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barbara o
barbara o asked in Society & CultureCultures & GroupsLesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender · 1 decade ago

Need help, don't want to loose this new relationship.?

Two days before thanksgiving I called this man that I was intrested in and we started seeing each other, I felt that we connected in a very special way and he even commented on how rare it is for two people to connect to each other in the way that we did. I had just ended a 11 year relationship with a man whom for the past 8 years was more of a friend and roomate than lover. If we had sex once a year I considered myself lucky. He would never explain to me why he did not want sex. I was very happy and felt whole once again in my life. My former live in found out about it and verbally attacked each of us, myself and the new man I connected with. The former and the new man knew each other. I question how well since the new man knew my former live in by his nickname but did not know his real name until just last Saturday. I am really upset with the situation and the new man no longer wants to see me. I miss him a bunch. I thought for sure he was the one for me. What can I do to get us back

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  • Georgia Peach
    1 decade ago
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    sugar, if its meant to be it'll happen but it may not be. you'll find the PERFECT somebody one day.GOOD LUCK & GOD BLESS!

  • PAXson
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    First send him a card or something as a peace offering. Then try to talk to him, ask him what was it all about. How did they got to know each other. What other information did you miss. Explain also your side of the story. After a week or so if he does not want to talk to you and makes it real clear, then I suggest you stop being a drama queen and move on. Sometimes it is hard for us to let go but if you don't it will drive you crazy. Find other ways to occupy yourself. Get a hobby, do something that you always wanted to do (vacation), go out with friends and have fun (legal and wholesome) I hope you find a guy that would truly complete you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I dont get why the guy stopped talking to you? Did he think that you and your ex were still involved or did he just figure that you were too much trouble since that incident happened so early on? Just call him and tell him that you cant stop thinking about him and it would be a pleasure to be able to go out again even if its as friends.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Look it wasnt meant to happen. And if the new guy believed what your old livein said then he's shallow be glad hes gone

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  • shaypa
    1 decade ago

    idk

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