Joanna

Hello, i have a step son, his name is Jack, 14 yo, he's a nice kid and we are get on with each other, me and his dad have been married since two years ago. Jack lives with us but he sometimes visits his mom.

Jack always wants me to get really close with his mom, i think he wants us to be BFF or somethin, Her mom sometimes visit us especially when he asked to. Jack always tries his best to get me and her together and whenever we meet, he always wants us to hug each other, so far we do what he wants.

For example, couple months ago, Jack asked her mom to visit us, when she arrived, Jack asked us to hug like always and this time he asked her to kiss my cheek, we were laughing, thought it was a joke but he really meant it, then she kissed my cheek, idk what to do so i kissed her cheek back, it was really awkward. After that, he asked us to watch TV together and he wanted us to hold each other's hand while watching TV

Well, actually i always feel awkward around Jack's mom, especially when Jack asked us to do thing that actually we don't want to do, he wants us to be romantic idk why. What should i do if u guys were me??

Thanks :)

hi i'm a 14 yrs old girl

me and my twin sister are growing up as a kisser family, we kiss each other on the lip since a very young age, i dunno exactly when but there's a photo of it when we were baby

now we are 14, and we still kiss, mostly when we finish our breakfast in the morning, my mom always asks us to kiss before we go to school, in the night before we go to sleep, we kiss again and it becomes a habbit. sometimes we only had a quick smooch n sometimes we had a long passionate kiss, depends on our mood

well.. is it ok if we still do it at this age?? is it still appropriate? should we stop or no?

cause now i feel no longer comfortable with it, it feels gross now but i dont want to tell my sister about this coz i'm afraid she will think that i dont love her anymore (i really love her so much, we rarely fight)

what should i do ??

hi i'm 15 years old girl,

i had a fight with my twin sister in winter 2012, it was a huge fight, that day i swore at her that i will always hate her till the end of time, then she wished i had never been born at all, we were so angry that time.

now is mid 2014, it's almost 2 years and we still don't speak at each other

i want to fix our relationship but i'm afraid she will ignore me if i talk to her, we live together with our parents, we are their only child, we sleep in a same room but different bed and it doesn't help our relationship

days ago i was taking a nap on my bed and woke up to my sister beside me, I pretended to stay asleep to see what she would do, she watched me sleep and touched my forehead softly then she left the room

so what does it mean u think?? is it a sign that she doesn't hate me anymore?

what should i do now? i miss her so much, i want to give her a hug and kiss, i swear i don't hate her anymore, i regret what i said but the question is does she feel the same?

Thanks before

i'm 34 years old mom, i have a son n he's 10 yrs old

it's been a six months that my son always asking me to kiss my sister (i have a sister, she's 32 yrs old)

my sister always visit my home constantly, we are very close to each other, one day when we were having a lunch at my home, my son asked me "mom why don't u kiss aunt on the lip?", i was shocked with that question, i said "what do u mean?", he replied "i wanna see mom and aunt kissing", my sister suddenly laughing so hard after hearing it

sometimes when me and my son are about to go to bed, he asked me "mom can u please kiss aunt? just once". i don't know why he wants it so bad, when i asked him why, he always replied "coz you both look same", "coz mom and aunt have a same lip" or "coz you both are old", i think it's a nonsense reasons

the other day when me and my sister were watching TV at home, my son came and asked me again to kiss her, he begged "plz just once", he sometimes asks my sister too to kiss me, but she's always laughing when hearing it and tell me that i have a funny cute son, she never takes it serious

i don't know what exactly happen to my son, is it because of what he's watching? so far he loves to watch cartoons like spongebob, oggy, garfield etc. he sometimes watch family guy, i have warned him not to watch it coz it's for adult

well, what should i do to solve this issue? i never get mad at my son with his request but i found it weird and i have to stop it? any ideas?

i'm women 35 years old and my sister 33

my kids are boys 8 and 11 years old

on saturday, my sister visited my home, everything went not good since i argued with her several days ago.

that day we argued (again) so much, she blamed me for some issue, but then i got upset and started yelling at her, she then put her forehead to mine and yelled back

suddenly all of my kids became silent and watched at us, but we didn't too care 'bout it n keep yelled at each other, her face was really close to mine, i annoyed with the way she yelled at me so i headbutted and slapped her, she slapped me back, then we starred at each other for a minutes long

after that, she came close to my face again, closer this time (i can even feel her breath) she pushed her nose to mine hardly, she swore at me that she will never come and see me again

then she looked at my kids, she hugged n kissed them, she said sorry to them for witnessing it, then she quickly stormed out. a moment later, i hugged n kissed my kids too, they keep askin me what happened but i told them that they better don't know

sorry if it's too long, my question is why should i do to make my kids not having a trauma after witnessing a fight? bcause they seem have a different behaviour after the incident, they love their aunt and they seem know that they will never see her again, so what should i do with this situation ?

P.S : i still piss off with my sister and dont think about fixing our relationship this time