Candy Floss

Ok so I ve had a grievance raised against me at work. Outcome is I need to write an apology to the complainant. The alleged conversation I m "apologising" for never happened, what do I say?

OK, Long story short.

I met a guy on a dating site and we were meant to be going on our 1st date tomorrow, he texted me on Sunday afternoon asking what I was up to that evening I said not much and so we met.

The original plan was to meet on Thursday and if we got on meet again on the Friday and have a drink

We got on really well but I was TOTALLY upfront and honest with him and said I had another date on Monday - he seemed fine with this. On Sunday late evening he said "oh ive just remembered I cant make Friday anymore what about Saturday" me thinking he is playing the "how available is she game" said oh im really sorry cant make Saturday

We text each other a few times on Monday and spoke last night as he was on his way out with his brother. Anyway, we have sent a couple of texts today and I asked him what time are we going to meet tomorrow, the reply I got was:

Him: whatever time I don't mind

me: shall we say 8?

him: yeah whatever

me: same place as Sunday

him: yeah if u want

By this point I was getting a little annoyed - he wasn't really showing any interest so I text him asking if he was ok - got no reply for over an hour so my last text was

Tell you what, why don't we leave tomorrow, you don't seem that enthused and im sure I can find something else to do xx ;-(

Not heard anything for nearly 2 hours

Have I well and truly blown my chances??

OK, Long story short.

I met a guy on a dating site and we were meant to be going on our 1st date tomorrow, he texted me on Sunday afternoon asking what I was up to that evening I said not much and so we met.

The original plan was to meet on Thursday and if we got on meet again on the Friday and have a drink

We got on really well but I was TOTALLY upfront and honest with him and said I had another date on Monday - he seemed fine with this. On Sunday late evening he said "oh ive just remembered I cant make Friday anymore what about Saturday" me thinking he is playing the "how available is she game" said oh im really sorry cant make Saturday

We text each other a few times on Monday and spoke last night as he was on his way out with his brother. Anyway, we have sent a couple of texts today and I asked him what time are we going to meet tomorrow, the reply I got was:

Him: whatever time I don't mind

me: shall we say 8?

him: yeah whatever

me: same place as Sunday

him: yeah if u want

By this point I was getting a little annoyed - he wasn't really showing any interest so I text him asking if he was ok - got no reply for over an hour so my last text was

Tell you what, why don't we leave tomorrow, you don't seem that enthused and im sure I can find something else to do xx ;-(

Not heard anything for nearly 2 hours

Have I well and truly blown my chances??

Hi all

Ok to cut a long story short, I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, over the last 12 months he has been totally off, selfish and quite nasty.

Staying out all night, for instance he went out on Saturday at 2pm and didn't come home until 6.30pm on Sunday. If I ask where he has been I get told "I don't manage his time". On other occasions he has been half way out of the door and I have asked where he is going and the reply I get is "out".

This has been going on for 12 months, about 2 months ago I asked if he wanted this relationship to work and would he make an effort - he said yes - since then he has done nothing in the way of making an effort. I brought this up with him last night and he said he doesn't see why he has to make an effort and the reason for us not going out as a "couple" any more is because he will only come back pee'd off because of something I will have said.

Anyway, I love him to bits and don't want to call it a day, I know in my heart of hearts for my own sake I need to walk away. Something inside me though is saying stay.

I'm one of these people who likes, no loves the idea of being single and on my own, no one to answer to but the fact is the longer I am single the further into depression I seem to sink. The first couple of months are fine but after that I just loose my head completely.

I'm scared to be alone but know this

Hi all

Ok to cut a long story short, I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, over the last 12 months he has been totally off, selfish and quite nasty.

Staying out all night, for instance he went out on Saturday at 2pm and didn't come home until 6.30pm on Sunday. If I ask where he has been I get told "I don't manage his time". On other occasions he has been half way out of the door and I have asked where he is going and the reply I get is "out".

This has been going on for 12 months, about 2 months ago I asked if he wanted this relationship to work and would he make an effort - he said yes - since then he has done nothing in the way of making an effort. I brought this up with him last night and he said he doesn't see why he has to make an effort and the reason for us not going out as a "couple" any more is because he will only come back pee'd off because of something I will have said.

Anyway, I love him to bits and don't want to call it a day, I know in my heart of hearts for my own sake I need to walk away. Something inside me though is saying stay.

I'm one of these people who likes, no loves the idea of being single and on my own, no one to answer to but the fact is the longer I am single the further into depression I seem to sink. The first couple of months are fine but after that I just loose my head completely.

I'm scared to be alone but know this isn't working for me anymore.

I also have a mortgage pending on a house, which he knows nothing about - ive gone through with it because I know if I don't go, I can rent the house out to a friend who is currently looking and if I do move out she will move in with me for a month or so.

I'm a mess and don't know what to do

Stay or go

I know you are all going to say go and see a mortgage adviser but i figured i would gage the general consensus to my question.

My long term relationship has fallen apart and i need to move out. Ive looked at renting but its just soooooo expensive - even more than mortgage payments would be, so i figured the best thing to do is buy - i cant rent and save at the same time. Money is too tight for that.

I really like this house and its being sold for £99,950, i can afford the mortgage payments but don't have a deposit, the vendor isn't willing to offer a "gifted" deposit and i feel like im stuck with no way out. Is the only way to get on to the property ladder, having a huge deposit?

Every time i try to log into my yahoo email account i get a "critical" message regarding my password.

It's basically asking for an email address to re send a password to should i forget mine. I only have my yahoo account and so ive entered all my details but im now being told that i will no longer be able to access my yahoo account unless i enter a valid email address.

What do i do??

I still have access to my yahoo account but it really worries me that i may loose it, and ive had it for years

Every time i try to log into my yahoo email account i get a "critical" message regarding my password.

It's basically asking for an email address to re send a password to should i forget mine. I only have my yahoo account and so ive entered all my details but im now being told that i will no longer be able to access my yahoo account unless i enter a valid email address.

What do i do??

I still have access to my yahoo account but it really worries me that i may loose it, and ive had it for years

I have my fiends fancy dress birthday party at the end of July. I haven't got a clue what to go as, i want to be something naughty but nice!!

I want to show off my boobs but keep my mid drift covered, don't mind showing lots of leg - in fact i like these costumes but something is stopping me from buying (and its not the price before anyone says anything)

http://www.wonderlandparty.co.uk/acatalog/Fancy_Dr...

http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/PINK-BUNNY-GIRL-HEN-NIGHT-PA...

http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/K2190-Bunny-outfit-fancy-dre...

I have put on a little weight since meeting my bf. I used to bea size 10 / 12 on the bottom and the same up top.

I am now a 14 on the bottom and 12 / 14 up top, my bust has gone from a 32B to 36C. My hips look wider, although im sure they're not.

I some days feel really good (more so when i wear a dress and i can see my curves) other days i feel fat and horrid.

Not to boast but i am fairly attractive and have never had any trouble finding a bloke, now ive added a few pounds i don't seem to get as many looks from guys.

Could it be to do with the fact that i am older (not that old really, only 27) rather than putting on weight?

Its a long one sorry folks

Ive been with my bf for 5 years now, we have always got on really well made each other laugh until tears are streaming down our faces etc.

Recently he seems to be wanting to spend more time away from our home and me. Ive tried to ask him why but all i get is "stop smothering me".

There is more to this story, about 2.5 years ago i thought he was having an affair and more or less had it confirmed when i read a text in his phone - there was a legitimate reason for me being in his phone by the way!!. Since then he has put a pin lock on his phone so i cant "snoop".

He told me some time ago he was going to see a family member and would be staying there over night, i called 6 hours after he had left (for 3 hour journey), the family member told me they weren'tt expecting him. I called again at 11.15pm still no sign of him. I tried his mobile - switched off, got up the next morning, starting calling his family members at 7.30, no answer. To cut a long long long story short he phoned me at 12 mid day the following day to say "oh sorry i stayed at a friends house, i didnt tell you cause i knew you would go mad". Oh by the way, by this point i had called his sister, police, hospitals etc.

Weekends used to be a time we spent together, whether it be slobbing in the house or going out for a meal, drinks, clubing etc. More recently he has been wakeing up and the first thing he says is "im going to see ???( a friend)", this friend by the way he works with so why in gods name would he be going to see him on a Sunday when he see's him in work the next day??

My mind is all over the place, my head says he's having an affair but my heart says otherwise.

Its got to the point where he wont speak to me and so i had to resort to emailing, he has agreed to "talk" tonight but truth be told i dont know what to say that i havent already said. Ive asked him to not tell any lies, be honest and truthful and just tell me if he is having an affair. He always denies it but why is he WANTING to spend so much time away from our home and me. No im not a nagging gf i just want to know where i stand, this has been going on fro far too long.

I feel physically sick with worry all the time, its starting to make me ill

Its a long one sorry folks

Ive been with my bf for 5 years now, we have always got on really well made each other laugh until tears are streaming down our faces etc.

Recently he seems to be wanting to spend more time away from our home and me. Ive tried to ask him why but all i get is "stop smothering me".

There is more to this story, about 2.5 years ago i thought he was having an affair and more or less had it confirmed when i read a text in his phone - there was a legitimate reason for me being in his phone by the way!!. Since then he has put a pin lock on his phone so i cant "snoop".

He told me some time ago he was going to see a family member and would be staying there over night, i called 6 hours after he had left (for 3 hour journey), the family member told me they weren'tt expecting him. I called again at 11.15pm still no sign of him. I tried his mobile - switched off, got up the next morning, starting calling his family members at 7.30, no answer. To cut a long long long story short he phoned me at 12 mid day the following day to say "oh sorry i stayed at a friends house, i didnt tell you cause i knew you would go mad". Oh by the way, by this point i had called his sister, police, hospitals etc.

Weekends used to be a time we spent together, whether it be slobbing in the house or going out for a meal, drinks, clubing etc. More recently he has been wakeing up and the first thing he says is "im going to see ?%

With his birthday being so close to Christmas and New Year i might find it difficult to arrange a suprise party. He likes travelling but at that time of the year its soooooo expensive - not that im being tight or anything, i dont mind spending the money so long as its right - Any ideas??