yoyoma

It seems systematic. Is this done in gay clubs or something? It also seems to be a fairly recent trend in the last couple years. There have been others I have noticed that seem to come and go. This one is fading a bit now too. Just curious.

My roommate told me to "get her off his back". He was seeing someone else at the time and has repeatedly told me he's not interested in her and has stopped communicating with her. She kept propositioning him all summer while she was with me. I started to get suspicious and asked her and she finally admitted it. Then I asked him and he confirmed it, but says he doesn't want to be made a go-between. I haven't been doing that. He's an honest guy, but he also has beliefs that it's okay to pounce on the girl in a relationship if there's a chance to steal. But he said he wouldn't do that in this case and that he's not interested in her. She's very attractive and intelligent and gets a lot of attention wherever she goes. She also likes to absorb herself in conversation with strange guys when we go to bars or wherever. She says she likes learning about things from new people. Combined with the other situation, it made me jealous because she would involve me and would actively shut me out of the conversation (something she denies). Now our sex life has gone downhill because I've lost the feeling I had for her. She's going on the pill soon, so that might rejuvenate things. I just dumped her (again), but she called (again) and I took her back (again). My expectations have severely lowered though. Is there any way to shake her from this other guy? They are totally incompatible. Both of them are controlling and hard-headed and they would hate each other. But that's neither her nor there. They do click in conversation (mostly he talks and she listens). He's kind of a strange duck. He likes to catch-and-release women. I think he's bi (something he's hinted at many times) and might be into me and might have been staging this whole thing. He denies any involvement, but I happened to see that he sends her these fish things in this Facebook application. My gf says that he probably just sends it out to everyone. But he should know not to do that to her and to take her off the list, but he tells me that he's not going to treat her any differently at all. He totally absorbed her in conversation this summer, even though he said he wasn't interested and then said that he doesn't care that she's interested, he's not going to change his behavior. He likes to monologue on people and have them listen. Anyway, there's tons more to it. Any advice on how to win her over is appreciated. Every time I break up with her, she seems to want me more (for awhile). She just moved here and doesn't have many friends.