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I'm getting married in just over a month. I don't have a wedding planner and I live in a different city than where my wedding is and both families live. I live with my fiance right now too (about an hour from my family and wedding location and 2 hours from his family). We are both 23.

Everyone keeps telling me they want to help me with the wedding but nobody has. People tell me to just say what I want and how things are going to be, but when I do people yell at me and tell me to leave it alone when it's about my wedding. Everyone that offers to help never follows through but when it was my sister's wedding 2 years ago they were more than willing to help. My bridesmaids can't get along when they are all family.

I just want my wedding to be over. It is more frustrating and stressful than it's supposed to be. My fiance is paying for everything since I can't find a job and even though both sides of the family 100% support us and our decisions, they will not help with anything. Is there a way to get them to help? Can I make this less stressful? I break into tears just thinking about how much I still have to do and how nobody will help even when I ask. Any advice is appreciated.

I love my fiance very much and he is doing the best he can to help, but he works midnights. I'm making myself sick with how stressed I am.

My balloon molly fish has given birth to roughly 20 fry so far. We have her in a fancy breeder net that separates her from her fry. So far she has been in there for about an hour. The light is off in the tank since she was stressed when we put her in there but has still managed to give birth once she calmed down. Just wondering how I know when she is done so she isn't in such a small space anymore.

My fiance and I would like to send out save the dates because the date has changed a few times but is now set in stone and not everyone knows the exact date. His family is coming from about 2 hours away and a lot of my family is out of town also.

We found the postcard style with our picture, names, date, and location of the wedding on the front. We aren't sure what should be on the back where typically a little letter is written. We don't want to put too much information about the wedding because that will be in the invitations (the save the dates also say "invitations to follow").

Should we put how we met or how he proposed? I'm really not sure and I definitely don't want to leave it blank.

Thanks!

My fiance and I just started another tank to get specific fish out of the other tank. It's a 47 gallon tank with, so far, one balloon molly, and 2 dwarf male gouramis. It's a tall tank so we are looking for fish that swim at different levels. No aggressive fish at all, especially tiger barbs.

My vehicle is broken and my boyfriend and dad are arguing about what is wrong with it. I still live at home but go away to college where I am with my boyfriend basically every day. This isn't an issue about who to listen to because I love them both with all my heart and my boyfriend and I already have wedding plans for 2012.

I am just stuck in the middle and listening to them say "No he's wrong" constantly. I'm tired of it and I don't want to blow up on either one of them but I'm about to. What should I do?

I started Monistat 1 today and if I had sex tomorrow, would it be okay? I don't know how long you're suppose to wait and the box doesn't say. I know it says not to use a condom, but I'm on the pill (not looking for a lecture on STD's) so I'm not worried about that.

Also, does the pill just dissolve? Thanks!

I'm in a long distance relationship right now. I'll try to make this short but still give you all the details.

My boyfriend and I live 50 miles apart and have been together for about 5 months. Neither one of us wants to end it, but that's the path we're heading down. We hardly get to see each other because we're both so busy. For the last month I have been extremely stressed with my sister moving out and getting married. That's over now. I'm a lot more relaxed. I tried not to take my stress out on him, but couldn't help it at times. He's been really stressed too about school and his family.

My stress level will go down more once I'm at school in a month. He knows it. He said I'm dragging him down right now. He said tonight we are going to figure out a new way to do things because what we're doing isn't working. It worked for 4 months, and it apparently doesn't work anymore. I'm absolutely crazy about him and he doesn't want to break it off either so that's not an option. What I'm looking for is ways to fix things or ways you see your partner.

Btw, we're both 21, call each other every night and talk for about 20 minutes, and see each other once every 1-2 weeks. Thank you for taking the time. I really appreciate it.

I had sex two days ago and I know I'm not pregnant because he didn't finish and we used a condom. Why am I having sharp pains like this?

With a new guy? I had sex for two years with the same guy I was dating. He was my first. Well we broke up over a year ago and I met this other guy and we started having sex after only 3 months. It was the greatest sex ever and he was a virgin when we started. How is it possible to get him to orgasm too? He's extremely turned on by me, but has unbelievable stamina. Are there any secrets to getting him to orgasm like me during sex? And how is it possible that he can easily get me to finish and have it extremely pleasurable and my ex never could?

Thanks!

I know one of the side effects my boyfriend is looking forward to is the growth of my chest. (He knows because he works in a pharmacy). How much did your chest grow? Was it a whole cup size or just a little bit?

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 and a half months now. We're both 21, have made love to each other, and he knows how much I care about him. I know he feels the same way too. I haven't seen him in two weeks (usually it's about a week at a time) and he came tonight to see me. Well when he left, I felt my heart break and I really want to cry because I miss him so much.

Have any of you had the same problem? I just feel so alone now and he's too far away to go on a whim. Suggestions?

How much time do you spend with your boyfriend/girlfriend? Do you feel like that is enough for the two of you? How far away do you live from each other?

I am going on the pill and need to get the pap smear done first. I'm really nervous about it though. Like I know you can't go while on your period, but what else do I need to know? What if I have sex since my last period, but before the next and my exam is in that time frame? Will that have any affect on it?

I'm super nervous so any advice would be appreciated. Thanks!

I'm trying to figure out what my boyfriend's turn-ons are, but he's not completely sure. He's sexually inexperienced (and he's straight) and I'm trying to satisfy him sexually without just doing the typical bj and taking control. Any suggestions?

Girls, if you know something your man loves, I'm open to anything!

Thanks!

I'm having a lot of life changes right now with my sister moving out and such. I'm also having a really hard time dealing with everything. I'm not sure who to turn to. I have friends, but we are all so busy that we don't have the time to talk about my "problems". And I have a boyfriend, but things are rocky with all this because it's a LDR. I know he cares, but I feel really bad leaning on him like this since we only talk once every few days (scheduling conflicts). My family is also really stressed and not so good to turn to at the moment

I need ideas on ways to manage my stress and emotions without necessarily calling someone and venting on a person. Any thoughts are much appreciated.

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I need to vent because I have a lot going on right now and I can't handle it. I have a great boyfriend that will listen to me, but I feel bad about asking him. We never see each other because we're so busy and live 50 miles from each other. Should I vent on him anyway?

My 21st birthday is coming up and he doesn't know what to get me. We've only been together for 3 and a half months. I don't know what to tell him. I would love a necklace, but he said he would rather not get jewelry because every time he's done that before, the girl left him shortly after (I don't know why, he has good taste in jewelry!).

Any ideas for what I should tell him?

I've never planned a bachelorette party. I need some help with the activities. Any ideas? It's going to be at a house of a relative I know (she knows too). We're not drinking per the bride's request but most of us are 20 and over. There's a couple (in the wedding party) that are a little younger, but no younger than 16. How long should the party be? I was thinking starting with pizza around 6pm. Should it go until like 11? Any ideas would be nice! Thanks!