Xavier

gone out once or twice, she usually suggest we do something and I agree and then she cancels ... It's very frustrating if I were the one offering I wouldn't get upset... I'd just be like she doesn't really like me. Well, this is a different one... Nonetheless, I am thinking maybe I need to let this one loose. What you think?

Especially , when it comes to social relationships that don't fit easily into in analytical frame work. Sometimes I think I might even need to be medicated.

Like after she gets home from it, even though there was no :-) does that mean anything or am I over analyzing it?

What about it attracts you to it?

Is it my good looks or my charm?

Would I be familiar with you, and how did you get into what your doing? And will you give me money? Lol just kidding unless you want to? Your rich right?

I have been talking to girls and joking around and stuff, and I'm wondering if some of these girls like me. Like, know and kind of talk to then and they give me free stuff. Free drinks , free sandwiched, extra pizza. They all work at different places. It's a bit confusing, because I've spent years not letting people really get to know my personality and I always thought people wouldnt like me. Do you think these girls like me?

so, she text me first, and then we talked a little, but nothing much and when we do talk she tends to send me pics of herself. (nothing sexual, just different pics of herself) what confuses me is , does she just send pics to everyone or just me? she is very pretty, this makes it more confusing. Maybe this is just something pretty girls do. i don't know.. she's is what i would consider to be waay out of my league... so... i don't know just would like some feed back.

thanks.

We talk or whatever anyway... Today, we finally got to actually talk talk. She knows I went to an event and them she asked if I asked friends from our school to that event. I didn't bc I don't know people from our school well enough to do that and then she mentioned a girl whom we both know ... I said that this girl was interesting, but I didn't mean it in a positive way, which I thought was clear from the sound of my voice. I meant it in a neutral way. Although, it may have come across as rude. We both know the girl. Anyway, a little while said I'm gonna head out,but it was so abrupt. Did I screw up somewhere? Am I over thinking it? I'm so confused.

I am 27 and I attract 18-24 yrs and 30-37yr olds. That 25 to 29 gap seems to really dislike me? Wtf?

Even if you don't compliment them? And just notice?

Like.. I've had girls that work at places buy me coke or charge me for a small when I got a large or find ways to get something for me cheaper or giving extra something that I like. All I do is talk listen make them laugh... Why be so nice back? I mean can't they get in trouble when they are giving discounts and giving you free shi*