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Got involved 5 years ago.moved in 2 years ago. Never been great though loyalty monogamy are solid we have each other's back. But truly I feel a stranger here...I sold my place and moved into hers...I don't think we have anything deeply in common but our values I just don't fit in. I am academically inclined and professional and venturing out in new education she can't related to my ambition. She is also moody and doesn't like when things are not her way... I care for her dont want to hurt her but I know this can't be the person I am meant to be with .... There's no passion just a logical companionship... How do I know when it's time to go or are there reasons to stay. How do I end this how do I stay I know she will be angry but I can't stay if by being here I am missing out in someone I could be happier with or at least easier to live with.... We are in our late thirties no kids never been married

We have been together close to five years and living together for two. In the beginning of our relationship we broke up every three months for at best a week or two each time...We got past that issue of commitment and doubting the connection....now as things seem to be working out and we understand our differences and allow them to work for us.....we have not moved forward....though it looks great on outside two people together sharing lives and family ( no kids) and dealing with the ups and downs....she won't let go of certain things that are simply different and won't change...she will have mood swings about me not wanting to go out to events with her and certain friends who don't treat her well..and she complains that I am not like her in certain activities she likes to do even though I tell her to go out and not let me anchor her down, I never complain truly I tell her if we don't accept our differences what are we doing together? I have to alter myself more ...but I do cause I want to build something long term and then after every time she fights it's like she forgets it till the next time...I would like to end this cycle but starting over isn't easy.....and I won't engage in fighting words or putting her down...or judging her as she does me...I sold my home to move in with her...I have given up job ops to stay with her...but at what point do you say good bye or is this normal? We are in our 40s no kids no prior marriage..is it worth saving or is it inherently flawed

My brother has been forging checks over the last few years and stole thousands of dollars of my parents money, my dad died., my mom is still alive and he has stolen about 20,000 more from her in the last year.he admitted it to me as I manage finances, it will be taken from his inheritance if enough money exists or at sale of his home which ever is first...today I found he stole more...the question is can he lose his rights to inherit in the will if he is shown to be stealing in a court of law from her while she is alive. We have not told my mom as she is elderly.

I have been in a relationship for almost four years. It hasn't been an easy one we worked

on it a lot and though not great we have a great companionship and trust..but not always compatible but steady, .so we live together (I moved in after selling my home) thus my gf has her career here and it isn't mobile. I have tried finding work locally but even after I do I have had to resign ( from two jobs already that paid well but did not work and i wouldn't have taken had it not been for my geographic limits simply hated the work) So do I stay in this relationship and keep searching another year or do I end it to have and relocate for the work I want to do meaning open up my search area. I am well educated professional and don't want to settle with a job due to location. Early in my career I had a perfect job but had to relocate to care for a parent, thus later meeting current gf and moving in after 3 years.

I need a new laptop...have an ipad (won't do the trick) my MAC desktop is on its way out (rip good friend) and want to go lap top...thinking of trying with a MAC ( yes I have an iPhone)

So grad school will have papers research maybe an online lecture or two but not online school...but will be living through my new lap top thus the reason I am not ding a desktop ....

I know Mac Pro is coming out with something new soon ( no clue when releasing) the MAC AIR has been updated and better battery etc now but don't know if its enough for my needs...

I could go PC argh but why so temperamental ...lol

But seeking advice from other graduate students or computer savvy types who can give me their opine

Thanks

Ok so after 3 1/2 years been living together for a year ( ups and downs before with shirt break ups monogamy though entire time together) we had a fight and well we broke up been about a month...yet we live together share same bed But Not Each Other...we don't date, act like a couple but said broken up.... I think she likes the pseudo freedom with the benefits of a couple, personally I am not passionate about her but know its a good thing we have ...I have to admit we are comfortable and loyal to one another...but I'd be lying if I said something wasn't missing ( as in i prefer no moods she tends to like them..lol )but we are reliable and responsible...so the game of break up to me is a way of saying appreciate us don't take us for granted...but lately as much as we are good together perhaps we should say goodbye though nobody has done Anyone wrong...so is this ending or is there something to work out ( and no we don't wish to marry, so no comments there we have never married and come from happy long married folks just not for us and thats fine and not an issue ever)Thanks for any advice.