Kyle P

I'm 27 years old.   Never been a weed smoker.   Probably tried it 4 times.   About 45 days ago, i smoked some Marijuana with my friend,who smokes a lot.  I took 3 pulls.  And on the 3rd pull, i actually  inhaled it the best way that i could.   5 minutes into us smoking and talking, i started feeling weird: everything was happening in slow motion, seemed like my brain was only retrieving  certain information(i.e: i could hear him talk but all i heard was  "yesterday was a good day...with so much time on my hands. ..when are you going to get the yellow...have you seen the place. .." sentences jumbled up together.  My mind wasnt receiving all of the information around me.   I started freaking out and had a panic attack.   My friends girlfriend took me to the hospital but i was blacking in and out the whole time.   Long story short, they hooked me up to iv and also monitored my heart rate.  They told me that i had a panic attack.   I feel like i had a panic attack because i was high.  I'm never going to smoke weed again .   But what's weird is that that was 45 days ago and since then  I still feel anxious and sometimes begin to feel like I'm going to have another panic attack / sometimes I'll forget what i was saying in mid sentence.  Do you feel like the weed was laced and if so how long will it get out of my system?   Do you feel like I'm over thinking things?   Please tell me what do you think.

I am a 25 year old male. At the age of 16, i was pronounced a minister in training. I was no longer a minister in training when I turned 19 and went off to college. I'm NOT A PERFECT PERSON NOR WITHOUT SIN<---i want to clarify that because I don't want anyone to think that I'm tooting my own horn. I just know that throughout my life, I've never tried to do anyone any harm. Right now is very confusing time in my life:

Right now, I feel like my life is falling apart. Last year, I moved back home to North Carolina thinking that I was going to find better jobs. But I have not found work yet/I've tried to help out family friends as much as I could while I was here but I have not seen anything but betrayal from most of them/my car broke down on me yesterday while I was trying to pick up my cousin but my cousin acted like he didn't care/I have a speeding ticket case that I must go to next week (out of NC). All I know is that I'm trying my best but I don't know if that's enough.

I am an aerobics instructor. I teach a form of Tae Bo with a little military in it. 2 months ago, an old friend asked to meet with me for a business opportunity. She does Zumba in her building. She is a big girl plus she is short(irrelevant unless you consider the following info to be an act of her insecurity). In the city, there are about 6 other Zumba instructors, besides her. She claims to not like the other instructors because of her own personal reasons but she always act like she is friends with them face to face. During the meeting about the business opportunity, she shared with me that she wanted me to bring my aerobics to her building and we would do half Zumba and half martial arts aerobics. Before I came to the building, she was averaging out about 5 people per night. Since I have been doing my aerobics class, the number of her participants have averaged out to about 20-25 people per night.

But that’s not what this post is about: I have known this old friend (Zumba instructor) for about 2 years. She is very nosey. There is a female that I stopped dating last year and started to come to her Zumba class, the female later started coming to my aerobics class. After my aerobics session, I noticed that the ex-girlfriend and the “old friend of mine” would stay after and talk in a low tone and then would stop talking when I come around. I really feel as though they are gossiping about me because I know how the “old friend” is and I know that my “ex” would use anybody to try to get in my business. I’m here only for business. Me and my old friend are under absolutely no contracts. I do feel as though, if I was to ever leave and do my aerobics class elsewhere that her numbers would begin to decline again. Im not using that against her, but moreso the fact that I feel like this is the beginning of some drama. I feel like she is the type of person to befriend everyone but talk negative about everyone while trying to remain the mutual friend between enemies. What could be someone like this, motives?

I am an aerobics instructor. I teach a form of Tae Bo with a little military in it. 2 months ago, an old friend asked to meet with me for a business opportunity. She does Zumba in her building. She is a big girl plus she is short(irrelevant unless you consider the following info to be an act of her insecurity). In the city, there are about 6 other Zumba instructors, besides her. She claims to not like the other instructors because of her own personal reasons but she always act like she is friends with them face to face. During the meeting about the business opportunity, she shared with me that she wanted me to bring my aerobics to her building and we would do half Zumba and half martial arts aerobics. Before I came to the building, she was averaging out about 5 people per night. Since I have been doing my aerobics class, the number of her participants have averaged out to about 20-25 people per night.

But that’s not what this post is about: I have known this old friend (Zumba instructor) for about 2 years. She is very nosey. There is a female that I stopped dating last year and started to come to her Zumba class, the female later started coming to my aerobics class. After my aerobics session, I noticed that the ex-girlfriend and the “old friend of mine” would stay after and talk in a low tone and then would stop talking when I come around. I really feel as though they are gossiping about me because I know how the “old friend” is and I know that my “ex” would use anybody to try to get in my business. I’m here only for business. Me and my old friend are under absolutely no contracts. I do feel as though, if I was to ever leave and do my aerobics class elsewhere that her numbers would begin to decline again. Im not using that against her, but moreso the fact that I feel like this is the beginning of some drama.

I am a 24 year old male. I have been drinking since I was 22 years old. When I’m out at parties (once a month), I’m known as the person who drinks a lot and still remain sober. One of my jobs is a bouncer at a night club, and some nights when we stay after to have an employee after party, they know that I’ll drink 8 Bud light limes within 30 minutes-45 minutes. I am a martial artist currently studying Kempo. Before, when I go to the dojo without drinking anything, I always a problem with targeting and strength and stamina, but for the past 3 months I have been drinking about 3 beers before I go into the dojo and even my Sensei say that I’m getting much better in all aspects. I sometimes feel like beer is like my spinach or my “Superpower Juice”. I’m not saying that I go places drunk and most people can’t even tell when I drink because I don’t act like it nor do I smell like it. Please tell me what do you think?

I am a 24 year old male. My girlfriend is 33 years old. We started dating last year in July. Because of some financial problems, she moved in with me in January. When we first started dating, we were only on a friend’s level until she got to know me. After a while of seeing that I’m not the kind of guy to have sex with any female, she started request more of my attention. Before we called each other boyfriend and girlfriend, she always wanted me to come over and she always wanted sex. Our sexual sessions would only last between 30 minutes to an hour because she’s not used to having sex for a long time. When we started calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend, that’s when our sex life changed. I would get excuses ranging from her fibroid was bothering her to such things as her body is sore from exercising. She moved in with me and now she has her 20 month old daughter sleeping in our bed. I constantly express my sexual frustration but she either claims that she is going to change it or express her fear of me breaking up with her. I really love her; we are supposed to get married in January of 2013. I just don’t know how to get through to her with my complaints.

Currently, I have my daughter a season of Dora the Explorer, Elmo, and she loves Spongebob so I purchased season 1 for her. Can you list some more

I am a 24 year old male. I was friends with a 20 year old female who liked me. I am in the states of North Carolina. In February, I found out that she was selling drugs and I stopped talking to her. I told her that she should leave me alone. Since then, she has sent harassing text messages. She also sent threatening text messages and but my phone did a security wipe since that time. I asked Sprint to send me a copy of the text messages with her actually saying “I will f*ckin kill yu”, but they said that I’ll have to have a lawyer subpoena for that information. Text messages are not stored online.

The past Thursday’s, she has vandalized my vehicle but didn’t harm: 3 Thursdays ago, I find ice cream scrolled on my car, but I have no proof that it was her. Last Thursday, she sprayed my car with silly string and threw 2 eggs on my car---there are 3 of my coworkers who saw her do it…plus, after she was leaving the parking lot from doing her “dirty work”, she was stopped by an officer for driving without headlights on around that same area. (no witnesses) But last night, she actually threw 2 eggs on the screen door of my girlfriends house and ironically 1 hour later, my girlfriend kept receiving (12) private calls and no one would say anything. The police officer filed a report for that night.

Right now, I have 3 cases pending against this female: Protective order, vandalism, and harassing text messages. All I really want is for her to just leave me alone but I fear that my text messages and proof of only one vandalism incident (proof=3 witnesses) may not be enough to proof that I deserve protective order. I must say that if a protective order is not approved then I fear that she may push my buttons to the point that I’ll retaliate with force.

The following are the only text messages that I feel that it is strong enough to help persuade the judge.

I am a 24 year old male who was dating a 20 year old female for 1 year and a half. We broke up in January, but by February she found out that she was pregnant. We broke up because I found out that she stole some money from my family members when we went to visit them for Thanksgiving. Since we have broken up, she has been calling me a dead beat father before the baby gets here. She sends me harassing text messages. 2 months ago, she told her that she has some pictures to give to me from her doctor’s appointment, and when I met her, she tried to fight me and then she threw food on my windows because of a Facebook status that I posted that had absolutely nothing to do with her. Yesterday, she claimed that a female named “Nickie” called her job (Fast food) and told her that I was her boyfriend and that I have been lying to her. I work as a bouncer at a night club as my second job. While I was at work last night, someone “anonymous” put ice cream on my windows. There is absolutely no way to get through to her. I really want to know, what can I do about this situation?

Has a female ever tried to fight you for any reason? What did you do?

To others: if you never delt with the situation, please don't bother to answer. And if you have delt with this type of situation then please answer the question that I asked and not begin ranting about something else.

I am 24 year old male. I dated a female who is 20 years old, for 2 years. We broke up earlier this year. 2 months after we broke up, she found out that she was pregnant (the odds). Since she found out that she was pregnant, she has been trying to talk me into being with her and I decline and she becomes aggressive. She would post Facebook status’s saying things like I’m a dead beat father (she’s only 2 months pregnant). 1AM in the morning, she would call but I wouldn’t answer the phone. She would send a text messaging asking me could I come and get in the bed with her and I’d decline. She texted me Wednesday night asking me to and I decline and she posted a Facebook status saying things like I am a dead beat and I keep playing with her emotions and that I’m not taking care of my responsibilities. This time, I finally retaliated (1 out of 8) by indirectly posting a Facebook status saying “The responsibility of a father is to take care of his child (unborn), not to have sex with you”. Last Thursday, she had an appointment earlier that morning in which she didn’t show up (I waited at the doctor’s office). I went to the gym in the city and she saw my car and she texted me to come outside. I went outside thinking that she went to the doctor’s office late and she wanted to show me papers. But when I came outside and met her at her car, she said “You been talking sh*t on Facebook”. I was shocked because it seemed as if she went out of her way to find me to tell me that. She got out the car and asked what are you going to do and swung at my face. I ducked and tried to put her in the car so that she wouldn’t continue embarrassing herself but she still tried to fight me. I was very angry (because she was making a scene and I never knew how to respond in these type of situations that some females put guys in. When she drove away, she threw mustard on my windows and started sending threatening text messages saying that she would kill me and that she will make my life a living hell. Let’s be honest, 1.)this is about a Facebook status---how mature 2.)Why would someone get upset for doing something to them when they did it to you first plus many times before that before you ever respond? How is a man suppose to respond when a female tries to fight him for some irrational reason?

I am a 24 year old male. I am currently ranked Blue Belt in Kempo. An older gentleman who once taught self defense in the city is currently sick and he contacted me to take his place. I have no idea why. I fought in MMA for 2 years and I did 5 months of amateur boxing and now I’m currently learning Kempo. The event is next Thursday and they have already posted posters and I’m nervous as hell. This event will last 2 hours. What are some tips that you can give to deal with my nervousness. What are some techniques that are a must to teach?

I am a 24 year old male. I had a 20 year old female friend who I used to hang with and try to make her feel good about herself. Her father died last year and I tried to be there for her. I never intended anything more. Later on, she told me that she was attracted to me and she didn’t feel worthy enough to be my girlfriend. I told her that I was flattered but didn’t want to be with her. Earlier this year, I got into a relationship another female and the “20 year old” friend got jealous: she would text me around 2 am at night and started fussing saying “I bet you are not answering your phone because you are with that b****”. I told her to leave me alone and we can no longer be friends but she continued sending hateful text until Saturday. Saturday, she texted me and I told her that she is too young to get a criminal record and if she continue then further actions will be taken. She stopped sending hateful text messages but now she is posting Facebook statuses about me: saying stuff like she (20 year old) was my sideline hoe, and she should have never loved me, and stuff like “guys aren’t sh*t”. We never had sex, never kissed, I never did anything that would have given her the impression that I wanted anything more. She is delusional but what is the possible mental disorder?

I am a 24 year old male who has been dating a 32 year old woman for 2 months. She has a 17 month daughter. Her daughter treats me as if I’m her dad. The woman that I am dating likes having me around a lot. The problem that I am having is boredom (I don’t tell her this). She’s taking 3 online classes and she works: when I come over, we watch TV and we’ll hold each other hand or I’ll hold her. Since Psychology was my favorite subject in school, she gets me to help her with her homework. Even sex (once a week) is rather dull; she doesn’t like having sex for long periods of time, she rather *** and get it over with. She told me that she is falling for me in so many ways and I’m really attracted to her as well, but I do feel as though her time is much occupied. She’s a manager of a company and on her days off, she always find other things to do so I’ll be forced to see her later that night. I talked to her about it but she said that she don’t know what to do. I try to make her laugh, but I think everyone else is better at putting a smile on her face then me… when I’m around, she always have a tired look on her face. I broke up with her 2 weeks ago because I really felt as if she didn’t want to be with me but she cried and begged for me to come back. What do you think I should do?

I am a 24 years old male dating a 30 year old female. We have been dating for about 3 months. We were first friends then she told me how much she was in love with me and she began crying with it. I am a very affectionate man who accommodates my schedule to see her. She claims to want to be around me all the time but she doesn’t show it. When I’m away, she text me sweet stuff that makes me think that she’s going to be lovey dovey when I get close to her but she doesn’t. I met her mother; her 16 month daughter tends to always come to me as if I’m her dad. I always talked to her about not being affectionate towards me and she told me that she would work on it.

What frustrates me is the fact that she was always busy with work but when she got off of work or was off for a day, she felt like she needs to clean the house or do other things to stay busy. I tried to stop talking to her many times before, but she begged me to stay with her. I broke up with her 1 time before because of the lack of affection and attention and I felt like she didn’t want to be with me but didn’t know how to tell me.

I broke up with her yesterday; the night before she talked to me about always being busy and that she have to do this and do that. Lying beside her, she was only touching me with her foot. I got up to go to the bathroom and her “baby-daddy” calls on the phone and she began laughing and joking with him. I got jealous, not because it was him, but because I have to pull teeth to make her smile and there I was hearing her laugh while I’m craving affection and accommodation of her schedule. So I left and I told her to lose my number and she said that she would. I’m starting to miss her, but I feel like it’s the best thing. What do you think?

p.s: The main problem isnt the fact that she's not affectionate, but it was the fact that she desired a certain amount of attention and affection but she didn't give it.

I am a 25 year old man who is dating a 33 year old woman. We have been dating for about a month now but we have known each other for a while. She told me that she fell in love with me last year and never wanted to tell me because she heard that I had a girlfriend. We live only 3 minutes away from each other. We only had sex 3 times within this month and she never gave me oral. At the beginning (very beginning), she wasn’t as affectionate as I am. But after many times of telling her that she wasn’t, she improved a little. I told her about my sex drive and she understood it but sex comes very seldom. My problem is that, we are a one month old relationship but I feel as though we have been married for 10 years. She always wants to be around me and I don’t mind that but when she’s around me, she talks about things that don’t include both of us like work or her family. Maybe this may sound a little cocky or wrong in some type of way (oh well, feel free to judge me), but many females from both of my jobs show that they are sexually attracted to me. I have been faithfully staying in the gym for about 1 and a half years now and I’m proud to say that I weigh 208Ib and I have my six pack abs and the biceps that I always wanted. Surely, she tells me that her coworkers notice my appeal but she never compliments me on it. I don’t know what to do, even after talking to her about these problems. She tells me to work with her, but I just feel like that’s another way to say “get used to it but until then, let’s pretend that I’ll change”. What do you think and suggest?

I am a 25 year old man dating a 32 year old woman for 2 weeks. She has a child and doesn’t keep in contact with the baby father because he was abusive. She tells me that out of all of her relationships, she has never felt this way towards someone but her actions don’t display it. I admit to being very affectionate but I also believe that when someone is attracted to someone that they tend to show it (opinion). Our convos are either about her past or some other random thing_ I have to force the convo to be about us and what she expects. When I asked her ‘how does she expect to be treated’, she gave me a broad answer such as “with respect…I don’t know…the way that you are treating me now”. I really like her not just because of her looks but because she carries herself like a woman and is mature. I tend to ask her about ‘does she consider herself affectionate’ and she says that she has never met anyone like me and that it’s new to her and to please work with her. I told her ok. But I just don’t want to waste her time or my time if this who she really is. I’m unsure of how long I should wait. Please give me your opinions about the situation#