My 10 years old son keep asking me to kiss my sister, what have happened to him? and what should i do?

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i'm 34 years old mom, i have a son n he's 10 yrs old

it's been a six months that my son always asking me to kiss my sister (i have a sister, she's 32 yrs old)

my sister always visit my home constantly, we are very close to each other, one day when we were having a lunch at my home, my son asked me "mom why don't u kiss aunt on the lip?", i was shocked with that question, i said "what do u mean?", he replied "i wanna see mom and aunt kissing", my sister suddenly laughing so hard after hearing it

sometimes when me and my son are about to go to bed, he asked me "mom can u please kiss aunt? just once". i don't know why he wants it so bad, when i asked him why, he always replied "coz you both look same", "coz mom and aunt have a same lip" or "coz you both are old", i think it's a nonsense reasons

the other day when me and my sister were watching TV at home, my son came and asked me again to kiss her, he begged "plz just once", he sometimes asks my sister too to kiss me, but she's always laughing when hearing it and tell me that i have a funny cute son, she never takes it serious

i don't know what exactly happen to my son, is it because of what he's watching? so far he loves to watch cartoons like spongebob, oggy, garfield etc. he sometimes watch family guy, i have warned him not to watch it coz it's for adult

well, what should i do to solve this issue? i never get mad at my son with his request but i found it weird and i have to stop it? any ideas?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Put a parental block on your television. You're his mother; no one else is going to raise him the way you want him to be raised.
You don't have to get angry, but you must tell him sternly that you do not want him asking that question. In fact, tell him it's bad to ask for such a thing. If you don't discipline him, he's not going to see anything wrong with it and may continue to go along such a path. You're his mom; act like it.

TroubledGirl · Answer

He probably saw some "cartoons" (dirty anime) and it was about incest. Or it was just Family Guy. Family Guy is NOT by any means for children. I'm 13, and I don't watch family guy because I saw an episode but it was too much. Parent Block on your television is great. When he gets older he will figure out how to get through it though. DO NOT kiss your sister on the lips just because he asked. You could ruin the close bond between you and your sister.

ohshyte · Answer

I know this is old question but....tell you sister to stop laughing at him.  This is not the way you want him to be raised then she shouldn't be encouraging it.  As for your son, he is probably just curious. Like someone else said just tell him sisters don't kiss on the lips.  But if your sister keeps laughing tell her to stop. If she don't stop or just brushes you off then she can't come over any more if she won't respect the rules of your house or the way you want your son raised.

Josh S · Answer

I think a 10 year old asking something like that doesn't imply anything bad.  I mean, we all said weird things as children, that is why you should take what they said with a grain of salt.  I would just explain to him that you do not kiss your sister on the lips like that, and if he continues to push it, help him to understand that just because HE wants YOU to do something, that doesn't mean what HE wants is right or that YOU will do it.

Joanna · Answer

thanks for the answers, i will try that Parental Block as you guys tell sooner.. well i will try to give my son a long detailed advice perhaps n sometimes i feel bad to my sister coz she seems uncomfortable with it, i won't kiss her of course, but what should i do to make my sister comfort again? cause she seems afraid that i will do what my son asked

Anonymous · Answer

kiss her on the lips 2 times in front of him so he can watch you kiss

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