Hayz

Ok I don't want anyone judging me, I just wanna shed some light on my situation.

I have PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome) so I know it's hard for me to conceive, although not impossible.

Last year I bled for 5 months straight. I have been on noristerone tablets for a year now to control my periods. Doctor recommended taking them every 3 weeks then stopping them for 1 week to have a break and to have a bleed then continue taking them again.

I'm a bit of a mess at the moment and urgently need advice.

Last Friday (9days ago) I had unprotected sex. A few days after I had cramps like I was going to come on my period, which isn't normal while I am taking these tablets as they delay a period.

I done some research on Google and it said that 12-14 days before your period is when you are highly fertile. I calculated from then to when I should have my period. ( stopped noristerone today for my weeks break so should come on weds/thurs) counting back to when I had unprotected sex it would of been between 12-13 days before my period was due.

I am feeling extremely tired, getting really bad cramps and sore breasts. I get waves of nausea throughout the day although I haven't been sick yet. A few days after sex I noticed some brown discharge, almsot like old blood. My nipples are really dark and sensitive, and today I have noticed visible blue veins around my breasts. I am constantly worrying everyday what is wrong with my body, it just doesn't feel right at the moment.

I am a 23 year old female and never had chicken pox before as a child.

I was playing with my 4 year old cousin today for about an hour and she has had chicken pox for about 3-4 days now.

Have I now got a big risk of catching shingles? As I know that's what it's called in adults.

Also if so how would I know I have it. How long would it take to develop? And what should I look out for?

In the last 2-3 weeks I have broken out in a lot of spots that are showing no signs of healing whether I pop, pick or leave them. The doctor prescribed me duac gel and I thought at first it was disappearing. All the gel has now gone and spots are dry and worse then ever. They looked infected too. My face feels dry and tight because of the gel. I really want them gone or slightly less red and raised by Friday (tomorrow night) as I am going out and will be wearing make up.

I know makeup will probably irritate it more though.

I have previously tried sudocrem for the dry spots that won't seem to heal but when I wake up in the morning the spots look even worse and need popping.

I have put some double base cream on my face for now which I am hoping will made the redness go away. I have tried tea tree spot stick, even an alcohol based perfume or hand gel which I have been told helps.

I wash my face with either clean or clear or neutrogena every night.

These spots are the ones you sometimes get before or when starting a period ( I've been on my period for over 4 months so that's maybe why I constantly have spots)

Any advice will be appreciated!

Last night this guy invited me over to his saying we can kiss and cuddle and have some fun. It was our first time meeting after talking for a few months. He text me earlier in the day saying he couldnt wait to see me and would always put 'xxxx' after a text.

When we met and went to his flat (he lives 10 mins walk away) it was kinda awkward. Hes 30 and im 23. we didnt talk for a while i think we were both shy and nervous.

He looked better than his pictures, and i was worried he didnt like me cos im not a skinny model with big boobs im a big girl with glasses.

Anyway we watched a movie and he put his arm round me..He wouldnt of done that if he didnt like me right?

It was getting late and he said hes gonna have to call it a night soon as he is working in the morning. I like this guy alot and wanted to kiss him but was too shy to make the first move.

Anyway it was about 11pm and i said i was gonna go cos he kept hinting he had to be up early. As i was going out the door I said see you later and he said good luck with your driving test. He hasnt text me at all. I text him about 7pm today saying 'hey you ok? x' and he hasnt text back.

I feel so emotional cos i kinda like him and this has happened with a guy before, the other guy i met months ago and messaged him the next day and havent got nothing back yet.

Is it me? Was it because we didnt talk much due to being shy and nervous?

When we were sitting on the sofa i felt his leg shaking maybe he was nervous too. Or maybe when he met me face to face he thought i didnt look as good as he maybe thought. But then he wouldnt of put his arm round me during the movie?

This is quite confusing and embarrassing. but for over 4 months i have been bleeding constantly. Its basically been a really heavy period. I had the depo-provera injection that lasts for 12 weeks. I was told this is what was causing my bleeding. I was due to get another injection on 15th october but decided against it as the bleeding could happen again. I went to my doctors last week (2 weeks after the injection wore off) and he prescribed me 90 noristherone tablets (take 3 times a day for a month) I thought i would take them a few weeks after to see if i stop bleeding.

Well lo and behold the bleeding was slowing down on the day i went to the doctor to get these tablets. But it hasnt fully stopped, I will wake up and have a clean pad then go throughout my day and by night time theres a little dry blood, like a period about to finish but its been happening everyday for over a week now. So today i decided to start taking my noristherone. I took this tablet over 3 years ago before as i was hemorrhaging badly. Also i should mention that i have polycyctic ovaries.

I have read online that doctors should prescribe only 30 tablets (10 day course)

Im just wondering what to do for the best. I have all these worries going through my head and im only 23.

Should i take it for 10 days and see what happens? Will taking them trick my body into regulating my period after bleeding constantly for 4 whole months? Can i still get pregnant while taking noristerone?

Also i had a blood test to see whether i was anaemic, which everyone thought i was due to the amount of blood loss i have had plus i was always tired. the results were negative but came back positive for abnormal seratin levels whatever that means?

I just want someone to shed some light on this situation. I cant have the injection again as i dont want to risk another 4 months of bleeding but i need to be on some sort of contraception.

If you would like to know anymore questions please ask.

My cat had surgery on friday to remove his eye and also to be castrated. Before this he was an outdoor cat for 2 years and would come back to eat outside about twice a week and then go again and we would not see him for days at a time.

Since surgery we have left him in the kitchen with a bed and food and kept all other cats away from him.

This morning he managed to get out when someone opened the back door and we ran after him but he ran away into neighbours gardens.

He has to go to the vets tomorrow to get his bandages remove as it could get infected.

im so worried about him. Hes basically a wild cat and isnt used to being in the house and kept crying to go out.

Will he come back? or is he too traumatized by the surgery that he wont ever come home?

ive heard lots of different things online and im so worried.

I don't need anyone to tell me I should have been more responsible owner.

I have 5 cats, 2 girls & 3 boys. Dougie is 4 and today he came in the house and I noticed his left eye was bulging out and covered in blood. I rushed to the out ofhours vets and he confirmed the worst, dougies eye would need to be removed.

I have no idea how it happened as I saw him a few days before and he was fine

Dougie is a big fluffy black cat. He's an out door cat and we see him 2-3 times a week usually. He's a born hunter cat and comes back covered in scratches as cats do. He has not been neutered yet.

Some of the cats are outdoors cats and sometimes we don't let them In as they spray all over the house, we used to shut them in the kitchen but they still spray so they spend their time and eat outside.

i can't stop crying about dougie and feel as if its my fault.

People have told me the operation will be expensive and that I should put him to sleep which I refuse to do. Besides his eye he's a healthy cat.

All the cats live at my mothers and I find it upsetting that they are just confined to one room (the kitchen) and my sister moans that they poo, wee & spray everywhere do they're not allowed to roam free around the house.

I haven't really spent time with him in over a year or given him much attention so I don't know what he's like (eg; personality, temperment, behaviour)

If you could answer my questions I would be grateful.

How much roughly will it cost for the operation? (UK)

Can they neuter him at the same time or is it too risky?

If they neuter him will he stop spraying altogether?

Will he be a totally different cat personality wise after the op?

His life and our lives are going to change to accommodate his handicap.

How is he going to cope?

I wonder if someone could answer this for me, I'm a bit clueless.

Right...A female is born with like a million eggs..then when they hit middle aged them eggs run out and they go through the menopause.

Well what if a female had a period every 2 weeks that lasted for 2 weeks.

Does this mean they will start the menopause early..run out of eggs and become less fertile????

My friend was messing about with a hoover yesterday and she put it on her cheek and it sucked half of her lip in and after she took it off her lip was purple and looked bruised. Can anyone tell me why and what will happen and when it will go?

Nearly 2 years ago now I didnt wear glasses but could still see. I went for a random eye test and they said i was short sighted so i was prescribed glasses. I could still see normally tho just not things far away. Whenever i take my glasses off now its all blurry, its like the glasses have ruined my eyesight.

I was thinking about trying contact lenses cos glasses are starting to annoy me now,,they fall off, and when ive been out and come back in they steam up..i hate it!

Also ive thought about laser eye surgery but ive seen videos and its kinda scary.

what would you suggest is best in the long term?

I moved to a new flat in a town 4 miles away about nearly 3 months ago now. Well my tenancy started on 23rd may. And I didnt stay for a night until a month after that. I couldnt stay on my own at all..i did try but had a panic attack and went back to my mums. It was my 1st time moving out ever and lived with my mum and sister in a family home that i lived at for as long as i can remember,

I tried staying on my own again about 3weeks ago and i did it. I was kinda proud of myself.

I love the flat and the area is quite nice but i hardly know anyone. My sister is older than me and 32weeks pregnant and we have been close all of our lives and she lives with my mum still.

I feel isolated and alone at the flat.

I have not done a full week there..i usually stay 4-5 days on my own and then back to my mums for a bit then i go back to the flat again. This has been going on for over a month even when my siser used to say with me there.

I get really scared there on my own and I hate it so much.

My cousin and his fiancee helped me decorate it for me and i really dont want to move as they think i dont appreciate it and im selfish. It costs me £13 to my mums by taxi..i have to get a taxi as i have clothes and my kitten with me.

Would it be selfish and bad of me if i moved into another flat in my mums town so i was nearer to them again?

Im inbetween 2 minds. please help

I am depressed and dont eat much at my flat, what scares me most is the fact of being alone. and i often fear of dying.

i am only a 20 year old woman and most ppl my age have moved out but im finding it so hard

I've been racking my brains because I watched a film more than 10 years ago on a video and cant seem to remember the name of it.

This is what i remember of it:

There was 3 fat guys..2 black and 1 white. They stay in this massive house belonging to an old man and look after him. They mess about in his house and break things.

The white guy falls in love with this maid and she gives him something like spinach to eat so he goes on a diet.

The 3 guys take the old man out ice skating in his wheelchair and they all fall over and laugh.

The main bit i remember is that they all sing this song and mime it..and 1 fat black guy hits this suit of armour and sings to the song and looks into the camera and says "tell me how does it feel". It must of been an 80s/90s film.

please help!!

I got 2 tattoos on Tuesday (6days ago) and they were in the process of scabbing. 1 is behind my ear and it really irriated so i picked it. will it be ok?

also..i have 1 on my arm i havent picked..but my cat attacked me today and scratched it in 2 places and the scabs have come off. what do i do?

do i go back when its fully healed to get a retouch..or will it be ok?

I had 2 tattoos. And yesterday (Tuesday) I got 2 more new tattoos. 1 is on my forearm under an old 1 I have. And 1 is 2 music notes behind my ear..I was told to not get it wet and wash my hair over the bath/sink..Im useless at doing that so I had a quick bath. I washed my hair with shampoo and conditioner and dabbed the tattoo behind my ear with a towel before i put conditioner on and after..and after i got out of the bath... Is this okay? Its dry now though.

Also..i need to dry my hair with a hairdryer..should i use a cold setting if i dry near the tattoo?

Oh and finally..i was advised to use sudocrem. I find it too thick and when i apply it i see bits of the tattoo coming off..so i have started to use savlon antiseptic cream..its thin and dries quicker.

Any help/advice would be appreciated..thanks x

Basically...we got 5 cats...Last thursday we gave away 2 of them who are sisters and have been together since birth and are roughly 3-4 yrs old. Today the new owner rang us up saying one of them (the smaller 1) who we call scabby is not eating..and is attacking her sister and there other cats..and is also hiding..so she brought her back. we now have her back with us but not her sister..but she is not acting like she was before..she is more distant and less loving and affectionate...she has eaten a little bit but not like she used to. will she return to normal after a few days..or not as her sister isnt here? also how long do we leave her indoors until we can let her out like before..as she has been through a terrible shock??

Last night i tried to download facebook chat and my phone just turned off. It wont turn on at all..ive connected it to usb and im trying to update it on blackberry software manager..(ive searched numerous websites and they all said to update it or something) it keeps saying the phone isnt connected and wont work...is there any other way to fix my phone? please help

Right..basically..my cousin just rang me and there was a cartoon in the 90s..maybe 80s that he remembers slightly..but he cant remember what its called,,its been racking his brains all day.

Basically its about these animals..including a baboon (he was very specific on that) and they're on an island..that is being moved by volcanic lava?

Does anyone know what hes talking about LOL..maybe he just dreamed it but I wanna know if its an actual cartoon. I will vote best answer lol

Basically I got a colored tattoo redone yesterday on my wrist cos it faded the 1st time i had it done..and i dont have a shower only a bath..ive been looking up on tattoo aftercare and saw that i shouldnt have a bath until like after a week..and its impossible to use 1 hand in the bath..would it be ok if i have a quick 10minute bath or could i put cling film over it until im finished???

Okay..ive got 2 tattoos..1 on each wrist...my 1st one is a paw print with tiggy underneath it (my cat) and another pawprint underneath lol. and my 2nd is a pink leopard print star.

Right..im a HUGE cat lover and i really want a real life portrait of my cat joey tribbiani (yes i named him off F.R.I.E.N.D.S!) basically im no artist so i cant draw it myself..so how do i go about getting someone to draw one for me....will a tattooist draw one for me if i took a picture in?

or is it possible for any of you guys to do it for me?

Let me know please!!!!

Oh and also i want my name in chinese on the back of my neck..but i have a mole there..can a tattooist do it over the mole or do i need the mole removed...urgh i hate moles!

Your help is much needed! x

I used Nair Hair Removal cream on my face last night....I applied it thinly under my chin/neck and around my jawline..It stung a bit and i decided to take it off after about 5 minutes and it started to burn really badly. It didnt take off all the hair but most of it and the area was swollen and sore and I thought nothing of it and just cleaned the area with cool water and went to bed. When I woke up my chin area and neck area below the chin was covered in angry red spots/blotches and was still burning severely. I again cleaned it with cool water and wiped the red marks..which came off at first so I guess it was dry blood. And then after 10mins they appeared again. I had to go out and applied my make up and used clean and clear moisturiser and the soreness seemed to go away. While I was at a friends house i looked in the mirror as I felt a painful sensation on the area. And it seems to have spread more and my skin is cracking. It is slowly spreading to my neck. It really hurts and is red raw like a rash..I havent scratched it at all and have only patted it lightly. Also the hair has seemed to grow back almost 24 hours later and the whole area feels stubbly and it feels as it 100 needles are sticking out of my neck/chin area.

Is this a chemical or a allergic reaction..or even a chemical burn? Can someone please help me as it is getting irritating to sleep?

Also do I ring the Nair company up and ask advice?