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This is just an outlet, so please ignore this question if you don't want to hear this.

Just need an outlet and this is not something I'd want the mother to see. Facebook could get a bit over drama. That's the last thing any of my children need. Also I guess I know here it won't make it far.

Lost my daughter. In the means that well, I'll never get to know her. It turns out fathers have no rights to their children if the mother never tells them about it.

I've burned over 3 grand on lawyers and consultations. All with the same answer nothing can be done.

I have a daughter that is now 12... And well. She'll never know me. She lives with adoptive parents, her mother gave her up without me knowing and well I find out 10 years later... Life sucks...

My hearts in pain guess just needed an outlet.

If you got this far thank you. Your heart and soul mean so much to me.

I may never know you... But know your loved.

I really have no where to go. I'm told that I've lost all chance of knowing my daughter. This sinks my heart farther than it has felt in a while.

Her mother put her up for adoption when she was born, and another man sign off as the father, and because she never told me i never had the chance to Contest. I'm being told to talk to a lawyer about this. And we'll they are all telling me nothing can be done. I'm not sure how much more I'd lose but because I have other daughters now I don't have the luxury of dropping every penny into lawyers fees.

Not asking for money nor anything but your ears. Or eyes, huh... I still have bad jokes with these tears.

Its a cruel world out there. Women can be more abusive to men with morals. I grew up thinking women have more morals than men, but it turns out I just thought they had better morals. It's not about the sex on abuse it's about who has more morals. For if you do have more, you'll be abused far more than those without any.

I'm not a great husband ex wife can vouch for it, but it's because instead of time on her I devoted more time to my children.

I live for them, and now I'm being told I have no rights because I am a man to be a parent of the women states it.

Well if you got this far, you don't know how thankful I am you read this. I may not know you but you have my love, and I wish you better life than I have, as a part of me will always be missing, one that I'll never know.

Okay to start off NO answers like “reincarnation is not real” answers. That is not the question.

Simply: If* it was real, then what if the rule are not the Reverse but That which benefited the least from your life.

1. You will live your next life based on the type of people that benefited the least from your life now.

Would you change your perspective any?

How would you change?

What would you do differently?

What would you focus on more?

Examples: The rich business man that came to power by running over the “weak”; would be in the next life, the child of one of those ran over families.

Athlete -> the nerdy kid you picked on

Nerdy kid that invents a computer company -> poverty kid that is ruined by your greed

Murder -> a victims loved one

Celebrity - > a person that longs to be like you and is ripped of all talents.

You try to live life alone a poor so next life you are rich and many love ones. -> You are the one looking for love in a medium income with you always in dead relationships because your mate decided to focus on next life.

Weakness, intelligence, wealth would not be factors, just the person that benefited least from your life.

Been told that a lifestyle of living without intent is annoying.

Pros

Don't ever get disappointed

Accept things as they come

Easier to listen to people

Embarrassing the moment easier

No ignorance

No prejudiced

No desire to live to others expectations

Easier of being ones self

Cons

Well, I can't think of any. But that's where you would come in Provide your list email me if you would like clarity on any above Pros.

Don't get me wrong Goals are there, but they are subject to change if the path states it, as without intent all you can really do is let the waves take you where they may. With patients a the waves take you to the next step, so when you see it take it.

I recently had an epiphany.

As I was looking in the mirror I notice that without a type of mirror I would never be able to see my face. A regular mirror does not show who I am inside so I wanted to see one aspect of me, but how to do it.

So know to see myself I need to start small, I choose Annoyance.

Why annoyance? simply because it is something that I have always had a hard time with, I can't think of anything that annoys me, nor could I find an annoying thing about anyone. I understand what annoying means, just for me I don't see it.

So, How Annoying am I?

I asked this to many people and they all said I was not at all except when I ask weird questions like this one.

I don't see this question as annoying.

Then I ask what other things are annoying, they listed many things, and people, even reason why they are annoying, but I did not agree, I explained why they do it, and it makes sense that they behave that way. They saw it too, but still found it annoying.

I have found because I cannot see annoyance anywhere, I must be the cause of all annoyance based on the mirror effect or I am the most annoying person in the world. Everyone (my surveyed group) is seeing Annoyance, as they would all see my face, and they can see annoyance in other things that would reflect my face, I would not recognize it as my doing as I do not see myself. OR I cannot see annoyance as I cannot see my own face. (without the use of a mirror)

Hench, I am only what the can see and I cannot see.

I was in a relationship 10 years ago, and we were tiring to conceive a child. I was never clear on why she broke it up with me, but she ended it. I did not fight back or anything, if you truly love them let them go. So I did. Recently it came to my attention that 8 months after it ended she had a daughter.

I had moved on and have children of my own. I love them with all my heart and soul, but I find myself with the fact that my first born is really maybe my second.

I don’t know how to feel about this. I long to know if she is my daughter or if she was cheating on me… I doubt she did, we had something really good, I may never truly know. She post pictures of her now on Facebook, but does not replay at all when I send her messages wanting to know more, but I know she is a good person. Really confused about everything…

She let her go through adoption.

My Answer is to confirm DNA wise we are related, and then if so establish a relationship. She’ll have my love from the start; the rest is getting back years I will never be able to.

My family and friends say let it go…

I was in a relationship 10 years ago, and we were tiring to conceive a child. I was never clear on why she broke it up with me, but she ended it. I did not fight back or anything, if you truly love them let them go. So I did. Recently it came to my attention that 8 months after it ended she had a daughter.

I had moved on and have children of my own. I love them with all my heart and soul, but I find myself with the fact that my first born is really maybe my second.

I don’t know how to feel about this. I long to know if she is my daughter or if she was cheating on me… I doubt she did, we had something really good, I may never truly know. She post pictures of her now on Facebook, but does not replay at all when I send her messages wanting to know more, but I know she is a good person. Really confused about everything…

My Answer is to confirm DNA wise we are related, and then if so establish a relationship. She’ll have my love from the start; the rest is getting back years I will never be able to.

My family and friends say let it go…

Which would you do? and why

Pole taking for research project.

Living in the moment, for researchers brings the most happiness mainly because it does not stress you out with events that don't exist yet, or are undetermined

Living in the future, provides more stress as if things don't go out exactly (which they hardly do) then most get picky about how bad it went.

Example to work with

Buying Ice Cream at a new location and new brand name.

You have a friend that will be eating with you. But they never order first.

Rules:

no sampling, only enough for one ice cream, no sharing.

Moment: For those that live in the moment.

Chocolate!

And they enjoy it.

Planner: Those that plan

Which should I get, I always enjoy Chocolate but some locations make it too sweet, or not sweet enough. You can't go wrong with Vanilla. Most places make the same way, but what if I get Vanilla and my friend gets chocolate and enjoys it I would be missing out. (you know the rest if you are this type)

So first of all, Which are you "Moment" or "Planner". Which would do you think is better to be?

(Question is designed for Black White answers no grey thoughts please)

When Teaching something to someone without a sense of the subject how would you go about teaching it. For example. Teach your Nose to See. The Sense of the Nose is not designed to see, so

----How would you go about teaching it?----

My goal is to show some one the essence of energy, and how to be aware of it, yet they have never trained this part of them, so currently it is dormant. This may be a grasping at impossible.

Thank you for your time

I've notice people confuse these two words.

They say its not a perfect drawing of an Apple, that makes sense.

You are not a perfect person, confusing...

My drawing is being compared to the concept of apple, and if does not meet all the criteria then yes I would agree I can't draw an apple.

Now you are not a perfect person... what are you being compared to? Is there somewhere in the universe that represents a perfect person... And if so is it fair that I was not born with the attributes to be perfect, and IF you say I was and I choose not to be, then ask was I really created without flaws as I can think of a Flaw....

Rather I say, I compare you to you. and not you where you will be and not you where you were, but just you.

I completed a jigsaw puzzle and had the perfect piece to finish it with, as it fit in the last spot, like it was designed with the curves and groves to.

You are like a puzzle piece. what others see as flaws, they do because it does not fit in their ideal way. But find you place in life, and you'll realize how perfect you really are.

Your thoughts please on this.

Sin is the doing of wrong as a G-d has stated. (really doesn't matter the religion) and if you argue it does, well, hahaha your really missed the point.

G-d created all of existance. (again if your g-d or view of g-d did not, then it is not as powerful as one that does.)

A creator would create something exactly the way they want to, and if I was without flaw, then everything I make would be without flaw.

Hence, how can something a flawless G-d Create be flawed, If you can clarify why you are imperfect, then Please do so, As I see it You are perfectly You. as you where created in your own specifications. and what others see as design miss ups is just your edge of the puzzle piece. just need to find a good fit.

Don't get me wrong I love to get to know people, but why do people ask the stupid questions? ASL or Where do you live? it makes no since to ask off the bat as it lets you know little to nothing meaningful about the other person.

Scenario:

You find yourself in a space of nothingness except for two doors.

And you see a guard in front of each door.

As you walk closer there is a sign that reads.

“The Doors ahead are the ones to Heaven and Hell. Once you open the door you will be sent there. You may not go close to the door until you have made your decision. You may ask the One Guard a question before proceeding”

The fine print reads

One Guard will always lie

On Guard will always be truthful

The doors have no labels and look exactly the same.

Which question do you ask?

(For those that have heard this riddle, DON’T ANSWER! I am looking for originality. )

You are a healer, and gifted in curing illness that no other can. You promote peace, and unity.

A warrior is brought to you to heal, no other can. This warrior slaughters for fun, and cares little about values, other than their own survival.

There are two questions

1) Would you heal them or let them pass?

To those that choose heal - You have aided someone that goes against your values, You will be responsible for their actions as you could have prevented them from it.

To those that choose let pass - You have let some one pass, that you could have healed. Now you have gone against your values and have condemned some one to die at your hand.

2) Validate your choice

You found a relic that would allow you to know everything about one thing.

The one thing can be anything from what a seed to the universe knowledge.

Here is the kicker, you had to lose all Knowledge of one thing and everything associated with it.

Which one thing would you want to know and which would you like to lose?

Given that you will have all the same knowledge as you do now.

In the future you my be thought of as dumb as education standards may have increased.

In the past you may be a genius yet without today's luxuries.

What would you do, who would you meet, why that time?

I google them and they say different things I would like to know which means "like always."