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He went through my email & found a snippit of a convo that implied I'd cheat. My bf is aware that the guy has been a longtime friend & we've slept together many times. From the start, my bf (ex-I was ironically going to end it that night), didn't want me to talk to him(2yrs ago). The guy txted me in Feb this yr & we started again. For 1st few months, we talked about mundane things-family, TV, work. In the last couple months we hung out/had sex. All the while, I constantly deleted my msgs w/ him. It was so wrong I know. I know the pain I have brought into the relationship & how much I hurt my ex-bf. Now he is demanding to read my txts. I have deleted them but his friend is a programmer & claims he can get them. Not sure if he needs my phone or if his friend can do it without. Obviously if his friend can do it that way I can't stop it. But he is asking for me to say ok. He feels that he's got a right to know the truth & I should be the bigger person & allow him. I don't want to date him but I want to be a part of his life. If I don't say ok, he's threatened to cut me out. MOST of the msgs are just superficial-not sexually-related or graphic. Either way, I am going to hurt him. I feel that I'd rather hurt him by saying no & suffer the brunt of anger rather than freely offering access to my personal msgs. I think that's actually being the bigger person. His friends agree w/ him while mine agree w/ me. There're more details to the story but this is the basic gist. I need opinions.

I'm on a liquid diet but i'm allowed to have chicken and beef broth and occasionally chicken breast. what are some low-cal, low-carb, low-fat ways to zest up my menu? even with the broth.

I'm speaking on behalf of my mom. We have a lake house and my 16 year old brother always has a lot of friends up there. While my parents love having the kids up there, it can be expensive. My parents' are going to request the kids to bring some money to help out, but I'm looking for some other money saving tips. I've mentioned to them about going to cost-co and such, buying big things of easy mac and other stuff, but just seeing if anyone else has any random tips up their sleeve...

I haven't neutered my new male kitten (12 wks) and he is sharing a litter box with my other cat who is about 7 or 8 months old. Recently, the older cat started pooping near the litter box, but only at night. Is this because she is having to share the box with a male kitten? Will this stop once I get him neutered (which should be happening in the next month)? Should I get separate litter boxes until then?