DontCallMeYank

My uncle died leaving his two children the estate. Both of them are mentally and physically disabled. The mortgate has not been paid in 3 months because we are trying to get an executor appointed.

At what point can the mortgage company forclose on the home?

I have been abused by my husband and have a medical report from the doctor.

I am deeply concerned about what will happen to me as I have made my life in the UK and have been there for one and a half years. I have had to leave my husband because I can not live with a man that hits me (punched me in the stomach).

Does the UK ever GRANT indefinate leave to remain to a woman who has gone through domestic violence issues or is the UK going to kick me out?

My husband seems to think that he could punch me in the stomach based on the fact that once months and months ago I slapped his shoulder. Also years ago I slapped him across the face for being a bastard running around with another girl.

Can you just tell me if it is okay for a man to physically abuse a woman causing a bruise through punching her if she has in the past (not at the particular time of the actual incident) previously smacked him.

He is trying to rationalize the fact that he punched me in the stomach and I've been to the doctors 5 times.

Long story short, I found a box of chocolates in his car from another woman. When I became upset about this he punched me.

I really do not understand. I have been in love with my husband for years. I don't get it. I need to understand the mental thought process of a man that hits a woman. I don't get it and it is bugging me.

BTW yes I have left him.

I have a 2003 Honda CM 125 and it is in immaculate condition. However it is cutting out at lights and or stops in first gear. It won't always start back up and sometimes it will start back up after a bit.

Checked battery and it is ok. Checked air filter, and it is okay checked spark plugs cleaned them off and they are okay.

Any other thoughts? Suggestions?

I'm not really sure if this is acceptable or not but my husband and his mother have planned a holiday together and I am angry.

They want me to pay for a train ticket so that I can spend 4 days (two of the days are travelling for 8 hours) so that I can be there for part of it.

They are doing the rest of it together and have not considered me at all for anything regarding the holiday.

Now I think that my husband should see his family around new years and holiday times, but I also think it was insensitive for him to not consider my work schedule.

I also think it was inconsiderate that they expect for me to pay for a ticket to spend time with my husband when they didn't care and made the plans without me.

What do you think?

I am not ugly. I have just lost a bunch of weight. I go to the gym and walk 10k. I am healthier than when we met.

Last night I just got fed up. I couldn't sleep because I'd been asking him for it for three days and he hasn't given it up.

Why should I have to beg for it?

He says "You are acting like a guy".

I say "If I were acting like a guy I'd be at my mistress's house".

I've never told him that he can't have it when he wanted it.

Why does he do it to me?

The water that is coming from my water tank on my boat is starting to become stale and disgusting tasting.

I am wondering if there is anything safe you can recommend to kill the bacteria?

I am stuck in a bed and breakfast with a spoon and a bottle of beer.

Computers seem to know everything now days. Is there a way I can get it to make my husband into a super husband?

Seriously there are none in the UK!!!!!

I live in Britain but am an American. I get people here always telling me that 'we don't speak proper English'.

Considering that America was settled by the British and that we only speak what we knew at that time period such as pants are trousers and in England they call underpants pants (when they are clearly not).

If Underpants were pants then why are they called underpants (meaning that they are under your pants). Pants are trousers.

I am continuously told "We invented the English language".

Yeah.. okay but we threw your tea in the bay for a reason.

I swear my husband has mood swings as bad as a woman. He's seriously got to tone it down.

I am looking for a site that has CHEAP sailboats that are atleast fifty foot long.

I don't mind what the location is but am also interested in repo's.

Only sailboats please.

I have just recently gone through a terrible divorce with someone who (basically) took my entire life from me including my children.

I fought very hard for my kids, spending 72 hours a week working trying to pay for the lawyers.

In the end I cracked and I could not work any harder after having spent 8 thousand dollars on lawyers (my annual income was only 11k at the time).

My ex husband now states that I can not see the children unless I come back to Michigan to see them.

Due to financial reasons (no jobs and high unemployment) I could not find a job in Michigan so I had to relocate (after even going through more schooling to attempt to find a higher paying job).

If I go back to Michigan I can not support myself nor can I support my children.

If I want to see my kids I have to go to Michigan to see them.

I don't see how this is fair.

Is there anything I can do?

I am reluctant to spend yet more money on court because I have lost my entire life to this man and I'd like to have something some day.

I love them Sam I am.

I am a USA citizen and will be getting duel citizenship of the UK. I am looking for a cheap home to retire to when I am a bit older. I love gardening and don't mind it if it is a bit of a dump that needs fixing up.

I am considering Bulgaria.

Do you know any other places that are cheap to live?

I really love my husband and am not really interested in divorce but I believe there is verbal abuse between both parties. Usually starting with him being a very disrespectful person who has no manners.

If you bang your head against a wall thirty five times and it doesn't get heard then what do you do?

What did Joseph and Mary spend the money on?

My husband sees his mother every weekend. He also sees her on several occasions during the week while I am at work.

She went on a long trip to Scottland. While she was there she decided to buy a bike. She didn't ask ahead of time if we would help her pick it up. There is however a train that does go there.

My husband auto told her he would take her up there even though I'd been working for 12 hour shifts several days in a row and I just wanted to spend my first weekend off in three weeks with him.

I told him that he would have been fine going if he had just included me in the decision.

Instead he just 'told' me that he was going off for five days and it was to bad that I couldn't come.

I don't think it is right to plan a holiday with your mother (and he was going because he was going to make it into a holiday) without atleast giving your spouse some notice (more than three days notice).

I was very angry about it and went on and on about it because I think he's out of line.

Also I would have been unable to go with him and I'd have not seen him for several days after the five days because of my work.

What do you think?