Angelcake

i joind gaia online today, it worked at first i could get into the towns and games but now they are freezing up on me and wont load, anyone have any ideas why?

My cat has just come home covered in what looks lke oil, i have bathed him (oh so many scratches! ouch) and i have got almost all of it off, what else can i do?

I let my six year old play out with her friends outside our house for a couple of hours after school they are supervised by either myself or one of the other parents, but i have an absolute nightmare getting her to come in, i belieive that at her age on a school night she should be in bed no later than 8pm (usually 7:30) but my neighbour allows her children (aged 5&3) to stay out untill around 10pm. So of course my daughter thinks im some kind of monster who doesnt love her because im not as kind, i want to explain to her that i do love her and im doing it in her best interest but without putting my neighbour down, im really at my wits end yesterday she even said she wanted to live next door i have tried not letting her go out as punishment but its no good

any suggestions? sorry about the long winded question!