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I'll give u an example. I went out last wknd and met this girl at a club(I know a club), and we hit it off pretty good. We did so much that we spent the whole time together dancing and talking and flirting. She even put my arms around her and held them there most of the night like we were a couple. Anywho we ended up exchanging numbers, and proceeded to talk throughout the next couple days. Well, Tuesday she went on a vacation to Flo and came back yesterday. I was aware she was on vaca so I didn't text her too much those days, just a simple "how is your vaca going" typa thing. I noticed she stopped the convo pretty short both days which I have no problems with. She didn't text or call yesterday and nothing today. Now I'm not some guy that needs a lot of attention, but I usually mirror what the other person is doing, and it's just weird that she would be communicating with me consistently then stop. No?

Long story short I met this girl at the club a few wknds ago. We basically hung out the whole night together then kissed toward the end(both were drunk) and exchanged numbers. Okay we texted the whole following week, pretty much everyday. Asked a lot of questions just getting to know each other. Finally Friday night came and we both agreed I would come visit her at her apartment(lives with a roommate) after work. So I came over and me her her roommate and her sister all hung out. Again, everything seems good. As it gets later we eventually have OUR alone time and talk some more. Afterward I leave we both kiss for a while and that's it. Next day we texted but I noticed she was a bit more dry with it. Anyway we had agreed while I was over her house that I would come again the next day but it never happened. Her excuse was "oh I'm sorry idk how I forgot" lol. I don't make a big deal out of it I just say goodnight back too her. Today I haven't heard from her at all and when I called a few hours ago she didn't answer. Has she lost interest that fast? Like how could that be lol

I had to go to the emergency couple of days ago because it felt like I had something in my eye, like an eyelash, and whenever I would blink it would cause my eye to turn red. This has been a miserable feeling. I assume it could have come from my contacts that I wear but not sure. However the doc prescribed me some antibiotic eye drops that gave help relief some of the discomfort. I'm suppose to take it for a week. I'm in my fourth day and while it isn't as bad as it was I STILL feel like something is there when I look to the right. Has anyone dealt with this before and how long does it normally take to go away?

I met this girl while I was out Saturday night. She works at the sushi restaurant/bar next to the bar I was at. Long story short we hit it off pretty well, ended up spending the night together, but the catch is during that time she lost her phone! My guess is it got stolen and she'll never get it back. Anyways I helped her try to find it the next day but she couldn't and I ended up dropping her off at her house. She told me that she still WANTS me to call or text her tho. Problem is I can't lol. I did however find her on Facebook but I'm debating whether or not to send her a message or just wait until she buys a new one, or just stop by her job this wknd. What do u guys think? She'll obviously know it's me since we did our thing or whateva but I don't wanna come off lookin crazy..she did mention too me how her bf recently got killed and his memorials is all over her FB.

Me and my gf have been having some problems here recently. Been dating for 8 months. Everything was going great, we took a trip to Florida to the beach, and I noticed on our way back she was acting funny. After we got back she randomly asked me if I was seeing/talking to anyone else...thought that was weird but I said no and that I love her. Ever since then it has been a struggle. She started not making time for me, or I would have to work hard for it, she hardly says I love u like she used too. Because she ALWAYS talks about her cousin, I made the mistake the asking her "how close" they were...we got into a big fight over it Monday, and we haven't talked since. I did visit her at her job yesterday and we talked about it for a little bit, ended with a kiss and she said she would text me later, but nothing. I'm confused. Idk whether I should be mad because I feel I have a legit reason how she's gone cold on me, using "family problems" as an excuse, or if I should be mad at myself for bringing up the whole cousin thing. I don't wanna seem weak by still trying to contact her either. What should I do? Because the first thing that comes to my mind is she's seeing someone else.

I've been dating my current gf for going on 5 months now. She has 3 kids(2 by one 1 by another). She's great. She works has a good job and goes to college. Her son who she has by another guy isn't an issue. The BD is in Mexico and he's cool. However, the one who she has the two girls by is a PROBLEM. He just cannot get over her. He has tried numerous times to ruin our relationship but it hasn't worked. So fast forward to last nite I come home from work and I get a text message from her. I knew something was funny cuz she usually goes to sleep early. When I looked at it it was a picture of them two in bed she was sleep and he was staring into the camera. I went ape sh*t! So apparently her and her friend were drinking at the house, she passed out and he came there with a few friends and her friend let him in, not knowing he's not allowed there. He snuck in her room and took the picture. When she woke up she said wtf and threatened to call the police AGAIN but he said he just wanted to talk too her. Basically he wanted to say he was sorry for everything, that he just wants to see his kids and he understands now that she loves me and wants to be with me. Also he dropped a bomb that he's BISEXUAL. She told him she doesn't wanna keep the kids away from him but shes still going thru the courts. I'm confused and lost. Don't know what to do. I think it's a messy situation obviously, but it's not on her end. I've grown close wit her kids and vice versa so I don't know what to do!

I met this girl at my local gym. She s new and works there. A few weeks ago we started talking, one thing led to another and I gave her my number. She was finishing up finals at her school so she didn t hit me up right away. Well, yesterday I saw her at the gym and she apologized and said it was her fault for taking so long, so she texts me her # while we were talking. I told her I would text her soon as I got to work, which I did, and she responded immediately. Well after a few texts exchanged she suddenly stopped, and I haven t heard from her since. I know she has two jobs and was at work when we were talking, but there s no way she couldn t have seen my message. I m not tripping or anything, just a lil confused as to why she would suddenly stop. Obviously, I m not gonna message her again until I hear from her.

I met this really sweet girl at the gym where I go. She works there. We talked for a little bit last week both asking questions getting to know each other. This girl is very independent and ambitious. She has two jobs and goes to school full time. My phone was dead atm so I gave her my # but before I did that she did mention that Finals were comin up(this week) and she was studying hard for them. I didn't hear from her for like 3-4 days, until I went and saw her at the gym recently. She seem VERY happy to see me, but I couldn't help but wonder why she hasn't communicated, although I had an idea. She said "I haven't forgettin about u, BELIEVE ME, I haven't forgotten". And she went on to talk about how finals were comin up. So I said I understand, it's cool good luck on your tests and whenever u done just hit me up. Does it seem like this girl is interested or just throwin me a bone here? I'm being patient.

I've been going out(dating u can say) this girl for a few months now. We work together but in different locations. I pretty much knew that she was seeing other guys and that's okay. I'm seeing other girls too. That's what happens when your single. Last night at dinner we both basically admitted it, but she did say that "her list is empty", and that she thinks she's ready to build wit someone. She then was open about the guys she was seeing and what they have to offer. One guy drives a Benz, lives in the city, this other guy drives a really nice car but doesn't have a legit job and priorities aren't in the right place, but offers to buy her anything she wants and take her on trips. Obviously I cannot compete with this(financially). I drive a regular car and have a decent job. I'm going back to school pretty soon so I do have goals and trying to go places, which I told her. I keep thinking, there a reason why this girl keeps seeing me, even tho I don't have the material things these other guys do, right..? Also, we haven't kissed yet. She told me she only kisses someone who is her bf only. She did give me two hugs and lemme kiss on her cheek and neck a little. I can tell she's close to letting me. But anyways, what do u guys think is going on here??

I don't know if I'm the only one to think of this, but it just seems this way. For example, I'm currently single, and there are a few girls that I'm talking too(early stages) that have a kid, and they seem to be more balanced, less drama, and easier/simpler to date. On the other hand there's a few that don't have any kids that I just cannot seem to get a handle on. They enjoy the attention and feed off of it. Especially if they are really good looking. Their more unwilling to be in a relationship because of the herd of guys that come at them. I'm 30 and I don't know whether I should just give the girl with the kid a chance or keep chasing the girl without one. Frustration.

Usually I'm an aggressive guy by nature, but I wanted to switch things up a bit and take things slow with this girl. I met this girl at my workplace(different locations), and we've been texting/calling for a few weeks. She flaked on me the first time we was suppose to chill but this time wanting to have dinner. So we did that, came back n chilled in my car n talked, then I dropped her off at her car. She initiated the hug and I was thinking about kissing her on her neck a few times, but I said to myself that I didn't wanna rush it wit this girl. We texted each other when we got home and both agreed to do it again, but I'm second guessing myself if I should have or not. Help me?

She works at my company(different location). We started flirting a few weeks back, and then exchange numbers last week. We went to lunch Saturday, and planned to hang out Sunday but she flaked on me. I notice since then she's been acting weird. She never hits me up first and today she had the nerve to ask me about one of my coworkers that I came with. She asked me his name(that's it). I'm thinkin this girl is a Maneater. I've heard from ppl that different guys bring her lunch trying to get with her. I guess I'm upset this type of thing can mess with a guys psyche. It's saying "I'm not good enough". The crazy thing is I havent been thirsty hitting her up a lot either. What is wrong here?

There's this new girl that I work with(different locations). I notice whenever I would come around she would flirt with me, I would catch her lookin at me sometimes. Finally we began talking not too long ago, and not long thereafter exchanged numbers. This past Saturday we went to lunch together, had a good time, and during that time decided to go out Sunday night. Never happened. I tried to call her Sunday afternoon and confirm but she kept acting like she was busy, and said she would get back too me after she had dinner with her "fam". Never happen. Around 11 I decided to text her "I'll cancel for u, have a goodnight". The next morning she text me this long message talking about how she was sorry and hoped she didn't come off as a**. I didn't respond quickly I decided to think about it. When I did respond I said it would have been cool if u would've let me know ahead of time that u couldn't make it, not the next day. Then I said, if u wanna get to know me going fwd, u have my number, hit me up and we'll set somethin up. Too me, that's now putting the ball in her court. Make her CHASE ME. Did I do the right thing here ladies? I can tell and I've heard this is a girl who likes guys to chase her, but I'm sorry, I'm not that kinda guy. I like to take charge and put my foot down.

Recently I've been talking to this girl that I work with(different locations). We went out for lunch on Saturday and while we were out made plans to go out Sunday night. I was sure we were going out so I canceled any other plans I had for that night. I waited til the afternoon to contact her to make sure things were a go and she didn't respond. Later that afternoon she called back and went on this tangent about how she was at some bar with a "friend" watching the football games. Okay, whatever, so we then tried to figure out what we were gonna do and decided to go bowling with a few of her friends. She said she had to make a few more stops first and then would "let me know" where n when to go. Never happened. All I received was a text in the evening saying "hey can I hit u up later I'm pulling up to dinner with my fam". After that nothing. After I realized that we weren't gonna do anything I sent her a text saying "I'll cancel for u, have a goodnight". This was around 11pm. I didn't want her to have the satisfaction of knowing I'm upset, but I did want her to know how wrong that is. I understand things come up, but have the respect and maturity to just tell someone u can't do it today, so that they can plan accordingly. I haven't heard from her since than, but pretty sure I will see her today or sometime this week. I won't act mad, but I will act like its no big deal and I don't care. If it comes too it, should I ever give her another chance??

I've been working at my job for 8 years, mainly doing warehouse work. I got promoted last August to Parts Sales, and I've been in training and on my own now since January. I've never been the most automotive savvy, but I knew that I was a quick learner. However, in this business, u can never learn too much. There is always things to learn. Everyone tells me I'm doing good, learning at a good rate, but sometimes when I can't find a part, a few of the mechanics have something smart to say. Keep in mind some of them have been doing this much much longer than me. Maybe it's just me, but if I knew someone just started a job and the learning curve is steep, I wouldn't make fun of them for not knowing as much as me. Everything takes time. I never frustration to them, but I admit it bothers me inside because I HATE when someone doubts me. This makes me want to prove them wrong and work even harder, but I'm only human. How should I handle this?

I recently started going back to the gym, and there's a new girl that works there. She's quiet and we didn't say much before until yesterday we got the talking. I wanted to find out if she had a bf, and she said she doesn't. Anyways after a while I kinda slick asked for her #. She wrote it down willingly so I was happy. I waited til today to contact her so when I did she asked who it was, and I told her "hey it's such n such from the gym". We texted back n forth one more time, and I told her that me being late for work yesterday was worth it because we wouldn't be talking now. Now, I don't think that's saying a lot. I just wanted her to know that I was happy we was talkin outside the gym. Well, that was the LAST I heard from her! I can see she read my message because both of us have iPhones. Now I'm just wondering what happen. I texted her one more time after that to see if she would respond, but she didn't. Why are girls so wishy washy? I'm not gonna be that guy to blow her phone up and continue pursuing when she isn't giving me anything. I'm just a little frustrated because as a guy u have to watch everything u say because it may throw the girl off. Should I try callin or leave it alone?

I recently started going back to the gym, and when I went I met a girl there who is a trainer. She seemed nice and interested, so I decided to ask her for her #. She gave it too me so I was happy. Couple days later I tried texting her, and while she replied, her answers were vague. Also, when I would see her in the gym I would be talking in a group, and she would come join but not say anything too me. I took this as a sign that she wasn't interested. No biggie. So there's ANOTHER really pretty girl that just started there. Me n her started talkin randomly one day and hit it off. We've been texting back n forth a lot lately and plan on going out soon. When the other girl found out, she got upset. The reason why I know this is because of the way she ignores me. My question to u woman is, WHY in the heck would she be mad when she clearly didn't like me like she led on? Obviously there is another guy, or two that u thought was better. Why be mad?

I like my job, don't get wrong here, but u ever have one of those coworkers who thinks they KNOW EVERYTHING!? This is what I have to deal with. This guy(also black) likes to remind me that I'm not "black enough". Tbh this is the first time I've had someone tell me this and it is confusing as to why another black man would say this too me. Is it jealousy? Hate? I always go back to something Chris Rock said: "Everytime a black man tries to do good, a ***** always has to come mess it up". I do believe this is true. We are our own worst enemy because we hate on each other more than other races do!

I just bought Madden 16 yesterday and I noticed that sometimes on defense the camera angle switches on its own to the player I'm controlling, and I'm facing the offense. This sucks because it's tricky turning different directions with the D-pad. Can I turn this off?

I was watching a candid interview with Trey Songz and I thought it was very interesting how he talked about the difference between being a regular guy vs a famous one. He said how there were woman that turned him down straight up when he wasn't famous yet, and how those same woman tried to get with him after they found out he became famous later on. But he said he remembered them and at that point turned them down. But I started thinkin what is it about a famous person that attracts groupies. Why would a girl turn u down when your a nobody but try to get with u when your a somebody..? Same features, same personality, same person. Is it the value that u hold? Is it because other woman want u?