Brittany

Over the summer, my grandfather sent me the bonds that he and my Grandmother saved up ever since I was born. My parents were short on cash so I gave them a little bit. I guess greed got the best of them so after a few months I went from $5,000 to -$9.44. The thing is, when I bring it up they get upset, I really wish that they would start paying me. You have no idea how well that will help me, my mother said that they would start paying me $100.00 a month but that was months ago.

How should I bring this up to them without looking demanding and without them getting upset.

Oh boy, where to start? First off, I am 20 years old, I have worked but can not work at this moment do to my hearing(I have a very hard time understanding people, waiting on hearing aids). Yes, I still live at home, which is an nightmare. I do everything. Cook, clean, laundry, dishes, the yard work. My parents make me do everything for them. When I was working, every single paycheck went to the household, even though I did not want too. Recently, my grandfather sent bonds worth over $4,000. I cashed those to have some money on hand, but no, I had to give them everything, like always. If I did not then my mother will get angry with me.

They take everything out on me, they say that they do not. I get screamed at everyday. They make me feel bad about myself, they make me feel worthless and that I'm stupid. Everything is my fault it seems like.

I really want to leave, but I have no friends, and obviously no money and no where to go. I'm really at the point of leaving and living underneath a bridge or something. I'm losing it living here,

**I LIVE IN PA**

Last year(matter in fact, a year from yesterday), I got into a car accident on my way to work. I wasn't charged with anything until a month later. I was charged for "Disregard Traffic Lane". I moved and lost the ticket, which resulted a warrant for my arrest, which I gotten it taken care of before anything happened which took awhile though.

A month later I got my date, and I was found guilty. Now, the problem is, I don't have the money to pay it. It was due 4 days ago, and no one is returning my calls, so what will happen if I don't pay it? Will my DL get suspended and/or a warrant?

I have been looking for a job for almost a year now. I did work at Wal-Mart for 3 months, but I had to stop due to family issues. Here I am again, I can't find anything, I have applied for jobs, and I don't even get a phone call!

I have gotten e-mails saying I'm not qualified enough, or the position has been filled. What am I doing wrong? Is it because I'm 19 years old, with just a high school diploma?

My 17 year old cousin has gotten a job already!!!! It's very upsetting and I'm at the point I don't care anymore.

I've had a job from May-August, until my family moved. Now, it just seems near impossible to get one! I have tried: Snagajob, Monster,Jobs.com, Lindln(I think it's spelled) and even craigslist.

I have applied to countless jobs, and I haven't been called into an interview. I will get e-mails saying I am not qualified or that positions has been filled.

I'm going to be 19 years old, with retail/cashier experience. It's really frustrating, I'm tired of my parents riding my back about getting one. I'm just having a really really hard time finding one.

I don't know what to do. :(

** I AM NOT ON DRUGS OR ANYTHING LIKE IT**

Well, I am going to be 19 years old soon. I'm tall just about 5"9 and not particular skinny at all, I don't have any friends. When i try to talk to my old friends, we talk for awhile then it just stops. It just makes me wanna say,"Sorry for bothering you". I have never had a boyfriend in my life, I was bullied in school, and made the decision to drop out because of it.

I feel like I wast meant not to have friends, or anything. It sucks! I just feel like my whole life is out of whack, I feel like no one will ever love me or accept me for who I am. I have had some people tell me, it's better not to have friends to avoid the drama. It's boring and sad to go to concerts by yourself, or just go out period.

At a job I worked at, i didn't make any friends there and I always had a feeling people were judging me.

I'm just...I don't know. I want to move somewhere for a new start.

I am going to be 19 years old soon, and I never really had a friend. I would make some and never really keep them, they just stop talking to me. I try and go out and make some, but I never do! I'm tired of going places by myself, I'm just tired of doing stuff by myself.

And on the other hand, I have never had a boyfriend. i just have the idea I'm just ugly and won't be able to get one ever.

I have been trying really hard to make friends but it just never works. :/

I got my first bank account back in May for my first job(I'm 18! :D ) , anyway, it all was going pretty good. I never got into a negative balance until, my mom wrote a check and told me to put it in there. It was for a large amount and it never cleared, because of that they closed it. I have gotten another account for my job, again it bounced(One was actually serious and the other was to get her "lover" home and I didn't know) and they closed it.

What exactly will happen to me because of this? I know it'll effect my credit, and pretty much ruins my chance of opening another account(Which i really don't want too now because of all this).

It's pretty much all my mothers fault.

Does anybody know who this is? :3

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Well, a few minutes ago, I went to sit up in bed and I got a sharp pain in my shoulder and side(LEFT).

I'm 18, healthy and a little overweight.

I'm kinda creeped out, could it possibly be a symptom for the gallbladder(I know it's on the right side). I'm pretty sure my parents do no want to take me to the ER(I don't have a car). I also have some pain in the right should and side just below the rib cage.

Well, I don't have any friends, every time I try to make friends I never keep them. I've never had a relationship before.

My family ignores me.

I'm 18, I would leave but I don't have anybody to go with. Closes family is in CA, they don't want me either. I can't find a job.

I don't know what to do anymore

Its strange, I had some OJ and went to bed. Now, I feel shakey, my lower adobinmal hurts/feels strange, my leegs feel strange and my feet feel cold(touch too) and the rest if my body is hot! Im tired and Im scared :(

It started a few minutes ago, my heart started to get fast, my feet feel cold, my lower adobimal feels wired and I feel wired

Whats going on?

It all comes down to my mother.

A few months ago, she started talking to this guy(Who I thought lived in Italy), but he lives in California. She said that she's going to visit her cousin in California, BUT he got a new job and moved to Florida.

She hasn't been paying much attention to anybody in my family( Me, dad, brother and sisters), she's just glued to her phone texting this guy, she started to wear make-up, sudden weight loss and started to buy newer clothes.

I believe she's going to California to cheat on my dad and lose everything.......How can I confront her?

Tell her now, tonight, in a note or the night I drive her to the airport. I have no clue in the world, my sister and cousin noticed her acting wired also. I know it's none of my business but....I don't want my family to fall apart.

My sleeping schedule was great until I took Norco(Pain reliever I was given for my knee), it made me drowsy and I took a nap.

Now, I'm up all night and sleep most if the day -_- Hoe can I get back into a schedule?

This morning, I told him that my sides hurt. I also said I'm done telling mom because she doesn't do anything(I've asked her a thousands times for an appointment). He started to go in about how she's a bad mother, she doesn't care, she's always shopping for herself, that he's a bad father and such.

I've never said they were bad parents, he told me to go find new parents, again I've never said anything to him.

I'm so sick and tired of my cousin. I wish she didn't live with us anymore.

She took my sister away from everything, she disrespects me. I have to share a room with her; I ask her not to spray perfume(body spray) or hairspray(I also ask her not to paint her nails in the room). It gives me headaches, I'll ask her not too and she still does it!!!!!

I'm so SICK AND F***ing tired of it. What can I do? I've told my parents a thousand times and she still does it. Like earlier, she opens our window wide open(it's cold out) after I closed it, she's doing her nails when i asked her not too.

Since spring is here(woot!), my dad said it'll be a cool project to build a small deck out back. It's a small brick area out back and a little un-leveled. What's the best way to build a small deck?

I am pretty much lost when it comes to this, I do not get it at all! Can someone help me? :3

Last night, my mom asked me to fix her phone(I usually clean out her web-browser, notifications, messages and get rid of some apps she doesn't use. I;ve been doing this for awhile, never seen anything.), and I went to clean out her messages. I saw text messages to a guy, about giving a sensual message(eww) and everything(She's even going to meet him).

I saw text message about her not having her rings on and everything. I'm so freaked out, I don't know what to. Makes me wish, I didn't clean out her phone anymore T-T