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Wise Heretic
A delicate situation, how should I handle this?
I'm 22 years old, 23 this april. I was born in Texas in april, 1987. i was adopted by an amazing family, and wouldn't of wanted it any other way. The problem is now, my birth mother is more than likely going on 45 years old or so. I cannot locate her personally, I can however locate her family if I want to.
The delicacy of the situation is that she was so enraged at my birth father, the original birth certificate lacks his name. She may not of even told her own family about me, I have no idea if that is or is not the case. She may be married, and again I don't know.
I respectfully, don't want to upset her life and thus haven't approached... anyone connected with her. I have connections to privately track her down, again if i want to.
The reason this is a problem is because I want to find my birth father, and she is the only person who can tell me what I need and want to know.
4 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships1 decade ago