mleanne13

we have tried the filters but they block the air flow way too much and cost alot of money. i was thinking of making a thin cover out of terry cloth that will get some of the dust and is still washable. has any one tried this and if so let me know how it worked for you.

in the last year my husbands temper has become very bad to say the least. last night i wouldnt let him use my laptop cause it is one mine and two was just fixed from the last time he used it. he had been drinking a little already so i dont know if that played into it. but he started going off how "his" money pays for the net i use and how he should be the "only" one to use it.... i kept telling him one cause the last time he used it he got pissed at me cause i wanted it back after him on it for three hours and he slammed it down and broke it. well he got so mad at me last night he punched a fan and broke it into two.... when he gets pissed he hits anything close to him and doesnt care if it breaks or how is around him we have a three year old son... my friends all say i should of called the cops on him last night but he is in the army and would of been into alot of crap and we are in CO they dont take lightly to people like him even if they dont hit a person...

i have asked him to get help but he says they will only put him on pills and not give a crap....my husband has been sent over twice in three years. he has been home now for a year and things have only gotten worse. he doesnt want a thing to do with me or our son. i try to do things with him but he only get mad. he puts everything he has into his jeep. i know work is stressful and he is going to school at night.

i dont know if this is the PTSD or what but when i asked him about anything he will turn it into a fight and then tell me he is done with our marriage and wants me to leave. so the other night i started taking down all my stuff and putting it into my office it help for a night he was nice and all but next day he was right back to being a pain in the butt. i have made some calls to see if others can help me cause i have been dealing with this for four years now.

would it be good for me to go get help to understand PTSD better i have been reading alot online and see all the treatments they do for the person and for their families we have a two year old and i can see changes in him i dont like and they are coming from his father. what can i do to help one my self understand this and two to help my husband become a better husband and father and person for all.

we have been married for four years and have a two year old. we got married at the age of 19. we live a life in the army and he has been sent over many times. we both care for the other, i wouldnt want anything to happen to him and same with him with me. just the thought of having to live without him freaks me out we have been together for eight years so yeah. but i dont think we are happy with each other it is more like good friends living with each other.

i even typed it in on our search and it couldnt find it at all. we love house and look forward to it each monday night. what is going on? i looked online and couldnt find much.

i was in a wreck two days ago, it had rained all day i left my house went five blocks stops went to turn and hit a wet or oily spot and my blazer hydro plain ed then fish tailed. i have never been in a wreck or been pulled over. my husband drives in the army and has always told me never slam on your brakes and stay clam and just get turn the wheel slowly and hold steady. i tried but it over powered i am only 5 4 and 140 pound i ended up going off the road and hitting a concrete ditch. my blazer is dead i hit my head but was able to walk away. i am looking for a school that teaches people how to Control their cars in stuff like this i know they are there i live in CO. they should teach this stuff when u first start to drive it would save alot of people trouble. i got a ticket for careless driving and the officer said u cant lose control of a car when it is not raining. my dad is a officer all so he has always told me to be very careful in rain i go about ten to five miles less then the speed limit when it is raining or until the road are dry.

my husband is full time army, we have dishnetwork we moved about six months ago they would not turn off our tv even when i asked if i needed to send his orders. what is the name of the act so i can call and tell them for the tenth time.

a friend of mine is having a hard time with her husband. when he gets home he gets on his xbox 360 and plays till he gos to bed. he wil fix dinner and he wont eat. he wont kiss her, he says that she and their little girl are around him too much he works from 5 am to 5pm. she found his cell phone and went through the text messages and found some from a girl that said i love u miss u cant wait to be in your arms. she found out that the person he plays with online through his xbox is a girl she thinks it is the same one he is texting. he treats her like a maid. she has tried to give him space but when she asks he says no. they are going to visit family july 1st, he wants her to stay there for six months. he told her that he doesnt want to work on the marriage. she wants to try to work on it. what should she do.

my husband is in the army which to him is his reason for every thing why he wont take out the trash to why he wont have sex. well last night some of his friends came over. one of them is going through a bad divorce with two kids. his friend will talk to me no promble (he is also in the army). it is weird he has more respect for me then my own husband does. like last night we were watching dr phil and on there they were saying treat others how u want to be treated. i looked at my husband he said yeah hunny show me that u love me. i am the one that pays the bills, do the dishes, take care of his kid. i do every thing around here but work on the trucks cause i dont know too much, that is what he does for a living in the army my blazer hasnt worked in over two months, so i have to keep asking him for his jeep which needs parts and i have to find the money now. i just wish my husband would treat me more lovingly. he will say i love u but it sounds like he is just saying. i have gone and talked to someone and gotten my self help many times but he wont. what am i doing wrong he knows i am unhappy and i know he is but he wont do a thing about it.

i got an IUD about a year ago. two weeks before i got an mri done the guy said if i would of gotten it and they wouldnt of know it would of done alot of damage to me. i wouldnt be able to have kids ever. should i get one so that away if something happens it is a way for them to stop and think. and if your aniemc do u need one too, at times i feel like i could just past out at any given time. thanks for the help.

u know how u have your hunny to do list. what if one day your wife did all the ones she could, with out wanting any thing for it. what is she cooked your fav meals just for u. even ones she doesnt like. what if she didnt tell her girlfriends a singel bad thing about only the good stuff. what would u do?

i am just wondering what is the first thing u take note on a women that stands out to u or gets your eye for that sec look.

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let me know if u have trouble seeing it. i am wanting to cut my hair to a med hair cut. and put some layers in it to give it more body. what would be good with the shape of my face.

my husband told me last night he hates every thing about me, but 20 mins later says he still loves me and wants to work on our marriage. i have tried to change to what he wants me too be but i feel that i am lieing to him and to my self. what does he mean by this. he wasnt like this when we got married didnt start till he went active duty about three years ago.

we have been married for three years we have a two year old son. he is in the army was sent overseas for over a year he has been home for seven months and each month get worse. he wont help me around the house gets mad if his stuff is not done first. he will help his friends wifes but not me. i dont even ask any more cause it would just make him mad or he would give me a look like do it your self. he woke talk to me about us or things i could change to help us. i have tired, i have read just about every book on marriage talked to my pastor i have a group of good friends that dont judge him. he wont talk to my friends but makes me be friends with his friends. help please oh and yes i did use all of the baby weight and more.

with in three days of moving in my new house we got robbed. we didnt even have enough time to unpack every thing. the company will charge us at least 300 dollars for three years because of this, we now have an alarm on the house but is there any thing i can do to stop this. and they only want to give us 900 dollars for 3,000 dollars worth of stuff. a laptop was taken and just in that was 2,000. my husband is in the amry and we plan to talk to jagg is there any thing i need to take to them. please help.

i got a 50 dollar gift card there. i love my tea and my friend that gave me the card also loves tea but hot tea. i want a good kettle that can take a beating. and is worth the money. i right now use a small coffee maker and just put water in it and let it go. it is fast and easy so i was just wondering which u like better tea kettle or coffee pot heating the water. let me know on both please. and where to find tea tins to store my tea in. i have a box but not all of my tea has it own bags so i dont want them to mix. thanks for any help.

my blazer need new seals it has been taken apart for two weeks. all that is left is the timing needs to be done and oil changed. my husbands jeep needs an oil change too we have all the oil and pan he just wont do it. he gos through a whole tank of gas in three days. he is getting new parts for the jeep and i am thinking about hiding them till he gets my blazer done. we have no food in our house and he wont take me to the store cause he says he can drive the jeep even through he drives it too work every day. last night i asked him to change the oil in jeep he said yeah sure hunny. did he nope. he is getting mad at me cause i have to send him to the store every night for food. but he wont let me go. sorry if i nagged but it has been like this for two weeks. what can i do. he has all the tools for the job, he works on truck for aliving but his job right now is sending him to classes. he says he is tired when he gets home he wakes up at 8 and gos to be at 8. i am up at 6. please help i just want my blazer fixed. so i can drive it. thanks for any help.

july 14 2006 i got hurt at a city animal shelter. they didn't do any test just poked at my back and made the pain worse put me on pills that make me hurt worse. i had to quite the job cause my husband went active duty in the army. i asked for xrays done but they wouldn't the doctor said it was between two ribs and that it would feel in about six months and not to use my back that much. my job was to clean up after dogs and if one got out i had to get it. well when we got insurance i found my self with child so they couldn't do a thing then. after i had my son they did xrays and then an mri. come to find out it is between my spine and ribs. i cant lift more then ten pounds with out it hurting me. and if i have anything in my hands i drop it cause of the pain. what can i do i have trying to get a back but i am afraid if i do that this promble will make it hard.

i was going through my itunes and found this song i love it but i cant find the album it is on. i do have alot of the wow cds but i checked all of them when it was downloaded it didnt have any info on it. thanks.