerable side. He sees me and said a few times he cares so much and wants me to see me for the person he knows I am. But lately it seems like he’s been somewhat distant . I mean we still talk but it seeMs different. There’s been sexual talk too. I get scared because my ex used to manipulate me when ever he was mad about something he would ghost me even if I had nothing to do with it. So I get scared , panicky and extreme anxiety. We just really close best friends whom I can trust . But I feel like I need the reassurance. He knows me inside and out so I’m sure he can sense the panic but I haven’t said anything . He also knows I like him. I tell him all the time how much I value him. I just don’t know if I scared him off ?? I have a way of doing that and he knows this about me. We had many deep heart felt conversations.. he’s different then what I’m used to ., what do I do ?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating9 months ago
  • What does it mean when the guy I like asks me if I like anyone /hooked up when he knows I like him ?

    I met this amazing guy who I became really close with during a work deployment . He’s extremely good looking , the biggest sweetheart and all around very colorful personality. He lives in Texas I live in Nevada. I really like the guy and we clicked and flirted which was extremely apparent. We text each other every other day . Then the other day we were talking about our coworker “a”. My friend asked if “a” talked to the girl he likes. I said idk bc I tune a out. He said well at least he tribes. Then asks what about u. Did u leave empty handed? I said what about me ? He said u know what I’m talking about . Did u hook up with anyone ? I said no. He said what no good possibles ?? Nothing nada?! I said there was 1 but it is what it is. I’m shy . He said someone’s gotta approach..,he then asks are u the type that can’t handle the no answers I said no, which he’s like mhhmmmmmm . Then drops it . It’s got me kinda confused bc he knows I’m sooo into him... I never outwardly said it but my actions were pretty clear. To me it felt like he was fishing for something like me to tell him. But I’m scared bc I don’t want to loose our friendship, as In He’s the best guy I met in a long long time .,what does he mean by this? And should I risk it and tell him how I feel ?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating2 years ago
  • Is my guy crush asking me because he’s interested or not ?

    I’m good friends with this guy. He usually text me every other day. I really like him and I’m pretty sure he knows it too. The other night he asks if our coworker talked to the girl he liked. I responded and the guy I like said well at least he tried! Then asked about me if I like anyone ? If i hooked up with anyone ? Left empty handed.i said yes I like someone but I’m shy. He said your not the type that can’t handle a no?? I said no. He then responds someone gotta approach. Then drops it. It almost seemed like wanted me to admit I like him?? Idk outta the blue. But it’s obvious that I do . We flirted a lot . But I’m afraid to admit ( even though I practically have) bc I love our friendship to ! He’s an amazing guy. I want him too. But idk if that’s why he was asking or some other reason too !

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating2 years ago
  • why do I keep redownloading my music in iTunes on my IPhone 5s cell?

    I have been noticing that I keep having to redownload my music like every week back on to my iPhone iTunes. I don't know why .have other people have the same issue?

    3 AnswersCell Phones & Plans6 years ago
  • Why do guys keep asking for sex but gets rejected!?

    I met this guy whose very handsome firefighter... But all it seems like I'd he wants just sex . We hung out a few times.. Stating he wants to make sure " we're sexually compatible "... I rejected him told him to F off .. Then a year later he apologizes saying he wants to take me out... But then starts in on sex.. I rejected him again.. His friend tells me that he always gets what he's wants .. He can get any chick but constantly bugs me when he knows I won't until I'm comfortable.. Why do guys do this ??

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating6 years ago
  • What's the name of this dinosaur tv show?

    Does anyone know the name of the late 80's early 90's show about a normal human family living with the dinosaurs?????

    2 AnswersDrama7 years ago
  • I'm looking for similar type books/ stories?

    I recently retread this good book. It's called when the war is over by Martha attema . It's about this Dutch girl living in Netherlands during the third reich. She and most of her family and friends are a part if the resistance so obviously she hates nazis. That is until she met helmut a young german solider. She then constantly sees him around and they eventually fall in love. But she gets caught, he gets to her abd let's her escape then she hides him and get him to canada... At the end of the story you see her on a boat headed to canada. Abd her family cut her off bc of her relationship with the nazi..

    Does anyone know of any similar type stories ??? Not so much the whole holocaust/nazi subject. But more so the forbidden love ?????

    3 AnswersBooks & Authors7 years ago
  • Looking for a similar book/story?

    I recently re read the book : when the war is over by Martha attema. It's about this Dutch girl in the Netherlands during the nazi era. She's apart of the resistance so needless to say she hates nazi. That is until she meets helmut. , a young German soldier who doesn't fit the stereotype she has learned to hate so fiercely. Now suddenly she must deal with confusing new feelings for the enemy. But when Janke is captured while helping an Allied airman escape, her fate seems sealed. Unless Helmut is willing to betray his own country . ...

    I really like the story plot abd wondered if there were any similar books like this

    3 AnswersBooks & Authors7 years ago
  • Looking for this Anne frank movie?

    Does anyone know of a movie about a teacher making her under privilege students read the Anne frank story. From my understanding they wrote to miep, frank family friend that hid them. And she came to the class to talk to them. Apparently this was based on true story and wAs made years ago. It sounded like. A great movie

    1 AnswerMovies7 years ago
  • How to train a 'scardi cat' ?

    I have a 1yo male cat and got him from a family friend when he was about 4-5 mo. The problems I'm having are fusterAting! When anyone goes near him he runs and hides. But only when your laying Down or sleeping is when he actually comes up to me and either lays on me or right next to me. Other wise a sudden movement and he runs! How do i train him???

    3 AnswersCats8 years ago
  • Is our apartments screwing us over?

    I had just moved out of a horrible living space last month.we had heat that never went up past 65 degrees in winter. During summer it was so hot and the a/c wrked only infront of cooler.we complained and they did nothing about it . And yet when it was below 65 our bill was still high. Then 2 weeks b4 we end our lease our hot water was turned off in the unit building (12 aparments were effected) due to an emergency. According to the office bc it hadn't been updated since the 70's that the part can take up to 2 wks to recieve. Do they said they'll set up a vacant house so we could shower! We said no and would like to be broken. And they said no.we called the housing authority but they never called us back. And we paid rent already b4 this went down. Now they charging us bc we apparently didn't clean. But they had also sent me and my roomate 2 totally different letters sayin what we owe. I got 3 more day for paying them. Who do I complain too? Or ask advice?

    2 AnswersRenting & Real Estate9 years ago
  • Wrk holiday scheme for us citizen?

    Is there any type of visa or program to UK for a us citizens

    3 AnswersImmigration10 years ago
  • what are the visa options and info?

    i just got back from london recently and i defineetly am interested in moving there ( maybe not permently) but i was wondering about the different visa's i could apply for. also what is the process? and where do i go to get all this information. i figured the british embassy was prolly the best place to look first. because i was also told that i could apply for the working holiday visa.... but i also wonder if you have to look for a job first? is there any working programs in the uk??????? sooo if anyone could help me with this process that would be great :)

    3 AnswersOther - United Kingdom1 decade ago
  • what are the visa options and info?

    i just got back from london recently and i defineetly am interested in moving there ( maybe not permently) but i was wondering about the different visa's i could apply for. also what is the process? and where do i go to get all this information. i figured the british embassy was prolly the best place to look first. because i was also told that i could apply for the working holiday visa.... but i also wonder if you have to look for a job first? is there any working programs in the uk??????? sooo if anyone could help me with this process that would be great :)

    2 AnswersImmigration1 decade ago
  • do i need to get a tourist visa?

    if im traveling to london for 10 days and germany for 6? im coming from the united states

    2 AnswersPacking & Preparation1 decade ago
  • WHat is the cheapest option to see london?

    Im going to london the 1st week of april for a week. i want to make the best of my time and as cheap as possible. I would like to see all the top london attractions. i was thinking of a sightseeing tour, that way i can see all the sights and not pay so much. i was wondering what are the best sightseeing companies that show u alot for the priice, if that makes sense.i came across companies like : the big bus company and the original london tours. which is of these are the best? which sights do u see? if you have another idea please let me know :) thanks!

    I also want to know which is the best option. i will be staying 1/2 hour outside london. soo obviously i will be taking the tube into london. granted my british friend has a car but she will be working some days soo i want to travel on my own. is there a london card ? bc i did see one such card but is it worth the money? please let me know. as i am traveling on a budget!

    from where im staying i will be 30 min south of london. and to take the tube its 35GBP round trip each time i go to london.....

    5 AnswersLondon1 decade ago