Lara

Lol I have an outfit in mind (dark kinda ripped jean shorts and a tank) but still want some ideas on accessories cause I know my shoes too (black wedge sneakers) I mean I love my outfit but I need accessorieeeeeeees

Ok so I have a group of best friends on one side (let's call them Side A) and another best friend on the other side (let's call her Side B). Side A I've been with since I was in first grade, and Side B I've been with since we were babies, and our moms were like that too. This you may not think it's sensible, but I'm close to both sides equally. Maybe you may think that I should be closer with Side B but trust me I'm equally close with both sides and they love me so much too so I don't think that that should affect your decision. Anyways, on my birthday party in first or second grade, both sides were there and they kind of got in a minor fight because they both wanted me to be with them. Side B was a little bit weaker since she was only one person, but nobody lost or won so that's not very important. Since then both sides haven't really liked each other that much; as far as I remember they never met or even if they did they probably didn't get in a fight again because I don't remember. However, when somebody asks me who my true BFF/BFFs are, I struggle to answer because I don't know which side to say! What do you think? I never want to really make a choice between the two sides, and maybe I even should'nt?

P.S.: Here are some extra information about the sides, so that you can decide better:

Side A: It consists of 3 people. One of them is truly one of my best friends, a bit more than the other ones, but still I extremely love the other ones and the other ones extremely love me back.

Side B: Even our mothers have been best friends since they were babies, like us, so we basically share anything with each other. We even once stole something from a toy store together when we were younger.

I'm not sure if there are any good movies on TV tonight (I'll check) but still even when there is a good movie sometimes I get bored. We have a lot of DVDs but we don't have a DVD player because my dad insisted that we get a hard disk and put all the films and new ones too there but he still hasn't got it in 10 months. Lol. Anyways, I get really bored at home quite quickly after a long time and today I'm probably going to stay home from now so I need good advice for a good movie night tonight so that I won't explode of boredom and go to bed depressed again!

I've been staying home mostly since summer vacation started and I've gotten so bored! There are not so many places I could go to......Well actually there are, but for some reason I never get to go to them that often! What should I do? I mean, I want to spend much more time with my cousin who lives a few kilometres away and my best friends that are in a different school, too......but my mom usually says no because we apparently have something else to do most of the time, which turns out to be nothing really! Any advice?

Almost every time I want to hang out with my cousin or friends she says it's too sudden but almost all the time there is really no good reason to not let me. Help?!?!

My mom isn't really comfortable with it because it asks for your credit card number and such and I haven't asked my dad yet but still. :( My mom says that she has to give the number of a cheaper card instead of the really expensive ones she usually uses but I still have the feeling that they're not so comfortable with it. I want to order some things from Amazon, any advice?

I want this advice for when I get older (right now I'm almost 13) because even though my mom just may be a little more flexible my dad would probably definitely say no!

Ok so I was at one school from Pre-K to 4th grade (no need to mention the Pre Pre-K) and then my father was sent as an expat to Tokyo so we moved too. We stayed there for two years and I made quite loads of friends there. Now I am back here in my home country but I'm at a different school, and I have some friends here too but that doesn't really matter. So far I've had quite a lot of really good friends but the truly true BFFs I can count are six. Is that too much? I mean, three of them moved to other countries, too (I met them in Tokyo) and the other three are here. They're kind of all over the world. But anyways, should I have less? I've already picked out six really hardly by eliminating a lot of quite really close people already and I'm not sure if I can eliminate any more! Would I look bad if somebody asked me how many BFFs I had and I said that I had six?

Ok so my parents are really nice, they're the best parents I could ever ask for but I guess that I could still use a little bit of advice when it comes to these sorts of situations. There are some things I want to order from Amazon, a pair of Birkenstocks from some other website and another pair of DKNY shoes for my birthday which is in less than two months. Oh, and there was a Diesel jacket and a DKNY bag, too..

See, this is my problem: all these things I want are mostly expensive! The most expensive one is the jacket and I'm not so sure about the bag but I'm pretty sure that that one's probably quite expensive too. My family's financial condition is quite good but still I'm afraid that if I tell them that I want all these stuff they may get mad and think that I am spoilt and that I think I can get everything I want. How can I get these things without breaking their trust?

And, the thing I get pissed of about is that my mom sometimes tells me that we need to be extremely careful about money because we don't have much but the next day they both go and buy Prada and Tod's shoes. Like, in the same day. Does this mean that I can just go to them and tell them all the things I want, as a comeback?