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please anyone who can help?
I have been separated from my husband for 5 yrs now,we have 2 kids the first 6 months of the separation was due to domestic violence against me so the judge ordered supervised visits for him ,gave me temp custody and made him pay child support for 6 months and told us both to get attorneys to handle it after that well we never did he paid the support for 6 months and then it got sporadic until he met his now girlfriend and he has not paid support in 4 yrs but i still let him see the kids if and when he did show up because they loved him sometimes he would not call or show for months,he has been homeless through ten jobs and now has 2 babies to care for w/ new gf well this spring break after he knew I spent all my tax money on getting my kids new beds and clothes because he doesn't support them he ask if he could get them for the week so I said yes he said they would be in town at his sister well the next day dss showed up to investigate me for being on drugs and a pigstye house well they saw my house was spotless and I passed my test well he has taken them 5 hours away same st s.c. away gotten an attorney has them out of school they are all honor students and wont let me have them back,the one time he did let them call they begged me to get them , I have no money for a lawyer I pay my bills and have raised this kids on my own I make to much for legal aid forty dollars to much but not enough money to give a lawyer thousands of dollars and yes I did call and beg and all i hear is sorry we cant help please some one tell me how to fight this I also have 2 older kids 12 and 14 i don't know where he has them I am helpless and desperate the law says we are both custodial parents and decide in court but they have lived w/ me for 5 yrs and he just ups and takes them
They are 6 and 7,social services is on my side but we cant find him to serve him with truancy papers much less anything else,I called every family law lawyer they all say it cost any where from three to five thousand............. thanks for the support but I think it is going to take a miracle at this point
8 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade agoI DESPERATLY NEED HELP AND ADVICE?
I desperatly need help or advice?
I am in desperate need of help?
I have been separated from my husband for 5 yrs now,we have 2 kids the first 6 months of the separation was due to domestic violence against me so the judge ordered supervised visits for him ,gave me temp custody and made him pay child support for 6 months and told us both to get attorneys to handle it after that well we never did he paid the support for 6 months and then it got sporadic until he met his now girlfriend and he has not paid support in 4 yrs but i still let him see the kids if and when he did show up because they loved him sometimes he would not call or show for months,he has been homeless through ten jobs and now has 2 babies to care for w/ new gf well this spring break after he knew I spent all my tax money on getting my kids new beds and clothes because he doesn't support them he ask if he could get them for the week so I said yes he said they would be in town at his sister well the next day dss showed up to investigate me for being on drugs and a pigstye house well they saw my house was spotless and I passed my test well he has taken them 5 hours away same st s.c. away gotten an attorney has them out of school they are all honor students and wont let me have them back,the one time he did let them call they begged me to get them , I have no money for a lawyer I pay my bills and have raised this kids on my own I make to much for legal aid forty dollars to much but not enough money to give a lawyer thousands of dollars and yes I did call and beg and alll i hear is sorry we cant help please some one trll me how to fight this I also have 2 older kids 12 and 14 i don't know where he has them I am helpless and desperate
4 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade agoi desperatly need help or advice?
I am in desperate need of help?
I have been separated from my husband for 5 yrs now,we have 2 kids the first 6 months of the separation was due to domestic violence against me so the judge ordered supervised visits for him ,gave me temp custody and made him pay child support for 6 months and told us both to get attorneys to handle it after that well we never did he paid the support for 6 months and then it got sporadic until he met his now girlfriend and he has not paid support in 4 yrs but i still let him see the kids if and when he did show up because they loved him sometimes he would not call or show for months,he has been homeless through ten jobs and now has 2 babies to care for w/ new gf well this spring break after he knew I spent all my tax money on getting my kids new beds and clothes because he doesn't support them he ask if he could get them for the week so I said yes he said they would be in town at his sister well the next day dss showed up to investigate me for being on drugs and a pigstye house well they saw my house was spotless and I passed my test well he has taken them 5 hours away same st s.c. away gotten an attorney has them out of school they are all honor students and wont let me have them back,the one time he did let them call they begged me to get them , I have no money for a lawyer I pay my bills and have raised this kids on my own I make to much for legal aid forty dollars to much but not enough money to give a lawyer thousands of dollars and yes I did call and beg and alll i hear is sorry we cant help please some one trll me how to fight this I also have 2 older kids 12 and 14 i don't know where he has them I am helpless and desperate
2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade agowho here has been to the bahamas?
I am going for the first time and I was wondering how good are the sopping deals really on the island, I am wanting to do christmas shopping there but it is so close o christmas I am scared to depend on the trip to find all my gifts but everyone says they have name brand purses,perfume and jewelry for very cheap.Is this true or would I be better off shopping here in the states before my trip
6 AnswersBahamas1 decade agoHow does Workman's comp work? what is the process,How long does iit take to get a check ?
and what is payment amount based on. What should we be doing to protecting our self
2 AnswersInsurance1 decade agoI am looking for a free program to download ?
that remembers your everyday info like name address birthdate,I am trying to do surveys at home and I get sick of typing in the same answers and I know there is something I can put on my com. to remember it for me so I dont have to type it thanks
9 AnswersSoftware1 decade agoExplain the rapture or the end of time to me.......christain point of veiw please?
I have read through the King James version of revalations but I did not understand it very well and then I did a internet search but there are way to many points of view and now I am more confused than ever so I thought I would ask here .What verses directly talk about this ,when do you think(in your opinion) that the time will come and what really take place and what does the mark of the beast have to do with this?My kids are asking me all the things and I want to tell them the right thing.
14 AnswersReligion & Spirituality1 decade agomarijuana and severe pain?
I am a 34 yr old mom of 2 who has has 2 spinal disc fusion surgeries and I am llooking at another one here soon,I AM ON EVERY PAIN MED KNOWN TO MAN and nothing really works all I do is sleep a little.I have never done illegal drugs but ai am gonsidering this but I dont know if it really helps pain and also I am not a smoker is there another way to injest it besides smoking it,Only serious answers please because I really do need help with this thanks I just want to be able to spend time wiyh kids and not hurt so much they arny getting any younger
13 AnswersPain & Pain Management1 decade agomarijuana and pain relief?
I am a 34 yr old mom of 2 who has has 2 spinal disc fusion surgeries and I am llooking at another one here soon,I AM ON EVERY PAIN MED KNOWN TO MAN and noyhing really works all I do is sleep a little.I have never done illegal drugs but ai am gonsidering this but I dont know if it really helps pain and also I am not a smoker is there another way to injest it besides smoking it,Only serious answers please because I really do need help with this yhanks
7 AnswersPain & Pain Management1 decade agoHow to talk to 13 year old son about masturbation?
Ok this is new territory for me and I could really use some input on this.My son is 13 ,going through puberty,very emotional and frustrated.He was a straight a student ,never got angry,very outgoing but since he hit puberty all that has changed and I know it is most likely hormonal .He gets very embarrassed if I try to talk to him about sex or even body changes but I am wondering if he ever masturbate and if not should I tell him he needs to try it maybe it would relieve some of his tension and frustration.But why boy wants to talk to his mom about this.I dont want to talk with him about it but I want to help him and for him to know he can come to me about anything and not be ashamed thanks in advance for all your help!!!
21 AnswersAdolescent1 decade agomy daughter has to make her own music video for video prod. at school.What are funny songs she could choose?
it has to be a real published song by a real artist
10 AnswersCountry1 decade agodisc therapy?
Has any one her ever had disc force therapy and if so how did it work for you?
1 AnswerAlternative Medicine1 decade agoneed you help with teens room?
we live in a mobile home and it has ugly paneling and flowered print on the rest of the wall painting over this in not a option, we tried painting paneling it did not look nice we could tear it out and sheet rock but that is way to costly and we have never done it, WE were thinking of covering the walls with fabric and using tacks covered with buttons to hold it up and cork board on one wall .What do you all think?so any help or suggestions would be great.
1 AnswerDecorating & Remodeling1 decade agowe want to remodel my teens room but......?
we live in a moble home and it has ugly panleing and flowered pringd on the reast of the wall painting over this in cot a opion,we coulf tear it out and sheetrock but that is wat to costly and we have never done it, WEwere thinking od covering the walls with fabric and cork board so any help or suggestions would be great.
4 AnswersDecorating & Remodeling1 decade agoYou all HAVE to READ this ......it is HORRIBLE?
WELLINGTON, New Zealand — A New Zealand mother who needed an electric oxygen pump to breathe died after an energy company cut the power to her home due to an unpaid bill, her family claimed Wednesday.Police said they launched an investigation into the death of Folole Muliaga, 44, on Tuesday, in the northern city of Auckland, which happened within hours of state-owned company Mercury Energy cutting power to her house Mercury general manager, James Moulder, said the company was devastated by the woman's death and was conducting its own investigation to determine what happened.He refused to say how much money Muliaga had owed the companyMuliaga, a schoolteacher with four children ages 5 to 20, had been off work since February with an illness when a Mercury Energy rep arrived on Tuesday to cut the electricity, said Sheehan, a nephew of uliaga's.
and her son told the technician she was dependent on the oxygen machine to live but he cut the power and left ,911 was called she but she died
10 AnswersLaw & Ethics1 decade agoquestion about mp3 players?
my son is 12 and he wants a mps player but he hasnt shown me he is responsible enough to keep up with something so small so I dont want to spend a lot of money on this till he shows me he can keep up with it.Will some one tell me if the 2 gb is good enough for him it says it plays 18 hours so does that mean 18 hours of songs or is that battery life? I want him to have alot of songs but I dont think he needs 10,000 songs.Please tell mw which you all would reccomend for him thanks
12 AnswersOther - Electronics1 decade agoI need help changing last name .......legally?
My husband and I were going to go on a cruise this summer so we had to get a copy of his birth cirtificate for a passport. He has never had a copy himself.When he applied they told him that the last name he has used for his whole life is not his real last name,he went to school ,was in the marine corp ,and we got married under this name .His grandparents raised him under their last name which is his mothers maiden name.But his bith certificate says his mothers first married name. The vital records office says we have to go to court to get a legal name change to keep the same last name he has always had.A lawyer says it will be 2500.00 for him to do it which we do not have .The court says we can do it without a lawyer but they can not give us legal advice on how to do it..So can anyone tell me how to do this on our own,We do not have much money .Both his grandparents have past away as well as a attoreny they may have used. The state does not show a legal adoption under this name.
3 AnswersLaw & Ethics1 decade agoHELP!!!I need some suggestions?
My daughters birthday is in march she is going to be 15 and want o have a party ...We had water damage in our home so we have been redoing one room at a time and will not be done by her birthday...My budget for her party is aboult three hundred dollers.what can you do for a teen for that much?Most all her friend parents have alot of money so they have all been having big parties. We are on a tight budget right now for I have been out of work for 3 months and we are trying to redo a house.She is a great student, a excellent help at home and she desearves somthing nice. So any suggestions would be greatly appreciated...
17 AnswersParenting1 decade agoIs there a program that let me see where my child goes internet?
I need a free one any suggestions
8 AnswersParenting1 decade agoI posted this yesterday but I would like more imput frome people of all race please?
Someone sent this to my daughter and now she wants me to explain to her why it is this way how do I properly?
You call me "Cracker", "Honkey", "Whitey", "Gringo" and you think it's OK.
But when if I call you Kike, porch monkey, sand ni**er, rag head ,Towelhead, WOP, Camel Jockey, ****, slant eyes, yellowskinned, blackie or Chink you call me a racist.
You say that whites commit a lot of violence against you, so why are the ghettos the most dangerous places to live?
You have the United ***** College Fund.
You have Martin Luther King Day.
You have Black History Month.
You have Cesar Chavez Day.
You have Yom Hashoah
You have Ma'uled Al-Nabi
You have the NAACP.
You have BET.
You have the NCAA.
If we had WET(white entertainment television) ...we'd be racist.
If we had a White Pride Day... you would call us racist.
If we had white history month... we'd be racist.
If we had an organization for only whites to "advance" our lives... we'd be racist.
If we had a college fund that only gave white students scholarships...you know we'd be racist.
In the Million Man March, you believed that you were marching for your race and rights. If we marched for our race and rights...you would call us racist.
Did you know that some high school students decided to make a club for only the white students because the other ethnicities had them... they all got sent to court for being racist but the african-american, Latino, and Asia clubs were not even questioned.
-You are proud to be black, brown, yellow and orange, and you're not afraid to announce it. But when we announce our white pride, you call us racists.
I am white.
I am proud.
But, you call me a racist.
Why is it that only whites can be racists?
Now watch, I'll be a racist for posting this
17 AnswersParenting1 decade ago