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Two days before thanksgiving I called this man that I was intrested in and we started seeing each other, I felt that we connected in a very special way and he even commented on how rare it is for two people to connect to each other in the way that we did. I had just ended a 11 year relationship with a man whom for the past 8 years was more of a friend and roomate than lover. If we had sex once a year I considered myself lucky. He would never explain to me why he did not want sex. I was very happy and felt whole once again in my life. My former live in found out about it and verbally attacked each of us, myself and the new man I connected with. The former and the new man knew each other. I question how well since the new man knew my former live in by his nickname but did not know his real name until just last Saturday. I am really upset with the situation and the new man no longer wants to see me. I miss him a bunch. I thought for sure he was the one for me. What can I do to get us back

Two days before thanksgiving I called this man that I was intrested in and we started seeing each other, I felt that we connected in a very special way and he even commented on how rare it is for two people to connect to each other in the way that we did. I had just ended a 11 year relationship with a man whom for the past 8 years was more of a friend and roomate than lover. If we had sex once a year I considered myself lucky. He would never explain to me why he did not want sex. I was very happy and felt whole once again in my life. My former live in found out about it and verbally attacked each of us, myself and the new man I connected with. The former and the new man knew each other. I question how well since the new man knew my former live in by his nickname but did not know his real name until just last Saturday. I am really upset with the situation and the new man no longer wants to see me. I miss him a bunch. I thought for sure he was the one for me. What can I do to get us back

I have lived with a man for 11 years, the first year was good. The second and third not as good as the first. But the past 8 years this man has refused to have sexual relations with me to where we only have sex maybe once a year. What could the problem be? We have ended our relationship. When I moved on and he found out he called me all sorts of filthy names and said that I was dead to him. This man was my bestfriend for 11 years and now he acts like I am dirt. He is going around and putting me down to our friends and calling me a tramp, whore ect. I did not have sexual relations with anyone else until after our relationship ended. So why would someone act like this. It is obivious to me that he does not want me so why is he such a dirtball that he resents me moving on with my life with other people.

What would you do? I lived with this man for 11 years, the last eight years we were lucky to have sexual relations once a year. He left me the third week of October. The middle of November I started seeing other people. One of whom was a friend of his, though I use the term loosely as the man did not even know his first name, only his nickname. My former live in finds out I am seeing this person and becomes angry and verbally abusive to me and the man I am seeing. The man I was seeing stated he was going to cool it, which to me was just another way of stating we were done. I feel like my former live in acted in a manner he had no right to as he walked out on me. So why was he angry and how do I pay him back for his evil deed. I am very hurt and angry at my former live in and my most recent lover for their actions. How would you react? What actions would you take in reguard to them both? I am very hurt. and very angry.

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